Get married on the fourteenth day of the first month!

It is not good to get married on the fourteenth day of the first month.

It is unlucky to get married in the first month. In ancient times, there was a saying that men and women got married in the first month, which was a kind of pressure on future generations, so few new people got married in the first month. It is not festive to get married in the first month, which is the season of ghost marriage in the old calendar, because the first month in the underworld is the same as the dead, and everything in the underworld can come to the dead. So when you see a married person in a remote place, don't stop to look. Getting married in the first month is not conducive to family reunion. You can't get married in the first month and get engaged in the twelfth month, otherwise the husband and wife can't grow old together. Marriage is rarely in the first month of the lunar calendar, and engagement is rarely in the twelfth month. Because marrying a daughter-in-law in the first month will hinder her in-laws' affairs, and betrothal in the twelfth month will defeat her in-laws' affairs, there is a saying that "if you don't marry, you won't subscribe".