There is a grave in front of the house. What if others don't move?

There is a grave in front of the house. What if others don't move? The location of the cemetery is standardized and orderly in the city, and these problems basically do not exist. There are graves in front of and behind the house, which generally appear in the countryside. At present, there is no * * * knowledge management method for rural cemeteries, and farmers themselves automatically determine which piece of land is suitable for the burial of the deceased. As long as they negotiate with the owner of the contracted land, they can be buried there. If there is an ancestral grave in the original place, and then a house is built there, it is unreasonable and illegal to ask others to move it. ~

This phenomenon often occurs in rural areas. People bury their ancestors' graves for years or even decades, and then build farmhouses in front of or behind the graves. Later, the owner of the grave was asked to move the buried ancestral grave. This phenomenon often occurs in rural areas. In general, the following methods are adopted.

First, the grave is in front, the house is in the back, and the dead are given priority. If the tomb has been buried for several years or decades, or even hundreds of years, it will not affect the construction of new countryside, nor will it affect the appearance of villages, so it should be regarded as a reasonable and legal cemetery. In the future, if a farmer is willing to build a house in front of or behind the grave and asks to move the grave, it should be regarded as unreasonable and the requirement of laws and regulations, and it should be regarded as an invalid request. The local competent department will not agree, and neither will the cemetery owner. In this case, we should put the dead first. In addition, if the original location of the cemetery is not ideal and the owner of the cemetery needs to move, but he has not moved, he is in front of the house, and the two sides can negotiate peacefully and reach a consensus to solve the problem. Otherwise, building a house should mainly follow the traditional logical rules, and the owner should not be asked to move the grave.

Second, farmers' houses should be buried after they come first, and they should listen to their owners' opinions. If there is a farmer's house first, then someone in the village will be buried in front of the house, and the land in front of the house will be contracted by the undertaker. This situation should also be considered unreasonable and illegal. People who bury graves should take "not disturbing the people" as the basic principle, and should choose a reasonable cemetery, which will neither affect the daily life of villagers nor affect the village appearance and public construction. If a grave robber forcibly buries in front of and behind a farmer's house, the owner of the house should intervene, or seek a solution from the village committee, or seek legal protection.

Third, the tombs are around traditional houses, which affects the appearance of rural villages. Where a grave is buried in a traditional residential area or affects the appearance of the village or the construction of collective public buildings, it should be regarded as a reasonable and legal requirement to require the grave owner to move the grave with the overall situation as the priority, the interests of the majority as the priority and the collective interests as the priority.

In a word, there is no perfect law for rural burial graves at present. Therefore, when solving these problems and disputes, it is the biggest mistake to take traditional culture, natural laws, interest relations, logical relations and so on as the principles to achieve the purpose of calming the people's disturbance and harmonious society, without intensifying contradictions and creating disharmony.

Here, there is a saying: you can ask people to drive away the grave, but don't let the grave drive away people! So, what does this old saying mean?

In fact, the meaning is simple! That is, there can be graves in front of the house, but not behind it. There is a grave in front of the house, which means "people drive the grave", and there is a grave behind the house, which means "the grave drives people"!

I used to hear old people say that "people rushing to the grave" can "positive pressure evil"! Because the family members of residents pass by the grave every day, it will cause the "ghost" in the grave to fidget, which will make the "ghost" ask his family to move the grave, otherwise, the "ghost" will often "harass" his family; And "driving people out of the grave" is "suppressing evil"! Because graves are hidden behind residents' houses, few people "disturb" them, and "ghosts" will "live" well. As a result, he will "make trouble" and in turn "harass" the residents. Therefore, in our place, "there is a grave in front of the house" is not taboo.

Of course, different places have different customs. If "there is a grave in front of the house" is taboo in your local area, you should consult the grave owner in a friendly way and try to get them to move the grave.

According to you, the owner of the grave didn't want to move it. Then why didn't he want to move the grave? There must be a reason. With khufu's guess, the main reasons are these:

Everyone knows that moving a grave costs money. But you don't want to pay, or pay very little. Then, people don't want to move graves. If you are willing to pay enough money to meet the needs of grave sweepers, then people will move their graves.

