Matters needing attention in choosing an engagement date

Choosing a date for a happy occasion is a long-standing custom in China. At present, many newcomers attach great importance to the choice of engagement auspicious day and marriage auspicious day. Therefore, in the choice of engagement festival, there are many matters needing attention that everyone needs to know more about.

One: respect both parents.

Old people are very concerned about respecting their parents and choosing the wedding date. We must respect both parents and discuss with them before making a decision.

Two: Don't be too superstitious.

Don't be too superstitious. Although "auspicious day" is a tradition in China, at the same time, we should understand that the happiness of marriage lies in whether the emotional foundation of two people is solid, and it does not depend on a certain "auspicious day", so it needs to be arranged from a scientific perspective.

Three: the traditional rules of "auspicious day"

Four: Set the wedding date as soon as possible.

In foreign countries, newlyweds usually choose the wedding day 1 year ago, which can facilitate the arrangement of other matters in the future. Of course, you can also choose the date according to the actual situation, but try to set the wedding date earlier to prepare enough time for the wedding planning! You can ask for the opinions of important guests before setting the wedding date, but you don't have to cater to too many people. Once you have set a wedding date, don't change it easily.

Five: You can choose a memorable day.

Choose a day of the year that is important to you and memorable, but ordinary to others. Like the anniversary of your first kiss. In this way, you can not only get the best service with less money, but also walk into the engagement ceremony hall with a very leisurely mood and enjoy the wedding wishes sent by relatives and friends. Good day, good mood, of course, you can have your cake and eat it!

Six: The weather on the day of engagement.

Maybe you think it's romantic to hold an engagement ceremony on a rainy day? But most newcomers still hope that their good days will be sunny. Whether you like light rain or sunshine, knowing the weather on the wedding day can let you know what you want and make some emergency arrangements in advance. At present, the climate centers in some big cities can provide some special services, such as: trend forecast within 30 days; /kloc-climate forecast within 0/0 and 7 days; Climate information within 3 days, etc. , or calculate and provide annual weather forecast according to historical climate data. When choosing a wedding date, you can take this as a reference and try to avoid bad weather. In addition, according to your own needs, you can choose the corresponding service at the local meteorological station to get the real-time weather information on the day of engagement, so as to plan ahead.

Seven: We should consider the physical condition of both sides.

If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, but to make a diagnosis and treatment in time, and then consult after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate physical condition. When choosing engagement and wedding date, the man should pay special attention to listen to the woman's opinion.

Eight: avoid the menstrual period of the bride-to-be

If the day of the engagement ceremony happens to be the bride-to-be's menstrual period, will it be a trouble? Therefore, we must try to avoid the menstrual period of the bride-to-be. There are two ways. First, if the bride's physiological cycle is regular, her menstrual period can be calculated. Second, if it is inevitable to choose the bride's physiological cycle or irregular menstrual cycle, you can consult a doctor 10 days before remarriage. If there are no contraindications, you can take medicine before the engagement ceremony under the guidance of a doctor, and generally you can postpone your menstrual period.

Nine: consider the work plans of both parties.

Try to avoid the engagement affecting your work plan, because in those days when preparing for the engagement ceremony, newcomers often can't concentrate on their work. Therefore, when setting an auspicious day for your engagement, you should also refer to your annual work plan, and don't choose the peak hours before or after your own business trip, so that you can not only have enough holidays to spend a sweet honeymoon, but also avoid the situation that the engagement ceremony can't be held as scheduled due to work emergencies or the important work plan is affected by the preparations for the engagement.

Ten: an auspicious day for engagement, try to avoid peak days.

Due to the influence of climate, environment and customs, there are different wedding or engagement ceremony peaks all over the country, because new people hope to hold their weddings on these good days. When choosing a wedding date, you should first understand the wedding peak and the peak days in the city where you are going to hold the wedding, and try to avoid these peak days. In this case, there will be many choices in choosing emcee, camera and hotel, which will improve the quality of the wedding and directly reduce your wedding budget.

In fact, sometimes as long as one day in advance or one day later, you can choose the most ideal hotel, book the best master of ceremonies for your wedding, and an excellent cameraman will record the ceremony of your life for you, even your relatives and friends don't have to worry about dealing with several banquets at the same time.