Why can't I propose in the first month?

In fact, these are all superstitious statements. Young people nowadays rarely believe this. As long as two of a kind is a good day, it will always be a good day. It is an old custom in Beijing, Tianjin and Hebei and northern provinces not to mention relatives and not to date each other in the first month, which is intended to be bad for the matchmaker and both men and women! Furthermore, in the first month, the Kitchen God, the Earth God and the san huang Five Gods also report their work in heaven to the Jade Emperor, and the immortals also celebrate the New Year. Everyone is busy going home to pack jiaozi.

At this time, if people propose on a blind date in the first month, there will be no fairy to testify, which can only be regarded as sexual intercourse without media. In some places, there is a saying that no proposal will be made in the first month, but in fact, Bian Xiao thinks that as long as both parties really love each other, they can propose any day. The ancient custom of proposing marriage must be very important. The man's family comes to the door to propose to the woman in person to show the respect of the man's family for the woman's family, and the gifts delivered to the door must be uniform.

For example, cigarettes, wine, candy, cakes, red dates, lotus seeds, sweet things (not limited to kinds), round cakes (representing things can be perfect), apple gift boxes representing good luck and happiness, and so on. After proposing marriage, it is usually a fixed date to get married and send a bride price to the woman's house before holding wine, which is heavier. Generally speaking, after a boy goes to a woman's house to propose marriage, he will talk to her parents about the dowry of marriage.

However, the amount of dowry generally ranges from tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands. The unsatisfactory financial situation mainly depends on the man's economic level and ability. If the man's family economic situation is not ideal, then you can give the woman tens of thousands of yuan as a bride price; If the man's family is financially strong, he can give the woman a dowry of more than100000 yuan, or even more.