The greatest achievement in life: turning love into a career

On 20021,I got to know Mr. Hongdan and participated in the teacher's zero-based writing training camp, which aroused my strong interest in writing, so I made an appointment with the 2022 member of Hongdan Writing Institute on 20021.

Teacher Hong Dan turned his beloved writing into a career, which is the greatest success!

I am a person who is not good at expressing myself. Although, in a popular phrase, I may be a patient with "social arrogance", although people around me will think I am gentle and considerate, and although I have many friends, I am really not good at expressing myself.

I have always used Buddhism to describe my way of doing things. I always thought it was a commendatory term, but recently I suddenly found it more like a derogatory term. Because "Buddhism" means that there is no pursuit and no goal, no matter what, it always passively accepts and chooses to escape when encountering difficulties. ...

I also choose Buddhism in interpersonal relationships, but I don't know that interpersonal relationships, like flowers and plants, need careful care. I always say I'm not good at growing flowers. It is conceivable that Buddha flowers are probably full of luck! Fortunately, my friends didn't "raise si" without me.

Last week, I got together with my college classmates in Yangzhou. I haven't seen them much since graduation. Three mothers with different occupations and different personalities chatted endlessly together. When we talked about advertising in her circle of friends, she said that I was the only one who advertised in her circle of friends without being blocked.

I am curious. I asked them why they didn't block me. She said that she just thought that the content I sent was just what she needed sometimes, such as books recommended for children, such as some household items ... To sum up, I probably really helped others and got my own life instead of advertising, so I was left behind.

Sometimes I always feel that there are many things in my mind, and sometimes I have a whim, but those fleeting thoughts can't stay. I want to write about them, but I never know where to start.

For example, on this trip to Hangzhou, if I come back to write a sentiment that day, I think I can at least write 1000 words, but I didn't write it, so I don't know where to start after a while.

Over the years, I have always liked buying books, but I seldom have time to settle down and read. Although I use my spare time to listen to Fan Deng every day, those are just listening, and there is no in-depth immersion learning.

Last year, I participated in teacher Hong Dan's zero-based writing training camp, and I found that I could write. Being here with teacher Hong Dan, I realized that writing actually has little to do with Chinese achievement. Materials can be accumulated, methods can be learned, and only actions are the most important!

I especially like this sentence: what is missed is not important, and what is important will not be missed.

Since I entered the annual member community on February 22, 65438, I have been infected step by step and moved step by step. What impressed me was not only the personal charm of teacher Hong Dan, but also the learning atmosphere and rigorous and lively operation mode of the whole community.

I think this is what I like and what I need because I don't want to miss it.

On the first day of New Year's Day holiday, the annual membership started, but in fact, we began to learn to punch in from the preparatory period of three courses. Let the students prepare first, physically and psychologically, determine the learning goals and find the learning rhythm that suits them. One of the most frequently heard words in the community is: learn actively, don't be transparent in the community, be yourself!

After finishing the preparatory course, we began to get up early and were read by friends in the club. Every day, excellent friends lead us to read a chapter. The first book is micro habits.

From the excellent students, we not only learned the essence of the book, but also learned their own cases and feelings, which made us know more about the contents of the book. I think the thinking questions in each class are a particularly good link, which can guide everyone to think actively and further internalize.

In addition to morning reading, there are excellent students' thoughts in the club every night, which also gives people a special sense of belonging. Every day, we can draw energy from a small theme.

Of course, this is not all. Teacher Hong Dan practiced with her own actions, and the harder she worked, the luckier she became. Since the opening of the camp on June 65438+1 October1,teachers have been infecting us with their own actions, punching in early, writing early, summing up and sharing at night, and live broadcast on official WeChat account ... In such an atmosphere, it is difficult to learn!

At the opening ceremony, I collected a lot of golden sentences and shared them with you:

Appear in other people's lives, like a gift, extremely altruistic.

"What saved me, I will also use it to save others."

Be a little friend with dreams in his heart, light in his eyes and wind in his actions, and live a better life.

Action is the best way to solve anxiety.

If things are going to change, you must change yourself first.

Insist on being a long-term activist, and you will meet a better yourself.

There is no collapse in life, and there is no life that can directly reach the top. Only by continuous accumulation and quantitative change can qualitative change be caused.

Every step you take is very important, and every effort you make will not be in vain.

Life has an end, but words can travel through time and space.

Write if you want to contribute.

If you want to write well, then change it.

If you want to change, then do it.

Making yourself better is the key to solving all problems.

When you feel difficult, you are going uphill. You must stick to it and go to the next high point.

Great dreams are not to be waited for or shouted, but to be spelled out!

Never let dreams interfere with reality, and slowly accumulate capital to change reality.

Have a dream, insist on writing, have love, and the future can be expected.

Only when you are beautiful can you be worthy of beauty.

I like myself very much. I can be anyone.

Give full play to your passion and grow into your best appearance!

Reading is the fastest shortcut to success;

Writing is a life-changing weapon.

There is no failure in life, either gain or learn.

