Engagement, three gifts a year, rules

The three-day engagement gift-giving rules include Spring Festival, Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival, as follows:

1, Spring Festival

After the newlyweds get married, every Spring Festival, the son-in-law needs to prepare some gifts, usually tobacco, alcohol and tea, and can also choose to send some health care products and clothes, which has a good meaning.

2. Dragon Boat Festival

Dragon Boat Festival is an important festival in China, because the general son-in-law always brings gifts to his parents' home. Generally, they follow the tradition of festivals and send zongzi gift boxes, salted duck eggs and tea. In ancient times, it was also said that drinking realgar wine during the Dragon Boat Festival could ward off evil spirits.

3. Mid-Autumn Festival

If you go back to your mother's house during the Mid-Autumn Festival, it will be a reunion festival, a full moon and moon cakes. Send a box of mooncake gift boxes to my parents-in-law, and prepare some health gifts for them. They will be very happy.

Engagement notice

1, set an auspicious day

Communicate and coordinate with both parents in advance, choose a convenient time for both parties to meet, go on time, and set an auspicious day for engagement.

2. Etiquette should be in place

Both men and women should add tea, water, wine and cloth in time to give each other's parents a good impression of being educated and polite, whether in conversation or at dinner.

3. Agreed place

"Engagement" generally means that the man and his parents (relatives) together, carrying cakes, fruits, cigarettes, wine and other gifts, personally visit the woman's parents and meet her future in-laws. The engagement place is generally preferred in the woman's home to show respect. If it's convenient, you can also do it in the hotel.