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Can I get engaged before and after Dragon Boat Festival?

Couples want to get engaged around the Dragon Boat Festival. Is it convenient now? The engagement is before the Dragon Boat Festival, so how should we spend the Dragon Boat Festival after the engagement?

1. Can I get engaged around the Dragon Boat Festival?

Of course.

First of all, many people are afraid of getting engaged for the Dragon Boat Festival wedding ceremony, because this is the anniversary of Yang Gong's death, and everyone thinks that marriage is unlucky and needs to be avoided. Then it is ok to get married around the Dragon Boat Festival, and there will be auspicious days in the yellow calendar.

You can get married by choosing an auspicious day around the Dragon Boat Festival, but it also means a good day to get married, so you can get engaged around the Dragon Boat Festival, but you should avoid the three months of the lunar calendar when you get engaged, because these three months are Tomb-Sweeping Day, Magnolia Festival and Chonggong Festival, which are all traditional "ghost festivals". Everyone knows that if you don't get married on Halloween, you have to avoid such an unlucky month.

Second, the Dragon Boat Festival after engagement

1. Gift

Of course, the Dragon Boat Festival is after the engagement, which is also the first Dragon Boat Festival after two people formally establish a relationship. In many places, there is a saying that people return to their parents' homes during the Dragon Boat Festival. At this time, as new uncles, people must prepare gifts to visit their future father-in-law to show their respect for their parents.

2. International Women's Day

Of course, some places also call the Dragon Boat Festival Women's Day, which means that girls will go back to their parents' home to accompany them. No matter what the reason, girls should go home to accompany their parents at this time to show filial piety.

3. Do you want to go to the woman's house during the Dragon Boat Festival?

Statement 1: Go

If the relationship between the two sides has been confirmed, or the relationship between men and women is friends, then the man needs to go to the woman's house for the holidays in order to show respect, and at least bring some small gifts to show his concern for the other side.

Statement 2: No.

If it is only a simple relationship between men and women, unless both parents agree to the relationship, they can not go. Of course, there are no such customs in some places, so they can respect local customs.

Summary:

I hope the above answers can help you solve the problem of engagement around the Dragon Boat Festival and whether to go to the woman's house after engagement.