Can I confess my jealousy of marriage?

First, can Huang Li get married without getting married?

1. number

Traditionally, since it is a taboo day in the yellow calendar, it means that this day is not good and not suitable for marriage. If you have to get married, the relationship between husband and wife is easy to be bad after marriage, which is not good for marriage.

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Modern thought advocates science more than unfounded superstition. In fact, many people are skeptical about the unsuitable days for marriage in the Gregorian calendar. After all, there is no scientific thing, and whether marriage is good or not seems to have little to do with these.

Whether a marriage can be happy or not depends on both husband and wife to run it by themselves. Marriage is also a profound knowledge, which requires good understanding and tolerance between husband and wife, and even if there is no auspicious day, a person's happiness does not depend on whether your wedding day is auspicious or not.

Second, I chose the wedding day.

1. Intelligence

Some people find that this marriage is not so ideal. Many times we don't like introspection, but find some unwarranted reasons to convince ourselves of peace of mind. For example, we chose a bad date when we got married, so the marriage didn't go well, and so on.

In fact, this is just a psychological hint. It can also be said that a person gives himself an excuse to comfort himself. There is nothing wrong with comforting yourself, but it comes down to these uncertain factors, which makes him more vulnerable to the damage caused by a failed marriage.

2. Believe in yourself

Of course, there is another kind of people who don't believe in these things and think that marriage can only be better maintained by themselves and the other half, so they live smart with each other in marriage, know how to choose and know how to operate.

Therefore, the small days after marriage are also thriving. For such people, the wedding date they once chose is taboo, but they still feel that their fate is in their own hands, which is not determined by these superstitions.

Summary:

In fact, as far as life is concerned, as far as auspicious days are concerned, believe it or not is the attitude of most people. After all, life depends on yourself, not on the sky, and efforts can make you get what you want.