What are the rules for going to the new grave?

What are the rules for going to the new grave?

The old grave is made of white paper and the new grave is made of red paper. The new grave does not pass through the commune (the commune is in February of the lunar calendar or refers to the solar term "vernal equinox"), generally.

To say the specific situation depends on the local folk customs.

Taboo to go to the new grave

The old grave is made of white paper and the new grave is made of red paper. The new grave does not pass through the commune (the commune is in February of the lunar calendar or refers to the solar term "vernal equinox"), generally. To say the specific situation depends on the local folk customs.

Are you particular about when to hang the new grave in winter?

The first day of the tenth lunar month is an important festival among Chinese folk festivals every year. Old Beijingers always say "October 1st" when they talk about this day. 2014165438+122, October 1st of the lunar calendar, Cold Clothes Festival.

The most important thing on this day is to offer sacrifices to the dead and send cold clothes, so it is also called "Cold Clothes Festival". The Cold Clothes Festival is also called October Dynasty, Ancestor Sacrifice Festival, Ghost Festival, Clothes Burning Festival and Autumn Festival, and some people call it Ghost Head Festival. Together with Tomb-Sweeping Day and Mid-Autumn Festival, it is the three major Ghost Festivals in a year (note:

China attaches great importance to the custom of "Cold Clothes Festival". The author is here to talk to you about the "Cold Clothes Festival" of our old Beijingers.

There is a saying in the old Beijing dialect that a mother ordered her son to "send cold clothes on October 1", which is what she said. This festival entrusts the memory of the old people and carries the sympathy of the living for the dead.

Let's talk about the origin of this term:

Cold clothes: the original meaning refers to clothes that keep out the cold in winter, and this festival is more symbolic. Clothes, shoes and hats, bedding and other items made by people for the deceased are mostly paper materials, and few of them are made of real cloth.

Burn: This is the homonym of "burn" in "back" and "back", and it also conforms to the meaning of "burn, offer and burn". In order to distinguish the practical use of Yin and Yang, people collectively call all sacrificial articles burned with fire "burning". Although the word "burn" is used, I still hope it means "take". This festival inadvertently added a new meaning to the word "burn".

"Cold Clothes Festival" is a "Ghost Festival" with the main activity of offering sacrifices to the dead. This custom has a long history. But why do the older generation sacrifice to the dead on such a day? There is really a set of rhetoric in this.

First of all, October of the lunar calendar is the time for grain harvesting and storage. The Chinese nation pays attention to "filial piety". With a new harvest, it is natural to let ancestors taste new ones first to show filial piety and not forget their roots. Ancient people made cakes and hot soup sacrifices with newly harvested grains, hoping that the souls of the dead would come back to taste fresh products.

The first day of October is the first day of winter, and the climate here is getting colder and colder. When the cold air strikes, people are wrapped in thick cotton-padded jackets, and at the same time they think that their deceased relatives should also add clothes. In addition to food, incense sticks, paper money and other offerings, the ancients also added a kind of offering "ghost clothes" when offering sacrifices to the dead. When offering sacrifices, people burn the burial clothes to the dead, which is called "sending cold clothes".

According to the Book of Rites, October is the month of beginning of winter. On this day in early winter, Emperor Tiandi led three officials and nine ministers to the northern suburb of the capital to hold a welcoming ceremony. After the ceremony, he returned to the palace, thinking of rewarding those who died for the country and paying for his wife and children. So how do you reward the dead? Giving them "warm clothes" should be the proper meaning in the title, and it will work next, so it will become a custom. According to the description of the customs of the literati in the Song Dynasty, we believe that the custom of "Cold Clothes Festival" will not be formed before the Song Dynasty.

In the days of the imperial court, Qin wanted to issue a new imperial calendar on the first day of October, which was engraved and sold in bookstores all over the country. In the old Beijing city, in the hutongs, people are often seen carrying a cloth bag and holding a stack of almanac, while walking and selling: "sell the imperial calendar, sell the imperial calendar." That's also a scene of old Beijing.

