I won't remarry you because my mother-in-law is not a good person. What should I do?

As a husband, it is really difficult to encounter such problems. On the one hand, he is an ex-wife and on the other hand, he is a mother. "You can't have your cake and eat it." It's sad to choose a wife or a mother. However, I think the blood relationship can't be changed, and it's hard to change this "evil mother-in-law". However, if you really like your ex-wife, you can actually choose to live independently, instead of letting your wife and mother-in-law live together, resulting in daily contradictions and family disharmony. ...

There are evil mothers at home, and most women really don't want to remarry. It is said that "every family has its own problems", but many families will encounter the same or similar contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, many of which are caused by the "evil mother-in-law" who is mean and loves to make things difficult for her daughter-in-law. It is precisely because "mother-in-law is not a good person" that many women can't stand living with her mother-in-law, especially because her husband always "helps relatives but doesn't help her" and stands on her side unprincipled, which leads to her final choice of divorce.

Therefore, as long as the "evil mother-in-law" still exists, most women will not be willing to remarry after remarriage. After all, a person who falls into a pit and falls into this pit is really stupid ... so if you want to remarry your ex-wife, you must dispel her concerns.

"Mother-in-law is not a good person", your mother has no choice, and it is hard for you to change her. "Blood is thicker than water", the blood relationship between mother and child will not change with age. She has been your mother since you were born. You can't abandon her. And you have grown up, you should understand that her temper has been formed, and it is difficult to change her personality and views. It's too difficult to start with her, almost hopeless. So really don't try to change your mother's personality, but try to deal with this problem in other ways.

Less contact and living separately can greatly reduce the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. From the experience gained from our life practice, there are sometimes contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because living together often magnifies the contradictions between the two sides, and it is difficult for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to communicate and solve any problems. Especially if you get along with each other day and night, it is easy to produce disputes and quarrels. But on the contrary, if we don't live together every day and go once or twice a week, the relationship will be relatively good.

Therefore, if possible, try to live separately from your parents, stop being a "baby boy" and live in the shadow of your parents, but run your own "small family" with your wife and live a good family life. Of course, this will inevitably lose the comfort of being taken care of by parents at home, and many things have to be faced by husband and wife together. However, since you want to remarry, if you can't do this, how can you convince your ex-wife that you can bring her a different life?

Don't be kidnapped by "affection" or "love", be true to yourself. However, neither ex-wife nor mother should be a "shackle" that binds your life. Sometimes, you should consider what kind of person you want to be and what kind of life you want to live, and then who you want to live with and realize your ideal lifestyle ... instead of being trapped by other people's demands and expectations because of "love" and "love" ... Being loyal to yourself is both responsible for yourself and others. ...