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If fate is unfair to you, how can we live?

Some time ago, the Wuxi Bridge collapsed, and the two cars crushed were two families, a mother and daughter, and a single father. All this is sudden and inevitable. The end of fate is in an instant, even if you try hard, it's useless.

Many people say that you don't know which comes first, tomorrow or the accident. Fate is like an invisible hand, which arranges the bits and pieces of our life, from the end of life to the good or bad on weekdays.

The length of life may be beyond our control, so how to make life thick, whether long or short, what is the meaning and happiness of life?

When I was a child, my parents divorced and my mother remarried. I lived a wandering life since I was a child. She didn't study hard. After graduating from technical secondary school, it is not stable to rush to the society and do basic work. She met her first husband in society.

Young and ignorant, I only knew that my children were deeply in love at that moment. Both of them are children. They just got married in a hurry when they reached the legal age for marriage. Maybe she wants to find a long-term unstable one from her marriage, thinking that this man can give her a stable life.

However, in their early twenties, they have to face the economic pressure of a family's daily necessities and their income is meager. Men are more and more grumpy, and their vows and promises are all gone in China's trivial life.

He doesn't go home at night, and he hits people when he is a little unhappy. He abandoned her like a shoe, and she didn't know how to continue this hopeless life. She was depressed.

The knife marks on her hands are distributed in the circle of friends from time to time. She is hopeless, fearless, refuses all care, and just wants to sink. She felt that her life was over.

Fate always gives people a heavy blow from time to time, so heavy that it destroys all hope in your heart. Some people finally come here and go to the Elysium, leaving all those who care about them suffering.

She came to her senses after a short fall. Life is already bad. What's wrong with going too far? Once she longed for a stable family and how much she longed to be loved by her beloved, but everything was in vain.

She filed for divorce. Fortunately, they had no children, got married quickly, divorced quickly, and he didn't stay.

In this way, life returned to a person. She went back to her mother and helped her manage the shop. Life is as dull as water. Love is no longer extravagant. She wants to die alone and be abandoned by fate, so accept her fate.

The turning point of life seems to be in the dark, but I don't know that there is a glimmer of light in the distance.

In the boring days of looking at the store, she felt that she had been divorced from society for too long, had no work experience and education, and was too limited to find a job. Fortunately, she was gentle and lovely, and soon applied for a front desk position in a company.

Although her salary is low, she is very satisfied. She is very happy to return to society. Her previous depression has improved a lot and her life has become rich. Maybe this is a hint of a change of fate.

At a dinner party hosted by the boss, in order to make up the number of people, the boss specifically asked her to go with him.

This is a grand party, and she is just the ornament of the dinner party. She has no other thoughts, just want to finish the task given by her boss and entertain her customers well. After all, no one at this table deserves her. She told herself that she had realized her terrible fate.

But the dim light warmed her, who said that fate remains the same?

After dinner, a doctor sat in the room and was fascinated by her. He is young and promising, and comes from a scholarly family.

He fell in love with her at first sight, causing ripples in his heart, but she felt ashamed, feeling that her birth, education and divorced status were not worthy of him. But he doesn't care, he just loves her.

In order to marry her, he hid her education and everything from his family. The two soon fell in love and affirmed each other. It wasn't long before they started planning the wedding. A year later, on an auspicious day, they held a warm wedding and he gave her everything she dreamed of.

Now, five years later, a fat son is born. Doctors have stable jobs and rich incomes. She lives a stable and well-fed life and is loved wholeheartedly by a man. You know, if she accepts "imperfection", her love will not be as deep as usual, and this marriage is destined to be a long-term happiness.

The above story is absolutely true, and I want to guarantee it with my dream.

If you fall into darkness one day, will you worry that every day in the future may be the end of the world? When a person is desperate, it is easy to forget the word "hope".

Paul Hu, the director of The Elephant Sitting on the Floor, committed suicide after finishing the filming of the film.

Before committing suicide, he lived in distress, his shooting expenses were limited, and his ideals were imprisoned. Although he finished The Elephant Sitting on the Floor, his inner gloom could not be resolved, and he committed suicide …

However, it didn't take long for this blockbuster he directed to have its world premiere in Berlin. This is the only film directed by China in the forum unit of this Berlin Film Festival, and the official praised it as "very visually shocking". And awarded the fabisi international film critic award.

These honors were won after his death, and he will never see them again. Perhaps at the moment of suicide, he felt that he would be kept in the dark forever, with empty talent, but subject to others.

But if he is willing to wait until he wins this international prize, can he have more money and more say to do what he wants? However, instead of waiting, he chose to end himself.

Although fate will not be kind to everyone, it will not send a person to hell forever. If it is not a special crowd, everyone will live a similar life, with ups and downs. There are your joys and sorrows, and there are also your joys and sorrows. In fact, everyone is similar, but life will never be the same. As long as fate does not deprive life, then everything is possible and there is hope.

In the news these two days, Sydney left, a flower-like girl. We don't know what she went through, just sigh, her young life has passed away.

Maybe, we will get darker and darker along the road. Can we turn around and take another road at this time? The turning point is always reserved for those who are prepared and those who dare to fight against it. If you give up, you really have nothing. Go ahead, maybe just walk.

I hope that friends who read this article can cherish their lives, no matter how difficult it is, they must face it bravely and move forward bravely, and hope is not far away.