I decided to get married on February 3, 20 10 (February 20, 2009, 19). Ask me some questions about etiquette. Invite people in.

On February 438+00, 2065, the auspicious day for you two to get married was:

(You can choose to avoid your two zodiac signs in the future. )

20 10 February 0 1 Monday Lunar New Year 18 Bingzi (Rat Chong)

Wednesday, February 3, 2065, 438+00 Lunar New Year's Eve (tiger pounce)

20 10 lunar new year's day 2 1 (rabbit running)

2065438+February 07 Sunday 00 noon on the 24th of the twelfth lunar month (horse racing)

20 10 February 10 Wednesday, the 27th day of the twelfth lunar month (washing chicken).

20 10 February 14 Sunday first lunar month 0 1 ugly (rushing cattle)

20 10 February 16 Tuesday, the third day of the first lunar month, xinmao (rushing rabbits)

20 10 Monday, February 22nd Ding You (Chong Chicken) is on the ninth day of the first lunar month.

20 10 Tuesday, February 23rd, the first lunar month, 10, May Day (dog washing)

On the 20th day of the first lunar month10, 13, and Friday, February 26th (Bull Rushing).

I wish you happiness!

It depends. If it's your family or your senior, you shouldn't stop drinking. But some normal friends should stop.

If you are smart enough and man enough, even if you die, there will still be many thumbs up and mm. ......

I'll teach you a trick. Prepare a glass of "water wine" before the guests arrive. Haha, many guys did this when I was the director of hotel business. When the wedding people don't arrive, they usually come first.

1: If it's red wine, he will make a lot of coke himself, without sprite. Oh, that color will fade, hehe!

2: Add water to white wine, don't add too much, people at the wedding are very sophisticated, and some people will smell it, haha!

And if it is beer, I will pray for you, haha! It depends on your eloquence. Not only can you stop drinking, but you can also persuade you not to drink. If others are lazy about your wine, you will be faster. You also need to know how to persuade you. Here is to advise you to drink.

1 Is it emotional iron? Iron! Then you are not afraid of stomach bleeding!

Is the feeling deep or not? Deep! Then you are not afraid of intravenous drip!

2 will drink one or two to make friends generous enough!

Drink five taels if you can, so that the gay party can cultivate itself!

I will drink half a catty and one catty, so my buddy is the most considerate!

Those who can drink a catty and a barrel will be promoted to vice president later!

Drink a jar if you can drink a barrel, and the director of the winery will let you be it!

If others don't know, unless you drink.

I don't have much time. Here, you may need it. The word "abstinence":

First, as long as you have a good relationship, drink as much as you can.

It can be extended to say, "9999 roses can't have sex." Only when the feelings are not enough, use roses to make up for it. Therefore, as long as you have a good relationship, you can drink as much as you want. I don't want our feelings mixed with so much water. Although I drank a little, it was a drop of affection. Every bit is love! "

Second, as long as the feelings are in place, you will be intoxicated if you don't drink.

Try to say: "drinking with people you don't like is a kind of pain;" Drinking with the person you like is a touch. Coming together shows that our feelings are in place. As long as the feelings are in place, you will be intoxicated if you don't drink. "

Third, as long as there is affection, everything you drink is wine.

If you really can't touch alcohol, you may wish to persuade the other party to use drinks or tea instead of alcohol. You ask him, "Do we have feelings?" He will answer: "Yes!" You said, "As long as you have feelings, everything you drink is wine. What is feeling? Emotion is understanding. Long live understanding! " Then you use tea instead of wine to express it.

Fourth, the feelings are shallow, even if you drink a big bowl; Feelings are deep, even if you lick them.

On the wine table, a thousand words boil down to one word "drink". For example, "If you don't drink this glass of wine, you must think I'm ugly." Such as: "affectionate, swallow it in one gulp; Shallow feelings, take a look. " Drinkers associate the amount of alcohol consumed with the beauty and ugliness of people and the depth of feelings. You can refute their connection: "If the depth of feelings is directly proportional to the amount of drinking, a glass of wine is not enough to reflect our deep feelings. We should jump into the jar together, because we have known each other for many years and have deep feelings like the sea. In fact, the feelings are shallow, even if you drink a big bowl; Deep feelings, even if you are embarrassed. "

Five, in order not to hurt feelings, I drink; I want to drink a little so as not to harm my health.

He advises you: "Drink! Emotional iron, drink blood! It is better to hurt the body than to hurt the feelings; I'd rather have a hole in my stomach than let my feelings break! " This is irrational. You can answer this question: "We should consume rationally and drink rationally. Stay half awake and half drunk, at least in your dreams. I am a person who is willing to be hurt physically and emotionally. Without your body, you can't express your feelings; Without feelings, you are a walking corpse! In order not to hurt my feelings, I drink; I want to drink a little so as not to harm my health. "

6. At this happy moment, let's do multiple-choice questions!

Let's open our minds a little, and the way to refuse to drink will come. He wants to express his affection for you by drinking, so you say, "Happy moments can be multiple-choice questions. To express feelings and feelings, you can a. hug, b. hold hands, c. drink, and choose one. I respect you and let you choose; If you respect me, you should let me choose. Now, I choose A. Hug, ok? "

Seven, the gentleman's words don't begin.

He wants you to have a drink. You can set a "two difficulties", please go to the urn. You ask him, "Would you like to be a gentleman or a villain? Please answer this question first. " If he says "I want to be a gentleman", you can say that "a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water", substitute tea for wine, or "a gentleman talks, but you drink" and invite him to drink; If he says "I'd like to be a villain", you say "I don't drink with villains" and then sit down with a smile, there's nothing he can do.

