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How to choose a wedding day?

When choosing a good wedding date, we should pay attention to the traditional auspicious law, consider the work plans of both parties, try to avoid the wedding peak day, consider the arrangements of relatives and friends, and avoid parents' birthdays.

China people are used to choosing an auspicious day to get married. When choosing an auspicious day, the elderly usually think that it is best to run for one year on an auspicious day. The Mid-Autumn Festival in August of the lunar calendar is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.

In addition, some places still pay attention to traditional rules. Parents' birthdays can't be the same as wedding auspicious days, which means it is not suitable to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within that month.

2. Consider the work plans of both parties.

Try to avoid affecting your work plan because of the wedding, because in those days when preparing for the wedding and holding ceremonies and wedding banquets, newcomers often can't concentrate on their work.

Therefore, when setting the wedding date, you should also refer to your annual work plan. Don't choose your own peak hours or before and after a business trip, so that you can have enough holidays to spend a sweet honeymoon, and you can also avoid the situation that you can't hold the wedding as scheduled because of work emergencies or the important work plan is affected because of wedding preparations.

3. Try to avoid the wedding peak day.

For example, a small holiday like May Day and November Day will not only make it difficult to book the desired hotel and wedding, but also increase the wedding budget invisibly. Moreover, almost all people who get married on the wedding day appear in clusters, which is prone to traffic jams and inadequate service of hotel staff.

4. Consider the arrangement of relatives and friends.

Try to avoid the days in the middle of legal holidays, so as not to ruin the holiday plans of relatives and friends; At the same time, it is best not to choose working days, otherwise most relatives and friends may not be present as scheduled.

Step 5 avoid parents' birthdays

What we avoid is not the birth month of both parents, but "Farmer Weng Gu Yue, Farmer Parents Month". Generally speaking, the wedding date should be Ji Yue and Xiao Ji Yue. When time is tight, you should consider the month of your parents or elders, and never consider the month of your husband or woman. This is an authentic traditional wedding day.