It is difficult to choose a cemetery now. Like here, many farmers will spend a lot of money to buy cemeteries because they don't have them. Because the cultivated land in rural areas has basically been contracted to individuals, it is impossible to build graves on the cultivated land that has been contracted to individuals without spending money. So the owner of the grave may also face such a dilemma. As for you, you should also consider the difficulties of the tomb owner. When the tomb owner needs to "buy" the cemetery, he should take the initiative to pay the fee. Otherwise, the owner of the grave will not move it.

The countryside is very particular about feng shui. Although Feng Shui is a feudal superstition, many people believe in it. Therefore, it is possible that the grave owner thinks that the location of his grave belongs to a treasure trove of geomantic omen, so he is unwilling to move the grave. If it is really because of this problem, then it is probably difficult to understand the ideological work of the tomb owner. You must be with the grave.

Then, can you think of some ways to make the grave owner act legally?

According to my understanding of the law, there is really no relevant legal provisions that can make people move their graves! You have the right to live, and other people's graves have the right to be laid! So the law can't help you. Unless it is your contracted land, it is used as a cemetery by others without authorization.

Finally, I want to tell you that you can find a way out from our rules. If the owner of the grave insists on not moving the grave, let their grave continue to exist. Anyway, "ghosts" are also scary! You pass by the grave every day, which makes the ghost restless! Besides, people die like lamps. There are no ghosts!

All right! That's all! In short, there is no such taboo here. Therefore, there are often graves in front of our house. Of course, if there is such a taboo in your place, you should try to negotiate with the grave owner and try to let them move the grave. If it really doesn't make sense, no one can solve it.

There is a grave in the front yard of the house, which is unlucky and broken! When I was playing, I went to visit a resident's house at the gourd neck of Dahuuba on the Jiangxi River in jianyang city, planed the grave tail and built two rooms. The house was as black as ink and destroyed the owner's house. Afterwards, I asked my neighbor to explain that this person is stubborn and does not believe in evil! Think that the grave is "good feng shui" and deliberately dig the grave to build a house. As a result, for more than three years, the patients died suddenly, and now the house is as white as ashes ... so people who are in a good mood ask to know and can't act rashly. If they build houses and set up geomantic omen privately, they should avoid killing three things, killing mountains, killing the moon the most tightly, and living in disasters that month, so don't be careless! ! !

People live and die, and when they die, they return to the loess. The so-called burial is safe. There are tombs in ancient funeral etiquette, especially the Han people attach great importance to the location, construction and commemoration of tombs. Based on respect and awe for the dead, protecting the grave is a fine tradition and virtue.

The house is the home of the living and the grave belongs to the dead, both of which are so important. What if there is a grave at the door? The best solution is to move the grave and bury it in another treasure hunt. No one wants to see the grave as soon as they open the door, which gives people a very pessimistic psychological hint and easily causes psychological obstacles over time. There is a saying in the countryside that the grave in front of the house "presses money" and "blocks money" is more of a psychological suggestion, giving people a feeling of depression.

There is a grave in front of the house, and the family members do not move. The best solution is to find someone to negotiate. Find a respected old man in the village to help as a middleman and state his sincerity, hoping to move the grave properly. It is better for someone to mediate and negotiate than for two families to contend. If necessary, village cadres can be asked to mediate and witness, move graves and pay money. Both sides should show an attitude of doing things, and I believe they will definitely agree to move the grave.

If no settlement can be reached through consultation, only a lawsuit can be brought to the local court or arbitration unit. In this case, there must be some witness, material evidence and justifiable reasons for the other family to move to the grave. For this kind of dispute, the court will conduct on-the-spot investigation to find out the time before and after the tomb was built and the house was built, whether it occupied fertile land and so on. As for who wins the case in the end, it is still based on whether the land occupation is legal and who builds it first. If the other party loses, it must move the grave.