There is also a legend that "Meng Jiangnu traveled thousands of miles to find a husband to send cold clothes". It is said that during Qin Shihuang's reign, there was a shortage of people to build the Great Wall in the north. Fan Qiliang, the newly married man of Meng Jiangnv, was forced to go to work. After a long walk, there was no news. My parents died of depression. Meng Jiangnv had no support and was anxious to think of her husband. She made some cold clothes for men and took them with her. She ran all the way to the north to find her husband and suffered a lot along the way. On the first day of October, Meng Jiangnv came to the foot of the Great Wall. What she saw was a pile of bones in the weeds, but there was no husband Fan Qiliang. She was touched by the scene and was filled with grief and indignation. Her crying shook the earth and collapsed the newly built Great Wall. Meng Jiangnu found the bones of her husband Fan Qiliang and threw herself into the sea with the bones and cold clothes. This sad legend spread among the people and people were deeply moved. Since then, on the first day of October every year, people will burn cold clothes on behalf of Meng Jiangnu to pay homage to her dead husband. The wind is getting stronger and stronger, and it has gradually become a "cold clothing festival" to mourn the dead. The author thinks this reason is far-fetched, dated and without historical research.

There is also a saying that "on October 1st, cold clothes will be burned" is a sales promotion trick of merchants. This shrewd businessman is Dong * * *, the eldest sister-in-law of Cai Lun, the inventor of papermaking. Her name is Hui Niang. ......

What should we pay attention to in Qingming new grave?

1, Tomb-Sweeping Day is an activity of honoring ancestors and offering sacrifices to the dead. Tomb-Sweeping Day is very important. In the eyes of China or China people, ancestor worship is tied to filial piety. If you don't participate in ancestor worship, you are unfilial and forget your ancestors. Qingming Festival refers to sweeping graves. Many cemeteries in Jiangnan and Jiangnan are on mountains, so they are called Chongshan. In the north, it is commonly known as sweeping graves or going to graves. 2. Are there ethnic differences in grave-sweeping in Tomb-Sweeping Day? Tomb-sweeping in Qingming Festival, which is called "respecting time" for ancestors, is the biggest day to pay homage to ancestors in China. Therefore, most Han people and some ethnic minorities in China visit graves in Tomb-Sweeping Day. However, I also remind my friends that some ethnic groups will hold similar activities on other days. 3. How does the usual procedure of sweeping graves in Tomb-Sweeping Day follow the custom? The order of sweeping is to sweep the grave first, that is, to clean the cemetery. Secondly, sacrifice, this program is very important, one is to mourn, and the other is to feel with ancestors, because mountains have spirits and ancestors have no spirits, and feeling with ancestors can better obtain the aura of mountains and rivers. Remind friends that this is feng shui. When sweeping graves, people come to the cemetery with food, wine, fruit, paper money and other items, offer food to the graves of their loved ones, then burn paper money, cultivate new soil for the graves, repair the graves, fold some fresh green branches and put some paper money on them to show that there are descendants in the graves, and then kowtow. Then sit around and eat and drink; You can also fly kites and even compete with each other for related activities. Women and children will also fold some Yang Liuzhi nearby and put on steamed food with wicker. Others put wicker into reeds and put them on their heads, saying, "If you don't wear willow in Qingming Festival, you will become a yellow dog in the afterlife." Namely: modify the cemetery-burn incense-eat meat-toast-worship-shoot goodbye ... 4. The sooner Tomb-Sweeping Day visits the grave, the better? There are two time issues involved here: First, is it possible that Tomb-Sweeping Day's grave sweeping will be on the same day or around? The sooner the better? Personally, I think I can stay in Tomb-Sweeping Day as long as it is convenient for me. Of course, there are some local customs everywhere, and we should respect them. Also, for some customs, there are some differences in time between sweeping graves for relatives who have died within one year and those who have died more than one year. Remind friends to abide by local customs. Second, is it better to leave as soon as possible on the day of grave sweeping? The answer is yes, not really. It depends on your own situation, preferably at 5-7 o'clock, that is, Shi Mao. In the ancient calendar, it was one. Of course, it is generally not so early now, but remind friends that it is best to end the Qingming Festival before 3 pm, because the yang has gradually subsided and the yin is gradually flourishing. 5. Can pregnant women in Tomb-Sweeping Day go to the grave? Generally speaking, pregnant women should avoid the Qingming Festival, not only that. Strictly speaking, it's best for women not to take part in such activities when they have their period, especially after 3 pm. Our motherland has a vast territory, and the customs of sweeping graves in the north and south are slightly different. For example, in the south, children usually go to the grave, and in some places in the north, daughters usually don't go to the grave. If it is a married daughter, go to the grave with her husband. 6. Can Tomb-Sweeping Day worship his ancestors at home? Tomb-Sweeping Day should have been held in the cemetery in person, but for various reasons, many people can't go back to their hometown to attend the Qingming Festival, so they can also worship their ancestors at home. The method is to put worship food on the balcony or living room at home, face the hometown, light three sticks of incense, bow three times and meditate on related words. Then, burn paper money for sacrifice. 7. What flowers are suitable for mourning the dead in Tomb-Sweeping Day? It is usually chrysanthemum, because in ancient China, chrysanthemum was regarded as a flower of sustenance, which meant missing and missing. White chrysanthemum is the most suitable, and it can also be matched with some green grass, such as lily, green leaves and carnations, which will be more beautiful. Huang Juhua is called Longevity Chrysanthemum, which is more suitable for visiting patients. 8. Why does Tomb-Sweeping Day look at his forehead in the morning? On the morning of sweeping the grave, before washing, look at your forehead in the mirror to see if there is any dark color. If there is, it means that his fortune is low. It is recommended to avoid sweeping graves as much as possible. If you must go, you can wear jade, mahogany and so on. Work it out with you. 9. Do you need to fast before sweeping the grave? It is best to fast before sweeping graves: when you start sweeping graves, it is best not to eat food or vegetarian food to show courtesy and respect for your ancestors. 10, can I wear it casually when sweeping the grave? You can't. In order to respect the dead, grave sweepers should wear solemn clothes, thoughts, words and deeds. Generally speaking, when sweeping graves, you should wear dark clothes, dress neatly and look solemn. 1 1. Why do you want to give incense to the land of the mountain gods besides bringing incense and flowers when sweeping the grave? ......

