Parents must talk about topics before marriage.

Before marriage, both parents must talk about the topic.

About the engagement.

1. Shall we hold an engagement ceremony?

2. Do you want to entertain guests when you are engaged?

3. What is the approximate number of guests invited by both parties?

4. If it is a different place, what about the engagement ceremony?

5. If it's the same city, where is the right engagement hotel?

6. Who will pay for the engagement ceremony?

7. What are the customs and procedures at the engagement ceremony?

About dowry &; Issues related to dowry

1. What is the dowry of the man?

2. What is the dowry of the woman?

Does the dowry given by the man include three gold? Diamond ring?

4. Does the dowry returned by the woman include the dowry of the man?

5. Bridal gifts &; Is the dowry for the couple or for the parents?

6. Bridal gifts &; When will the dowry be divided?

7. Will anyone from the two families participate in the bride price or return gift?

8. Are there any customs such as women buying clothes for men?

Issues related to wedding customs

1. When is the wedding?

2. Do you need to see an auspicious day?

3. Is there an auspicious occasion for the ceremony?

4. Is there a special link like brazier?

5. Is it in the hotel or the man's parents' house?

6. How many people saw the bride off? What's the point?

7. How many people are there? What's the point?

8. How much does it cost to change my mouth?

9. How much is the box pressed? How much does it cost to unpack?

10. Are there any other special wedding customs at home?

Related problems about newcomers in the same city

1. How many weddings are there? Do you have a party?

2. What is the overall budget for the wedding?

Who will pay for the banquet? How to distribute the rest of the money?

4. Where should the wedding hotel be chosen?

5. What is the standard of hotel/menu/drink?

6. What is the general form of a wedding? Indoor/outdoor? Chinese/western style?

7. How many guests did both parties invite?

8. How many main tables are arranged? What are the main tables?

9. Who received the gift?

Related problems about newcomers from different places

1. How many weddings are there? Do you want to run separately or together?

2. Should the woman move first or the man do it first?

3. Is it necessary to hold a thank-you banquet in the workplace?

4. Run separately. Is the banquet money different or something?

5. Which guests need to be invited to each other's home?

6. Who will pay for inviting other guests?

7. What is the budget for each session? The form of the wedding?

8. How to distribute the gift money received at each wedding?