Qinghai marriage custom

Young men and women know each other and fall in love, and then the two families enter the wedding ceremony.

1. The man chooses an auspicious day and arrives at the woman's house before 12.00, which is called recognizing the door, and invites the woman's parents to visit the man's house on the auspicious day and leave before 4.00 pm.

2. The woman's home arrived at the man's home before the agreed date 12.00, which means that she has changed her home, agreed on the engagement date, wedding date, jewelry, dowry, banquet and other matters, and left before 4.00 pm.

Third, the date of engagement, the man arrived at the woman's house with the prepared jewelry, engagement money and four kinds of gifts before 12.00, which is called engagement, and left before 4.00 pm.

On auspicious days and times, the man will go to the woman's house to celebrate the wedding. When he arrived, the woman could not open the door. She couldn't open the door until the man called and stuffed a red envelope. The woman's family prepares a half table banquet (horse) to entertain relatives and friends celebrating the wedding. Generally, it takes about 2 hours from entering the door to leaving.

The bride holds a "wedding ceremony" after getting married and coming home. The bride and groom enter the bridal chamber, and the man's sister carries water to wash the hands and face of the new sister-in-law; The man's sister-in-law laid two poached eggs under the bride, but the noodles were not cooked well and asked if the bride was raw. When the bride and groom enter the bridal chamber, the man's family prepares a half-table banquet (dismounting banquet) to entertain relatives and friends who are seeing him off. At noon, the bride and groom began to propose a toast at the main banquet.

6. On the third day of their wedding, the bride and groom bring gifts to visit the woman's parents, arrive at the woman's home before 12.00 and leave before 4.00 pm. Call it a comeback.

How much money depends on the material conditions and basic requirements of both parties. If you only refer to the process, it will cost about 20 thousand to 30 thousand in rural areas.

At present, people pay little attention to these procedures. I remember that the bride price money is mainly 365,438+0,800 (three families are sent together) and 20008 (Olympic Games), and the lowest price is 65,438+0 (one in a million).