What's the point of burying the dead in a new grave?

After the initial mourning, mourning, seven-week ceremony, mourning and other ceremonies, the last link is burial.

The person who died in the coffin was called "Eight Immortals", and the cave where the coffin was dug was called "Jiangong". Before the start of construction, there is a ceremony to break the mountain, and the dutiful son will burn incense and light candles. In some places, fairies should be invited and Tai Sui should be painted. When you start a mountain, you must avoid the direction of Tai Sui, otherwise it will be "Tai Sui's head is broken" and the family will be ruined. When cutting a mountain, put a stake in front of and behind the grave, and then let the dutiful son dig with a hoe three times within the range of putting the stake. Then the Eight Immortals made a cave, and then burned the traditional portrait when it was finished. This kind of tomb is to push the coffin in. Two bamboos or peeled, smooth and moist fir trees are laid at the bottom of the tomb. Put the top of the coffin on it first, then push it in with a crowbar, then remove the bottom after pushing it in, and finally shovel some turf to seal the hole.

There are many interesting customs after the coffin stops on the mountain. In some places, filial daughters-in-law should bow before the spirit, and then run home with loess and scatter it under the pigsty, chicken coop and bed. It is said that this will get the blessing of the deceased. If there are many daughters-in-law, we must strive for the first good luck, and some even take off their shoes and take a shortcut to go home by boat. After paving the loess, the daughter-in-law has to rush to the kitchen to eat a few dishes. This is called "Jinbao", which means good luck.

In the past, people attached great importance to offering sacrifices to graves. Kill a rooster at the time of sacrifice and use its blood as a souvenir. The rooster doesn't die immediately, but flutters repeatedly in the grave. According to the old saying, where the rooster dies in the grave, which part of the offspring will flourish. The chicken feathers shaken off by the rooster are called "phoenix feathers" and must be taken off. Before burial, the dead son will store the grains made of miscellaneous grains in the grave. There is a small pancake on the top of the storage. Put a ceramic pot in front of the grave, and put a soybean oil lamp on the pot, which is called the ever-burning lamp. In some places, a bronze mirror is embedded in the grave to symbolize the sun. In ancient times, rich people had to stay away from graves, shoot three arrows, and then retreat immediately. I dare not go near the coffin, because I am afraid that if I can't suppress the evil spirits, I will suffer. When the coffin is put into the grave, it must be shot, saying that it is for the dead to go to the underworld.

