Why can't I get married on the 158th day of the first month?

It is a folk custom not to get married in the first month. In the past, it was very bad and taboo to get married in the first month. So why not get married in the first month? What's the point of getting married in the first month? Let's take a look with Bian Xiao.

Why can't I get married in the first month?

First, it is unlucky. In ancient times, there was a saying that men and women got married in the first month, which was too old for their children and grandchildren, so few new people got married in the first month.

Second, it is not festive. The first month of the lunar calendar is the season of ghost marriage, because the first month of the underworld is the same as the dead, and everything in the underworld can come to the dead. So, when you see a wedding in the middle of nowhere, don't stop to see if there is anyone around. If there are many people around, it means the wedding of the dead. If there is no one around, you are the only one, or people around you don't respond when they see the wedding procession. Do you feel horrible?

Third, it is not conducive to the happiness of families and members. You can't get married in the first month and get engaged in the twelfth month, otherwise the husband and wife can't grow old together. Marriage is rarely in the first month of the lunar calendar, and engagement is rarely in the twelfth month. Because marrying a daughter-in-law in the first month will hinder her in-laws' affairs, and getting engaged in the twelfth month will defeat her in-laws' affairs, there is a proverb: "Just don't marry, don't order." But whenever you get married, you must choose a good day. Moreover, a few days before the date is chosen, the man must invite the matchmaker to the woman's house to inquire about the girl's "little life." That is, the date of the monthly letter falls in the first half or the second half, so as to choose an auspicious day. It is said that if the bride writes every month at the time of marriage, there is a saying that "the red horse goes to bed and the family is ruined", so everyone attaches great importance to it. If the groom is young, his parents must earnestly warn him not to cross the festival before entering the bridal chamber, lest the bride get pregnant on the wedding night, then the child born is called "Maimenzi", which is unlucky. So "choosing a day" is very important.

Fourthly, there is a folk saying that mice get married on the third day of the first month, and Zhong Kui also married her sister to Du Ping on New Year's Eve.

In fact, these are folk customs, and the new society pays attention to new fashion. As long as two people have deep feelings and meet the conditions for marriage, they can still marry their families. Of course, both parents should be satisfied, and they should not be entangled in marriage. In fact, there are many people who get married in the first month now. The Chinese New Year is already very festive, and the prosperous days are even less prosperous. #p# Subtitle #e#

What's the point of getting married in the first month?

1. Avoid traditional solar terms. Isn't there twenty-four solar terms in China? Don't think it is a good thing to hold a wedding in this traditional solar term. Actually, it is not. Newcomers should avoid traditional solar terms when they get married. There are two solar terms, beginning of spring and rain, which should be avoided during the Spring Festival.

2. Avoid going through weddings and funerals. Although it is the Spring Festival, it is inevitable that there will be white weddings, so we should try our best to avoid the intersection of weddings and funerals. Of course, happy events and happy events cannot cross! If you choose a friend who got married before, try not to attend the wedding of a friend who got married after the Spring Festival.

3. Pay attention to the horoscope of the couple's parents. This is about China's traditional choice of auspicious days. Generally speaking, we should pay attention to the date of birth, zodiac signs and other issues of newcomers and their parents. Getting married is not just about two people.

I showed you the relevant contents of this article, and everyone knows why we can't get married in the first month. I hope I can answer your question.