When should we pay homage to the dead on the first anniversary? He died on 20 10 lunar calendar1February 18! Do you want to go first or later?

Hello: The day when the old man died is called Memorial Day. There is a custom of "May 7th" in the north, that is, every seven days from the date of death, the portraits and offerings of the deceased ancestors are placed at home for small-scale worship, and the offerings, incense, paper and wine are brought to the cemetery for worship in the fifth week. You can't use up all the incense paper. You should take some of it back to your hometown, which means that future generations will prosper and incense will continue. At this point, the memorial ceremony after the death of the old man was completed. After that, I went to the cemetery to worship every year and repeated this practice in the fifth week of each year. But cities are not so strict now: generally speaking, Memorial Day must be celebrated. In addition, because modern times advocate civilized sacrifice, many people use flowers instead of incense. I'm almost sixty years old and never chat online. It was your filial piety that touched me, so I learned to type all morning to answer your questions and satisfy your filial piety. Your dad will laugh under the grave. Good boy, you are so filial. In order to pay homage to your dead ancestors, you have come to consult online. I'm so happy for your ancestors! The soul of your ancestors will protect the prosperity, peace and good luck of your descendants! A mother in Jinan, Shandong Province