According to the old rules, the burial time should also be paid attention to, and the coffin must be buried at sunset. The Eight Immortals dragged the brown rope into the soil and put it down slowly. When it is safe, relatives must grab the soil and throw it on the coffin. This is called "adding soil". After the coffin goes down, it should be covered with a thin layer of soil, and then the soil swept out of the grave should be sprinkled on it, and then a bowl called "rice bowl" should be placed on it. This is to move the tomb lighter in the future, so as not to disturb the dead and bring misfortune.

According to folk custom, the soul after death may run out of the grave at any time and follow the living to go home. So people who are buried must go around the tomb three times, and it is forbidden to look back on the way home. Otherwise, it is not good for both sides to see the traces of the dead in the underworld. In fact, this is also a measure of mourning. Otherwise, it is difficult to convince the relatives of the deceased to keep looking back and not want to leave.

After burial, people must wash their hands, and some even wash their hands with wine. This means that no one will die in the future, which is used to drive away bad luck. Then you have to thank the trumpeter and the guests who held your funeral. After that, a ceremony will be held to worship the spirits of the deceased. In some places, as long as they are relatives, they have to eat together, which is called "grabbing the inheritance meal". Drinking "longevity soup" and eating "longevity beans" are customs in Jiangsu and Zhejiang provinces. That is to say, after the death of an old man over 70 years old, a big barrel of meat and bone soup, that is, "longevity soup", and a big pot of boiled soybeans in Huang Cancan, that is, "longevity beans" should be prepared on the day of the funeral. Send the mourners back to drink a small bowl of longevity soup and eat some longevity beans at will, which means "adding happiness and prolonging life". In some places, long-lived fragrant glutinous beans are distributed to children in the neighborhood. It is said that eating longevity beans will lead to longevity in the future.

Sorry, someone built a new grave 5 meters in front of my grave. Are there any taboos in Feng Shui? thank you

Has it been built?

If it hasn't been repaired, you should go to their house at once, which is very problematic.

The distance between graves must be 15-60 meters, otherwise there will be short-lived people in the family within five years.

If there is someone else's old grave behind, and the two graves are in a straight line, then the new grave after 18 will have a mute.

These are feng shui taboos and must be observed.

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What are the rules for starting a grave?

Rules for carrying graves

With the expansion of cities and the transformation of new countryside, more and more graves need to be moved, and moving graves is an extremely important thing, and a little carelessness will lead to many unknowns. This paper summarizes some matters needing attention when people move graves on weekdays, which is not perfect, and at least can provide some reference for friends who are about to move graves. The dead are like this, and we living people try our best to put them in the grave. Whether in the underworld or in the underworld, we all live well and repair well, and we will be together in the future.

I. Items to be prepared for grave removal:

1, first choose a good place for feng shui.

2. Prepare longevity materials and tombstones.

3, red gloves, red paper, red cloth, summer sleeping mat.

4. Radish, whole grains and four steamed buns.

5, rhubarb paper, mingbi, funeral mascot.

6. Coins and scriptures (generally "Tibetan scriptures").

7. Offerings and dining tables (generally five kinds of fruits, cigarettes, wine, sweets and snacks, etc.). ).

8, four golden toads, used to cushion the coffin (ancient coins can also be used).

Second, break ground.

Recite the "land curse" before burial:

At the beginning of Yuan Dynasty, An Zhen appealed to all souls. Du Yue is a real official, and the land is just a ghost.

Don't be surprised if you are left behind and left behind. Return to the right path and clarify inside and outside.

Take care of your family. There is a life in heaven, looking for an evil soul.

Protect the god king and defend chanting. Convert to Avenue, Yuanhenglishtown.

Land curse:

The land here is the most spiritual place for God. Heaven and earth, in and out of the underworld.

Call me, don't stop. On the day of meritorious service, play supernatant.

