Looking for a nanny is both worried and scared. Share your experience in getting along with a nanny in an interview.

Looking for a nanny is both worried and scared. Let's share the interview experience and get along with it. My husband and wife are taken care of by the same nanny, because the difference is just three years old, so after my sister went to a small class, my brother began to be sent to the same nanny's house in the fourth month after birth. Here, I want to share some experiences of myself and people around me, and provide reference for mothers in need in the future. First of all, after being a sister for six months, I began to prepare to re-enter the workplace and didn't want to be a full-time mother at home.

The first step: first find the nanny association in New Taipei City.

Website: babyhouse.ieschool./

Because I want to say that it should be more secure to have association certification and related training. After the phone call, there will be an interview for about 20 minutes, and I will ask a lot of my own needs, such as:

Full day care (all day Monday to Friday, bring it back by yourself on Friday night):

Suitable for parents who often need to work overtime, the cost is about 23,000 ~ 25,000 yuan.

Half-day nursing (08: 30 to 19: 00 on weekdays):

Take it home to sleep after work and take it to the nanny's house the next day. The cost is about 17000~ 19000 yuan.

Then the nanny association will help you find a nanny near the area you want. At first, everything she provided me was close to my home, but they may have many cases, and it will take about two weeks to call back.

Step 2: Ask a friend to recommend it.

After having a baby, you will have many friends, your colleagues will be your sisters, give us a lot of advice, and the books will be copied down. If it is close to my home, I will call first to ask if I can accept the commission.

* * * Regulations: Although a nanny can take care of four children, she can only take care of two children under two years old. It's illegal to surpass that!

In addition, I also found this parenting music website:: ourkids. /nanny/nannylist.asp？ ZIP=220

It's just that the nanny above seems to have a low response rate and a low matchmaking rate.

Matters needing attention in the visit

1. You can simply ask about the qualifications of some nannies on the phone first.

For example: Do you have children? How old is your child? Boys and girls? How many years have you been a nanny?

Take a few children or something. How many children do you bring yourself at this stage? Is there anyone else in the family who can be an assistant?

In fact, these things are very complicated, and everyone cares about different points. For example, a friend of mine told me during the interview that the nanny had two junior high school sons, and he felt afraid of what adolescent boys would do to his daughter, so he didn't consider it. Besides working as a nanny, my friend's nanny also works in direct selling. She often sells their products. I think it doesn't matter if I buy it once or twice (after all, I'm afraid it's bad for my children), but it's really boring to sell it too often, and I have to change nannies in the future. The quality of nanny's conversation, etc. At least on the phone, I feel I don't agree with my key.

Step 2 make an appointment to meet and visit

I interviewed about five or six nannies myself. Maybe there are many old apartments in our area, and some of them are apartments. Some of them can accept you to visit the site when she is raising a child, while others will not affect the work and rest of the children on site.

I hope everyone will make an appointment with you for an on-site interview after 8 pm.

I met a very strong nanny, and I felt that the novice mother just didn't understand anything and was very strong. I also met a nanny TV who entered the house and it was broadcast live on the stock market. Because the baby is only a few months old, I asked the baby where to sleep. He just pointed to a wooden bed and said he could sleep here. And at that time, he had two children over 2 years old, which was when he loved to play ... I was afraid to step on my sister when playing ~

There are also retired couples who are very entrepreneurial, and both of them have nanny licenses. Two people can take care of 7~8 children together. I think it's legal, but the couple are old, and I'm afraid they don't have the strength to take care of our baby. Why did I choose this nanny myself? Because she is young, and one of her daughters has gone to college ... She is a single mother and lives with her mother. Usually she has her own mother, who can help buy food, make non-staple food ... or be an elder who can help when the children are too busy.

Actually, I had a relationship with this nanny for a while at first ... my sister was almost sent back. By the way, don't think that the nanny will definitely take your children and earn your money ~ no! Don't! Don't!

A friend of mine didn't find a nanny until she took a six-month parental leave. By this time, the baby can recognize people, and all four nannies have returned. Let her take the child back the next day ... up to 3 days ~

My sister was only seven months old when she was sent to the nanny's house. Before these seven months, BOOK took care of her at home, and later she was "very afraid of life". I cried all the time when I first went there. After only three days, the nanny got cold feet. At that time, I was working near the nanny's house, so I just wanted to say, why don't I come over to accompany her at noon 12 and let the children think that mom will come back? Or add more money on the 6th, so that you can't see the nanny for two days, and then go again on Monday, and you are afraid of strangers again?

However, my nanny refused my two suggestions, and then she felt that she was a slacker because she couldn't climb in her house. So I took her to Tai 'an Hospital for an evaluation, which bothered me for a long time and was also the boss of the company at that time.

I think I took too many vacations .. At first, because I had never given birth to a child myself, I always felt that the nanny was biased against our children.

But later, I felt that the nanny was actually taking care of the children, because her own daughter was also chronically feverish, so I paid great attention to this ~ I was afraid that my parents would miss the "golden treatment period of 0~2 years old", so she suggested that I should take care of the children myself ~

Fortunately, the evaluation of doctors and rehabilitation workers who went to Tai 'an Hospital is all right, so I think it's better to observe again.

Then I told pengpeng, who is seven months old, every day that mom has to go to work, and you can go to the nanny to play with your little brother ... Mom can play with you all day when she has a holiday or something ... Then she got used to it inexplicably and was willing to play with another brother.

postscript

Actually, it's really hard to take care of children. I suggest that the nanny should be our teammate. I think the reason why my nanny didn't return the goods for so long is because her mother helped her, otherwise, according to my friend's experience, if there is only one person, she will surrender in about three days.

Of course, if our children are angels and are not afraid of life, there will be no problem. For example, another friend of mine asked a nanny to wait until the end of the six-month parental leave, but the nanny suggested that it should be delivered immediately after four months, otherwise it would be really difficult to take care of her life. If she cries, there are other children who are too busy to take care of her.

Share the nanny's diary every day

In addition, it is necessary to sign a contract with the nanny (but this should all be the version of the nanny association), which can be supplemented if other matters are discussed.

Nanny's monthly fee: 17000+ non-staple food (two meals and fruit) $ 1500 = 18500.

If you prepare your own meals or drink milk six months ago, you don't need to pay extra 1500. )

Bonus in the second quarter: Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival need an extra bonus of $3,600.

Year-end bonus: one month (calculated in proportion)

Parents should bring their own other supplies: milk powder, diapers, wet paper towels, bottles, bottle brushes (which need to be replaced regularly), shower gel and laundry detergent.

From August, 2065438 to August, 2008, the nanny subsidy in New Taipei City can receive $8,000, but only if the nanny you signed up must join the community nursery alliance, and this fee can be paid until you are 2 years old. I think my sister only had a subsidy of 3000 yuan at that time. The forms of child care in New Taipei City can be referred to: expanding child care allowance for 0-2 years old and quasi-public child care area. For women returning to the workplace, a good nanny is really important, just like our teammates. If economic conditions permit, I suggest looking for a nanny directly, because after all, it is a paid employment relationship, and many things can be made clear.

Although it can save money for the elders in the family, sometimes the relationship between them will be very tense. I've seen a couple of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get more and more stiff because their mother-in-law helps take care of their children ~

The elder raised her own child, and he should also have his own space to enjoy the rest of her life. Let's leave this matter to professionals.