Is engagement necessary? What is the process of engagement?

Is engagement a necessary condition for every couple to get married? What is the general process of engagement? Do you need to choose a good day for your engagement? What should I pay attention to when choosing an engagement date?

Is engagement necessary?

Generally, it is needed. According to the traditional customs in China, engagement is to confirm the conclusion of a marriage, that is, if both men and women are satisfied with each other's relationship and are willing to promote this marriage, then there will be an engagement ceremony, and some guests will be invited, and then in front of their parents and elders, the marriage will be confirmed, the marriage certificate will be concluded and the related dowry will be prepared. If the engagement ceremony is completed, then both parties should not cancel the marriage at will, and should respect each other's families. However, according to the current laws of our country, engagement is not a necessary procedure before marriage, and marriage without engagement does not lose its validity.

What is the process of engagement?

Modern engagement includes setting engagement date, buying engagement supplies, choosing engagement ring, determining engagement place and holding engagement dinner.

1. Future husbands and wives negotiate with their parents to agree on an engagement date. Before engagement, it is necessary for the prospective couple and their parents to further negotiate together before engagement, mainly to discuss the amount of bride price and the specific engagement date.

2. Prepare and purchase the articles related to the agreement in advance. Even if the engagement ceremony is simple, you need to prepare certain engagement items in advance, such as engagement invitations and wedding candy.

3. Choose an engagement ring. Before getting engaged, the man should choose an engagement ring.

4, determine the engagement place and engagement dinner, both men and women should determine the number of people present, set the menu.

Does engagement depend on the date?

Engagement is the date when both parties end their engagement. Since ancient times, choose an auspicious day. However, due to the different family background and local customs, the importance attached to the choice of engagement date will be different. Some parents think that a sunny day is enough to get engaged. Some parents pay more attention to choosing an auspicious day so that the two sides can reach an understanding. No matter what methods are adopted, most of them are simplified in customs and habits.

What should I pay attention to when choosing an engagement date?

1, respect both parents.

On such an important day as engagement, both parents are usually very concerned. Therefore, we must respect both parents and discuss with them before making a decision.

2. Don't be too superstitious.

Although China has had the custom of choosing auspicious days in the Chinese zodiac since ancient times, the happiness of both parties' marriage mainly depends on their emotional level. Choosing auspicious days is not necessarily happiness, so we should not believe in superstition too much.

3. We should consider the actual situation of both families.

When choosing the engagement date, we should take care of the happy moment when both relatives can attend the witness together.

4, to consider the physical condition of both sides.

If one party is unwell, it is best not to rush to choose the engagement date, and it is best to wait until the body recovers before making a decision. When choosing the date of engagement and marriage, the man must listen to the woman's opinion.

Step 5 choose a special anniversary

When choosing the engagement date, you can choose those days that have special memories for you, such as the first date or the date of meeting, which will make your engagement both romantic and full of memories.

6. The weather on the engagement day

Some couples think it is romantic to hold an engagement ceremony in a light rain, but most couples always hope that their engagement day will be sunny. But no matter what kind of weather you choose, you must be aware of this so that the engagement can go smoothly.