There is also the "Anzu Tomb Curse" (omitted)

Let the eldest son dig a shovel on the abandoned grave and put it aside, and then the helper can start digging and breaking the grave. 18 On the day before the founding of the People's Republic of China, the King of Earth broke the ground improperly and had a special ground-breaking spell to resolve it:

The unprecedented curse:

The sky is round and the place is round, and the law is nine chapters. I broke ground today and swept away the writing on the wall.

Everything is prosperous with golden picks and jade. Mother Earth Princess, step aside.

Third, pick up bones.

Cover the sun with a red cloth and start picking up bones. Some places cover the sky with red, white and yellow cloth at the same time, which varies from place to place. When picking up bones from the prepared longevity materials, the deceased was a man and his son wore red gloves to pick them up; The deceased was a woman, and her daughter wore red gloves to pick her up. After picking up the bones, throw a radish into a pit, build some graves and throw some radishes. Then the eldest son added the spade soil dug out first to the pit and sprinkled it on the radish. Sprinkle a few handfuls of sorghum and you will wake up after filling the pit. Throw paper money every time you cross a bridge or fork in the road, and throw it away when you go to the cemetery. Some bridges are covered with yellow paper.

Fourth, burial

Before burial, you should read the groundbreaking words and contracts. Usually before waking up, someone has buried the grave in the cemetery. When you play tomb raiding, bring more food to the tomb raider, so that the tomb raider can eat and drink enough, which means "treasure tomb".

You must choose the auspicious day of the ecliptic, and you can only be buried on July 8, especially on July 17. Burying in pairs is generally prohibited. Under special circumstances, feng shui masters cannot choose auspicious days. If you have to bury in a hurry, you can use the "heavy mourning method", make a letter with white paper and write four words with yellow paper cinnabar, put it in the letter, put it on the coffin, or hold it in your hand. After writing, buried with the coffin or cremated.

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What's so particular about going to the grave?

Be modest, don't wear too bright clothes, it is necessary to bow down and burn incense.

What's the point of building a new grave with red paper?

There is a certain basis and reason why rich people don't change doors and rich people change doors. In other words, a peaceful and stable family cannot change the entrance direction without authorization. The rich move to the grave, which is a family with declining wealth, poor children and few people. This state can be changed by moving the grave, making the family rich and future generations prosperous. However, if we want to move to a new grave, we should choose Di Feng, Long Mai, where life is rich, and move to the ancestral grave with broad vision, surrounded by mountains and rivers and extraordinary excitement. Only in this way can we play the role of managing people, managing money and reaching out to touch the case, and can we stand in front of the nobles. Therefore, we should not only choose Wangdi, but also pay attention to some matters when moving graves. Matters needing attention in Tomb-Sweeping Day's grave-sweeping: 1. When sweeping the grave, you should put incense, burn money to worship ancestors, pray for the reason and address of ancestors' relocation, and pray for ancestors' blessings and blessings to future generations. Second, in the time of moving the grave, it is best to move the grave before the arrival of Tomb-Sweeping Day, so that the ancestors can be buried in Tomb-Sweeping Day and protect future generations. Third, it is best to move the grave at noon, so as not to burn the bones with the sun as the spirit at noon. If there are too many ancestors, you can stop picking up bones at noon and cover them with black cloth holes. Move the bones after noon. Fourth, after opening the hole, the bones of the ancestors must be placed neatly, and the joints of the bones should be put in place. If there are missing knuckles, dig them out carefully to avoid causing physical harm to future generations. Fifth, in the old graves with too many ancestors, we must pay attention to the pairing and placement of personnel relations after the bones are unearthed, so as not to cause adultery and confusion to future generations. Sixth, ancestors must adjust the mountains when placing new graves, so as to avoid the collapse of good mountains, which can not be used and can not reflect the value of good feng shui. Pay attention to the above matters when sweeping graves in Tomb-Sweeping Day, and pay attention to the relocation location of new graves and matters needing attention when sweeping graves.

What does my son have to pay attention to when he goes to the new grave?

The old grave is made of white paper and the new grave is made of red paper. The new grave does not pass through the commune (the commune is in February of the lunar calendar or refers to the solar term "vernal equinox"), generally. To say the specific situation depends on the local folk customs.