How to choose a wedding date? What are the taboos in choosing a wedding date?

Getting married is a very important thing. The so-called date must be a good day. So how should we choose this wedding day? What are the taboos in choosing a date?

How to choose a wedding date?

1. First of all, you should choose a suitable time in the year you choose, and then you can look it up according to the "month of marriage" and choose a suitable month. The following examples are based on the zodiac signs of both sides: Zhengqi welcomes chickens and rabbits, Bahu monkeys, Sanjiu snakes and pigs, Forty dragons and dogs, cattle and sheep 5 1, rats and horses 6 12, depending on the woman's zodiac sign.

2. When choosing a wedding date, you can also check the time on the old calendar. According to the lunar calendar, choose Sanhe, Tiande, Yuedehe, Liuhe, Yuede, Tiandehe, Heaven forgives, Heaven wishes and Heaven rejoices, and do not celebrate the days on the lunar calendar. Such a day is an auspicious day for marriage, which is beneficial to the marriage relationship in the old saying.

Avoid special months to get married? The choice of auspicious wedding dates should avoid March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for joint happy events. Because Sanniang likes to fight the old moon and destroy the new, she also needs to avoid it. Sanniangsha is the 3rd, 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd and 27th day of the lunar month. Avoid each other's birthdays and parents' birthdays. If your parents have died, you should avoid jealousy and death. In addition, the sixth month of the lunar calendar is not suitable for marriage, because the bride who gets married in June is called "half-moon wife" according to traditional thinking, that is, she has no background and does not help each other. Although there is a saying in folk tradition that there is a year of spring, that is, the year of widowhood, there is no need to worry.

What are the taboos in choosing a wedding date?

1, avoid the rush hour.

If you choose the season and time when business is booming, such as the annual wedding season, September,1October, 1 1 month, the demand for good days is in short supply, and the cost of wedding banquets and venues is naturally high. Therefore, when choosing a wedding date, you should first understand the wedding peak and peak day in the city where you want to hold the wedding. Avoiding these rush hours can not only save money, but also ensure the quality of the wedding.

Step 2 avoid the bride's menstrual period

If the wedding day happens to be the bride's menstrual period, it will be a troublesome thing, so we must make the wedding date as far as possible to avoid the bride's menstrual period.

Step 3 avoid parents' birthdays

In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married.

4. Avoid the days of Sannianzi and Yang Gongbi

According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, San Niang betrayed Yue Lao and ruined the couple's wedding. Therefore, the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage. People say that everything that happened to Yang Gong was because of his ugly words. From then on, people will avoid saying bad things, and once they say them, they will spit out good things. At the same time, the number thirteen is also considered an ominous number.

5. Avoid the Lunar New Year and September.

According to the old tradition, it is best to avoid choosing auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Jinggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for holding happy events. However, these pressures are not absolute. The most important thing is to arrange the wedding date scientifically according to the local wedding customs and the opinions of elders, combined with the actual situation.

The date of the wedding should be seen by the man or woman.

First of all, let's talk about the topic of looking at the date, that is, whether it is a man or a woman. Generally speaking, the date of marriage is seen by the man, and the initial wedding date is decided by the man.

However, the main reference factor for looking at the date is the woman, which means that the man needs to know the woman's birthday first, and then determine the preliminary wedding date according to the woman's birthday. Of course, this date is not necessarily the final wedding date, because after the man is optimistic, he still needs to inform the woman, and then discuss with her to finally determine the wedding date.

Choose a date to get married or watch which Gregorian calendar?

1. Select Runnian Runyue. China people attach great importance to marriage and pay great attention to the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Therefore, it is best to choose an auspicious day with a leap month for marriage.

2. avoid the three seven nine. It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for joint happy events. The first month of the Mid-Autumn Festival is a full moon, so August of the lunar calendar is the most suitable.

3. Avoid three evil spirits. According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Sanniang wants revenge, so Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the couple's wedding. Therefore, every month of Sanniang, that is, the third day, the seventh day, the third day, the eighteenth day, the twelfth day and the twenty-seventh day, is not suitable for couples to get married.