What's so particular about engagement forms?

What's so particular about engagement forms?

What's so important about the engagement form? Wedding procedure is a major project in life, which leads you to a sweet and happy road. The engagement table is also a headache. Newcomers need to consider many factors, so what's so important about the engagement form? Let's take a look.

What's so important about seats at the engagement party? 1 First of all, the seating arrangement for the engagement party.

When arranging the dining table in a formal banquet hall, we should follow the following five principles, namely, "the front door is the top", "the center is the top", "the right is the top", "the distance is the top" and "facing the table is the top". In fact, in order to avoid the unhappiness caused by foreign guests sitting in the wrong seat, a seat card can be placed in front of each table seat in advance for a grand large-scale banquet, and the invitation issued will indicate the table number of the banquet, or be imported by the master of ceremonies or seated according to the map, so as to avoid making mistakes easily.

1, pay attention to placement: according to custom, the height of the table depends on the distance from the main table. Right high and left low. When the number of tables is large, table cards should be set. You can use a round table or a long table for the banquet. For banquets with more than one table, the distance between tables should be moderate, and the distance between seats should be equal. In a group banquet, the front or middle table is usually the main table. The specific placement of the dining table also depends on the terrain conditions of the banquet hall. All kinds of banquet tables and seating arrangements should be neat and unified, chairs should be vertical and horizontal, and tablecloths should be folded in one direction, giving people an overall aesthetic feeling.

2. Protocol order: Protocol order is the main basis for arranging seats. Unlike wedding banquets, parents of both parties to the engagement banquet should attend at the same table. Parents' elders, sisters and brothers can be arranged at the same table or adjacent table in the same area, giving elders more distinguished seats and facilitating parents' care. The seating order is simply arranged by parents themselves. Usually, the bride-to-be and groom-to-be also appear at the main table. If there are many guests, you can sit near the main table, but the guests from the same party are also close. This can make communication more convenient.

Second, the seating arrangement of the engagement party

1. Parents, relatives, friends and parents' colleagues should all have their own separate seats. Parents' elders, sisters and brothers can be arranged at the same table or at adjacent tables in the same area. Give the elders more distinguished seats, which is also convenient for parents to take care of. Parents just need to arrange their own seats.

2. Newcomer's colleagues, friends and business partners. You should greet the elders first, then the newcomers. Try to arrange the familiar ones at the same table. Unfamiliar people should be arranged at each table, and it will be more polite to take care of them in time. Please arrange them in the middle of the whole banquet area.

Most classmates and friends are the best friends of newlyweds. You don't have to say hello deliberately, you will wait patiently for the newly married couple to appear. You might as well arrange them at the last few tables in the banquet area, which will not only make them enjoy themselves, but also avoid the influence of wine on the whole wedding process. This part also includes the staff who help.

4. When arranging seats for each table by numbering or naming, you can ask the food and beverage department to provide a table map and number or name each table, which can take care of all aspects. Prepare several copies of this dining table map and the guest list printed according to the dining table, so as to facilitate the guests to sit down and show the host's carefulness.

Third, the matters needing attention of the engagement party

1, the number and object of the banquet, we must first determine the object and number of the banquet, so as to "suit the remedy to the case."

2. Time and place of banquet: time, place and person. Only by entertaining the right people at the right time and place can we leave a perfect engagement party. You must choose an auspicious day, and then the place for the party. Whether the environment is beautiful, the transportation is convenient, the dishes are satisfactory, whether there is a dressing room, whether there is a host, and whether the price is fair are all issues that all engaged people need to consider.

3. Engagement ceremony custom: According to the traditional custom, the whole process of engagement ceremony and the items to be prepared are quite complicated. Recently, however, people think that the traditional engagement ceremony is too troublesome, and more and more people want to carry out the engagement ceremony in a simple way. However, although the simple way, the two sides have different places of origin, different concepts, and different emphasis and concepts, both sides can acquire knowledge in advance. There will be some differences in matters such as bride price and return gift due to different regions. It is best to discuss intensively in advance and get to know each other. No matter which way is adopted, the customs are mostly simplified, and six kinds of gifts, ancestor worship, sweet tea and rings are prepared. Until the engagement party and other basic processes, it is still the most common content of engagement ceremony for ordinary people. Among the six kinds of gifts, "watch" can be said to be a very popular gift in return. Although there are no so-called six kinds of gifts abroad, there are cases where watches are given in exchange for engagement. Some newlyweds will engrave the same name as the ring on the back of the watch, such as the anniversary, as an eternal commemoration of the two. The bride-to-be can design different engagement ceremonies after consulting her fiance and considering her parents' opinions.

4. Engagement ring: The first thing to pay attention to at an engagement party is to prepare a ring. Imagine if the host announced your engagement to someone in front of friends and family today and asked you to exchange engagement rings. Wouldn't it be a pity for this important day if you find yourself unprepared at this time? So, please prepare an engagement ring, which is the token of your love.

5. Engagement party: After the engagement ceremony is completed, the woman usually holds a banquet. Recently, some hotels have begun to launch some engagement plans for prospective couples. Because these engagement schemes are usually more cost-effective, it is also a good idea to use them effectively. In Europe and America, after the engagement ceremony, it is also a common way to entertain close relatives and friends and hold a natural and warm party. Don't get bored with the form and method, hold a family dinner in a warm way of holding an engagement party at home, and those who come to congratulate can also attend in a more relaxed mood. On the other hand, in Japan, there is also a so-called "engagement" after the ceremony. Generally speaking, family members or matchmakers of both sides choose Japanese kiosks, or recently some newcomers choose to hold banquets in high-style restaurants or restaurants. If you want to send 3 gold, it means 3 gold jewelry. Platinum and gold are not required to send 100 1 yuan, which means to prepare a box. Put the back of the second bed in the box. Ten thousand is ten thousand, and the so-called three gold, clothes for the daughter-in-law. Sweaters, shoes and socks. Cotton jacket and watch. Then there are your conditions. But when the man goes to the woman's house, he must put cigarettes and sugar in the box.