In the club, I want to be a proactive person, don't dive into transparency, don't think that club activities have nothing to do with you, and don't think that I just need to learn to write silently. I believe that no matter what you do or participate in, you will either gain experience or learn knowledge.

The biggest failure in life is not to participate and not to give up.

Those who achieve great things are willing to do small things. What you think is irrelevant to you may be of great value to you one day. Don't give up easily, be a hard-working and determined person, and your mission will be achieved.

It's not when you start, but when you start.

Master Hongdan said: Action is superiority. A man who acts fiercely is almost invincible.

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These are only part of the opening ceremony, from which I extracted my key words for 2022, that is: concentration, extreme altruism! Concentration is what I lack most at present, and altruism is what I have been doing. These two are the key words of everything I do in 2022.

The word micro-habit is strange to us. Can I use epiphany to describe my feelings? It's like being locked in a dark room for a long time, and then someone opens a window for you. That feeling is really super good!

According to the method of this book, I also ordered a micro-habit plan for myself:

1, exercise plan: skipping rope every day 1 min.

I am a woman who doesn't like shopping. I feel sleepy when I go shopping. I prefer to decide what to buy before buying. But I like outdoor activities very much, like hiking and mountain climbing, but I feel trapped in the education industry in recent years.

I am not only trapped in my body, but also trapped in my heart. I have always wanted to exercise, but I can't put it into action. There are too many obstacles to prevent me from carrying it out. I don't have time, I don't want to move, I don't know what exercise to do, and I feel bad after trying some exercises. ...

I didn't know until I read this book that it was not that I couldn't change my habits, but that my methods were wrong. Micro-habit is to do something insignificant from an early age. The author started with push-ups and insisted on fitness for decades, because simple steps are easier to be ignored by the brain.

Skipping rope 1 minute, I don't have to think about whether I can do it, because I know I can definitely do it, and it's much easier to skip thinking.

2, reading plan: read two pages a day, share the reading notes of the day, unlimited words, just share.

I have been reading the book "Cereal Brain" recently, because I think it is helpful to the health of me and my family. The books on attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and the diet plan for depression have all been ignored by us.

But because there are too many obstacles, I can't stand it. Now I plan to share two pages of my reading notes every day, no matter how many words there are. Finally, this "not counting words" let my brain relax its vigilance, focusing on reading and sharing, ignoring the content, and it was much simpler immediately.

3. Write a letter to your child. There is no limit to the number of words, as long as you insist on writing.

I just started writing letters to my children in February 65438. Before we start, there are actually all kinds of worries. I write every day, so I have a lot to write. So I set myself a writing goal, even if it's just a "good night", it can convey my love and my determination to do something.

4. Writing plan: updated every day (unlimited words)

I used to order 100 words a day, but I found that I didn't finish it in two days. Today I changed it to "unlimited words", but I can't stop talking! Isn't it amazing? This is a simple little step!

5, tidy up the home: collect a small corner every day.

I'm not good at storing and organizing things. I like to leave things lying around, which often leads to I can't find them, and sometimes I can't bear to throw them away, resulting in more and more things. These two days, I saw some friends form the habit of doing a housework every day, such as cleaning the table. This suddenly inspired me.

These five micro-habits are carried out at the same time, and I feel no pressure, which is also the advantage of micro-habits. We often say to cultivate one good habit at a time, because too much will distract attention and energy, but it is not easy to do it.

But micro-habits can be cultivated at the same time, because those actions are too trivial and easy to do.

So how can micro-habits help us form good habits? We all know that the brain can be divided into left brain and right brain, but there are actually conscious brain and subconscious brain.

Conscious brain likes to think, but it consumes energy and is not easy to persist, while subconscious brain likes to repeat and do it simply and rudely without thinking, just like eating and sleeping.

We need these two brains to cooperate with each other to help us form good habits. First of all, let the subconscious brain fall in love with the instructions of the conscious brain, and start to change from a small step, so that the instructions of the conscious brain become repeated actions of the subconscious brain, so as to form new habits!

Now I have begun to read the second book and grow up for life. I read and heard this book in Fan Deng a long time ago, but I didn't read it deeply. I learned a lot by reading with you this time.

I am especially grateful for reading "Welcome Claire" today. Today, we learned the third chapter of lifelong growth. This book mainly talks about two kinds of thinking: fixed thinking and growth thinking.

Today, "Claire Yue Lai" shared how she practiced growth thinking, which reminded me of my cousin, who is also in Suzhou Park.

I think she graduated from a junior college and worked hard in Suzhou. There is no English level, no TEM-4 and TEM-8, only an ordinary junior college student with CET-3.

At the end of recruitment difficulties, she had the opportunity to enter Honeywell. She started as the most ordinary clerk, earning 800 yuan for half a year, because the company just needs people badly, and she is not highly praised.

Her post needs someone who is good at professional English, but she has stayed by her own diligence and hard work. Through continuous efforts, she can now have a video conference with foreigners directly.

Laid off in the economic crisis in 2009, she also stayed and successfully recommended her husband to join the company's production department. In recent years, the company has been laying off employees, and both of them have been recognized by the company by their own efforts. Today, I am particularly moved. I think she is also a good practitioner of growth thinking!

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