Propose first or padlock first

Propose first. The order should be to propose first, then propose, then get engaged and finally get married. First propose to the woman and get her consent, then prepare gifts and take her parents to her house to propose. Then the two families began to discuss the engagement and prepare for the engagement. After the engagement, I began to enter the marriage preparation stage and finally got married.

Brief introduction of wedding etiquette and customs

According to ancient customs, marriages in ancient Zhuhai were all the words of matchmakers. According to parents' orders and village regulations, it is best for men to get married at the age of 16 to 25, otherwise they can't communicate with Yin and Yang to keep peace. The ancient marriage custom is divided into six steps: first, the man sends a matchmaker to propose to the woman; Second, ask the name, the woman agrees to get married, and the man further asks the name.

Sannaji, that is, the man knows the woman's name, and after giving birth, the man who arranged it returns the name to the woman for a business marriage; (4) take the sign, notify the woman after divination, and get engaged with money; The date of invitation, that is, the date of holding the ceremony, has been determined. On auspicious days, the man will agree to give it to the woman, and the woman will refuse. After three exchanges, the wedding date was set.

On the night of the wedding, the man's parents held a banquet for his son, who sat in a prominent position. Women also hold banquets and gather people to sing rural songs, which are called karaoke bars. This custom gradually changed in the Ming Dynasty. The next day, my husband came to meet her, and the woman gave her a banquet and gave her new husband Jamlom money. In the Ming Dynasty, there were 1 maids and 1 boys who married women. There are 1 servants in the Chinese family, and no one in the next family gets married.