6. The man also needs to find a glib woman over 40 as a matchmaker (either divorced or widowed), and he will also go and sit with the woman's parents that day. Secondly, on the day of engagement, in addition to the money given by her mother-in-law and father-in-law, the girl changed her name to parents, and other relatives of the man, such as aunt, also gave red envelopes. It's not for nothing that girls call me aunt. My aunt also costs money. This custom in Jinan is also very different in various districts and towns. Be sure to say hello, and it is best to let the woman go home and ask the elders if there are any taboos and special attention.

What's particular about the wedding table? 2. Matters needing attention in the wedding banquet: Understand the project cost involved.

When you have a clear intention of the hotel, be sure to ask about the expenses, such as: catering standard: how much is a table or how much is per person. Service fee: service fee: how much, whether it can be reduced or exempted. As far as the cost of drinks and snacks is concerned, what are free? Is there a time limit for free drinks and snacks?

Note 2: Identify the hotel configuration or delivery items.

After defining the hotel, be sure to ask about all kinds of project services. For example, the bride lounge: whether there is a dressing room for the bride to rest, whether it is provided free of charge or charged (how much is charged), and the distance between the lounge and the banquet hall. Cake: Do you want to send a cake? If yes, please give the style and number of layers of the cake. If charging, the charging price and the corresponding style. Signature books and pens: whether to give signature books and pens, consult the number of sets when there are many guests to avoid the congestion of signing in on the wedding day. Wedding car: whether to give the wedding car, its style, color, kilometers and time limit. What's the charge for exceeding the limit? Champagne Tower: Do you want a champagne tower? The third floor (14), the fifth floor (55) and the sixth floor (9 1)? Champagne: Is champagne served? Red carpet layout: whether to provide a red carpet for free, and how to charge if not. Parking spaces: whether there are enough parking spaces, how many are provided free of charge, and how to charge for extra parking spaces.

Note 3: Traffic problem of engagement party.

Try to choose a location with convenient transportation and extending in all directions for the wedding venue, which can maximize the convenience of guests. If you choose a venue that you are not particularly familiar with, it is recommended to indicate the feasible transportation route on the invitation letter. If the wedding is held in a remote villa, it is best to arrange the shuttle bus in the city center in advance.

Note 4: Location of engagement party

Master the number of guests, and try to keep the average number floating at 1 to facilitate the scheduling on the wedding day. In addition, the vacant space gives people a great sense of relaxation and transparency. However, after the guests are seated on the wedding day, the increase in the distance between tables and chairs, the reserved passage between adjacent tables, and the shape and position of the tables themselves will affect the overall spatial layout, which should be taken into account.

Attention to engagement party: stage problem

The big stage has become a trend of weddings. As a "show" platform, only a large space can play your mind, and different venue layouts can meet the needs of different wedding ceremonies. Some brides wear long white dresses with large bottoms. If they stand on a stage with a small space, it is very troublesome to turn around and walk around. In addition, the popular indoor flower throwing ceremony also needs enough stage space. In addition, the spacious and romantic stage scenery can set off the beautiful image of the bride and groom on the stage and become the focus of attention. The photos taken are naturally suitable for distance and diversity.

Choosing a hotel engagement party must take more time and energy to prepare, in order to be foolproof. After all, when it comes to getting married, it is not only a scene promised by both parties, but also a moment for relatives and friends present to witness beautiful love, or a moment for relatives and friends to get together.

What's so important about seats at the engagement party? 3 1. Guest seats for men and women: Newcomers enter according to the position of male right and female left. After taking the stage, they turned inward and faced the guests and friends in a male left and female right posture. At this time, the groom should correspond to the bride's main table and the bride should correspond to the groom's main table. Therefore, the bride's main table should be located on the right side facing the stage, and the groom's main table should be located on the left side.

2. Leadership VIP table: arrange the leaders and important VIPs of both units in perfect angle (generally close to the VIP table or directly in the VIP table). At the same time, it is also convenient for parents and elders at the guest table to entertain them to show respect and attention;

3. Relatives' seats: Relatives' seats are generally arranged according to their closeness and seniority. If the couple are not sure about this, they can consult their parents to show politeness. Try to arrange elders with inconvenient legs and feet away from the stereo and close to the passage. One is to prevent the sound volume from affecting the heart or blood pressure of the elders, and the other is to facilitate the elders to go to the toilet or move freely.

4. Friends' Seats: Arrange the best friends, girlfriends, classmates and friends who are in charge of help in the last seat near the exit, so that users can enter freely without affecting other guests' meals.

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Precautions:

1. Seating at the wedding banquet is related to the traditional customs of China, so we must not be careless and pay attention to it. You can discuss with your parents in advance how to make reasonable arrangements, and the elders should know.

If you are busy or have many guests during the wedding reception, you can ask your parents or some friends to help you take care of them so as not to neglect the guests.

Newcomers must count the number of guests when they engage in the wedding banquet. Don't just know the situation of the wedding venue, so as to avoid too many guests and small wedding venue, causing congestion.

Newcomers can put a card showing the guest's name on each table, so that the guest can find a seat quickly. It is best to arrange someone to arrange seats for the guests.

If there are many children at the wedding reception, remind adults to be optimistic and not let the children run around to avoid accidents or getting lost.