What do you mean, Chaoshan is slightly family-like?

It means the marriage custom in Chaoshan.

A little family style is the second step of getting married in Chaoshan area, that is, two families eat together and then have tea and chat at home. Slight family style (depending on family affairs), that is, after the woman agrees to the man's proposal, she will arrange several people to the man's house on an auspicious day, which is called "slight family style". The first step is to propose.

The third step of Chaoshan marriage is to form eight characters. After the two sides propose marriage, the matchmaker will write the woman's name, date of birth, place of origin and ancestors into three generations and send them to the man. If nothing unexpected or unlucky happens in the man's house within three days, such as breaking bowls and pots, it is called "three days good"; Step four, choose the date. After the marriage is confirmed, both men and women will find some famous Japanese restaurants nearby and choose the auspicious day for marriage. The fifth step is engagement, that is, the man prepares gifts for the woman to get engaged; Step 6, send a bride price; Step 7, welcome the bride; Step 8, return.