Always replace wine with tea! As long as you dare, all you drink is wine. As long as it makes sense, there is no harm in drinking more and less.

In short, there are still many ways to refuse to drink, so we should improvise. "Soldiers will block." In wine culture, there are both words to persuade wine and words to refuse wine. If you don't have a capacity for alcohol, you can deal with it with wit and eloquence in the communication field.

China's wine culture is extensive and profound. It has played a unique role in welcoming guests, gathering friends, communicating with each other and passing on friendship. Therefore, exploring the "mystery" on the wine table will help you communicate successfully.

1, enjoy the whole people, don't whisper.

Most banquets have more guests, so try to talk about topics that most people can participate in and get the approval of most people. Because of different personal hobbies and knowledge, the topic should not be too biased as far as possible, so as not to be dominated by one family, far apart, and talk endlessly, leading to digression and ignoring everyone.

In particular, try not to whisper to others and give others a sense of mystery, which will often cause jealousy of "just you two" and affect the effect of drinking.

2, aim at both sides, grasp the overall situation

Most banquets have a theme, that is, the purpose of drinking. When you go to eat, you should first look at the expressions around you and prioritize. Don't drink for the sake of drinking, and you lose a good chance to make friends, let alone let some grandstanding drinkers disturb the host's meaning.

3. Appropriate language and humor

Sprinkling it on the table can show a person's talent, common sense, self-cultivation and communication etiquette. Sometimes a humorous language will leave a deep impression on the guests and make people feel good about you invisibly. Therefore, it is very important to know when to say something, to use appropriate language, and to be humorous.

4, moderate persuasion, don't force.

On the wine table, we often encounter the phenomenon of persuading wine. Some people always like to regard the wine field as a battlefield and try their best to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is unrealistic to drink enough.

"Talk about heroes with wine" is ok for people who drink a lot, but it is difficult for people who drink less. Sometimes, if you persuade too much, the feelings of your former friends will be completely destroyed.

5. Toast in an orderly way, with clear priorities.

Baking bread is also a science. Generally speaking, a toast should be made in the order of age, position and the status of the guest and the host. Before toasting, we must fully consider the order of toasting and distinguish between primary and secondary. In order to drink with people you don't know, you should first find out your identity, or pay attention to what others call you, so as not to be embarrassed or hurt your feelings.

When toasting, you must grasp the order of toasting. If you want to have a guest at the dinner table, you should be respectful to him, but you should pay attention to the fact that if someone with higher status or older people is present, you should not only be respectful to those who can help you, but also propose a toast to the respected elders first, otherwise everyone will be embarrassed.

6. Read words and understand people's hearts.

If you want to get everyone's appreciation on the wine table, you must learn to read and read. Because when dealing with people, we must understand people's hearts, so that we can play a good role on the wine table.

7, the edge is gradually exposed, sit firmly on Mount Tai.

At the banquet, you should see the occasion clearly, correctly evaluate your own strength, don't be too impulsive, try to keep some alcohol and talk, don't let others underestimate yourself and don't show yourself too much, choose the right time and gradually radiate your own edge, so as to sit firmly on Mount Tai and not give others the idea of "just this ability", so that everyone can't underestimate your strength.

Toast is also a toast, which means that at a formal banquet, the host proposes to the guests and puts forward certain reasons for drinking. When drinking, we usually say some wishes and blessings, and even the host and guests have to make a special toast. The shorter the toast, the better.

You can toast at any time when you drink. If it is a formal toast, it should be at a specific time, which will not affect the guests' meal. Toast is suitable to start after guests and hosts are seated and before meals. It can also be after the main course and before the dessert is served.

When drinking, especially when toasting, someone needs to take the lead in toasting, which can be the host, the guest of honor or the people present. When toasting, you should stand up, hold the cup in your right hand, or hold the bottom of the cup in your left hand, smile, look at other toasts, especially yourself, and say a blessing at the same time.

It is suggested that after the toast, you should stand up with a glass in your hand. Even if you don't drink, you should pick up the cup for show. Raise the glass to eye level, say "cheers" and drink it off or in moderation. Then, you have to look at the proposer with a glass, and the process is over.

In Chinese food, before toasting, you can symbolically touch each other's glasses; When clinking glasses, you should make your glass lower than the other's to show your respect for the other. Touching the table with the bottom of the glass can also mean touching the glass with the other side. You can do this when you are far away from each other. If the host toasts himself, ask for a toast to the host and toast with him again.

In general, toasting should be carried out in the order of age, position and the identity of the guest and the host. Be sure to give full consideration to the order of toasting and prioritize. Even if you are drinking with people you don't know, you should first inquire about your identity or pay attention to other people's names to avoid embarrassment or hurting feelings. Even if you want something from the guest at the dinner table, you should show him more respect. However, if there are people with higher status or elders present, we should also propose a toast to the elders first, otherwise it will make everyone very embarrassed.

If it is not suitable for drinking because of living habits or health reasons, you can also entrust relatives, friends, subordinates and younger generations to drink or use drinks and tea instead. As a toaster, you should fully understand each other. When the other party asks others to change the wine or drink, don't insist on letting the other party drink, and don't "get to the bottom of it" curiously. You know, if someone doesn't take the initiative to explain the reason, it means that the other party thinks this is his privacy.

In western food, champagne is the only toast, and you can't drink it with others over the people around you.