I'm getting married. What if the two sides can't talk about the date at home?

As the saying goes, "have children, marry a woman." The principle of choosing the wedding date is based on the date of birth of the bride, and refers to the date of birth of the man and others. The two families should choose a time to sit together and discuss it. The most important thing is that two new people can have a * * * knowledge. After that, the two will influence their respective families to avoid unnecessary entanglement on this issue caused by differences between parents. How to choose an auspicious day for marriage, my suggestions refer to the following suggestions:

1, choose Runnian Runyue. China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date and the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in the year of full moon.

2. avoid the three seven nine. It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for joint happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.

3. avoid three niang sand. According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

4. Yang Gong's "No Sun", also known as "Thirteen Taboos of Yang Gong", was handed down by Yang Junsong, a geomantic master in Tang Dynasty. These thirteen "taboo days" are 1 month 13, February 1 day, March 9, April 7, May 5, June 3, July1day, July 29, and July 29. These thirteen "forbidden days" are not suitable for everything.

5. Four out of four is absolutely inappropriate.

6. generally choose a date for marriage

Yi: Tiande, Yuede, Tiandehe, Yuedehe, Xietian, Tian Yue, Sanhe, Tianxi, Liuhe and Bujiang.

Taboos: broken moon, weekday, closed day, robbery, disaster, evil month, punishment, moon-weariness, five tombs, evil month, big hour, celestial officials, four wastes, four taboos, four poverty, five separation, eight specialties and sun-weariness.

7. Parents' birthdays are inappropriate.

8. The new person's specific zodiac character.

Wedding is a major event in life and the beginning of a new life for the couple. How to have a happy start, or learn to operate with wisdom, involves the marriage of the two families, in fact, it is sometimes a matter of face. I believe you two have the ability to solve this problem and start a happy life!