Would rather let people stop mourning their homes than lend them in pairs?

This is a common saying ~ that is to say, a person's family would rather stop mourning for others than have sex in their own home, especially in their own bed. This is a big no-no, and the owner will have bad luck for a long time.

To abstain from mourning is to oppose reburial and waste of property, and advocate that the body will rot quickly and return to nature.

Some people don't object to heavy burial in theory, and even advocate it, but they don't practice it in practice.

They simply buried the dead at home, or left them in public places such as temples, so that they could not be buried in the ground. They can't bury them until a few years later, even 10 or 20 years later. This is to stop mourning, not to bury them.

Sima Guang pointed out in Jia Fan that at that time, people believed in the geomantic theory of Yin and Yang, saying that to choose the best auspicious land as the burial place, we should choose the auspicious day of the ecliptic as the burial time, which was difficult to satisfy at the moment.

Zhuang Chuo, who was in the Song Dynasty, also said that people at that time paid attention to burial. "When you believe in it, burial tastes far away, so you should cherish the funeral savings, stop the family burial, don't draw it, put it on the coffin, and count all the cases."