It must be understood that graves are protected by law. If you want the other family to move to the grave, you must discuss with both parties and ask someone to mediate. If it really doesn't work, it will be decided by the court. The premise is not to destroy other people's graves without authorization! This is illegal and immoral. For everyone's good, it must be reasonable and legal.

In fact, this kind of thing is very common in rural areas. In the past, the countryside was vast and sparsely populated, so some people buried graves on many barren hills. However, with the increasing population in rural areas, there are fewer and fewer homesteads, so many people now build their houses on mountains, but there may be graves in some places. In this case, you will encounter the problems mentioned by the subject. Many rural people build their houses on mountains, but they have to face a problem, that is, there will be some graves in front of and behind the houses.

In this case, some people who build houses may consult with some family members of the grave owner to see if they can move the grave to other places, but such consultations often have no effect. Because the deceased was big, since the grave was buried there, it could not be easily moved, and future generations would not allow such a thing to happen. Therefore, we will find that many rural people will have some graves next to their houses, especially the rural houses with their backs to mountains. This phenomenon is even more common.

We all know that the protection of ancestral graves by rural people is sacred and inviolable, especially with the acceleration of new rural construction and urbanization, many buildings may occupy some graves. There have been many disputes in the countryside because of moving graves. In the final analysis, it is because people are unwilling to move their ancestral graves to other places easily. After all, their relatives have been buried underground for so many years. If they move again, it will definitely be bad. Therefore, rural people are very taboo about this kind of thing. No matter how much money they give or how to negotiate this kind of thing, they will not give in.

Therefore, if we really encounter a grave next to the building, it is best not to destroy it easily, otherwise it will easily lead to disputes and cause some unnecessary troubles. If you can't avoid some graves nearby when building a house, it will be better to avoid or build a wall to separate it from the graves when building a house. After all, if there are graves in front of and behind your house, you will definitely be cautious. Therefore, we can only think of some ways to kill two birds with one stone to avoid some things, and never use coercive means to destroy other people's graves, otherwise it will really cause great disputes.

The living don't argue with the dead, others don't move their graves, but move from their homes.

In many rural areas, apart from mass graves and ancestral graves, there are few graves dedicated to funerals like those in cities, and farmers will choose venues to bury the dead according to traditional customs. In this way, the graves in the countryside will be chaotic, and there may be graves in front of and behind the house. Some graves even become invisible because of collapse, that is, they become part of the soil and die.

There is a grave in front of the house, which is quite unlucky for people who pay attention to it. However, if there is an occasional erratic "jack-o'-lantern" in the middle of the night, a timid person with three souls and seven souls can only be scared to death. Therefore, if the grave can be moved to the door, the owner will be happy, but then again, what if the other party refuses?

Generally speaking, the relatives of the deceased choose a cemetery for them and then open a "golden well". After the funeral, they carried the coffin to the cemetery according to local customs. Before burial, the spiritual master will make a ceremony and recite the deed of land, in which it is agreed to spend a certain amount of money to "buy" the land, and mark the upper and lower boundaries of the southeast and northwest, with the dead body of Yong 'an in the middle. This is the so-called "buying a mountain and a pool", that is, this cemetery with "a sky above and a grave below" has been bought with money, and no monsters can infringe on it. Although this is unscientific, this folk custom has been circulating for a long time and is respected by reason.

In addition to the illusory "buy mountain pool", in fact, before the "golden well" was played out, the ownership of the tomb plot had been settled. In rural areas, when farmers choose a cemetery, they will choose a treasure trove of feng shui. If they choose their own website, everything will be easy. If they choose another location, they will get the right to use it through land exchange and purchase. Therefore, no one will bury their dead relatives in a controversial place. Since the grave in front of the house already exists, it shows the legitimacy of its existence.

It is possible for the other party not to move away from the grave in front of the house, but more often than not, it is not intentional, but there are many reasons.

1, related to the second relocation and burial. In some southern provinces, there is a custom of moving and burying dead relatives twice. The so-called second relocation burial, that is, "deboning burial", refers to opening a grave to clean up the bones after being buried in a new grave for many years, putting them in a jar, and then moving the burial place to a new place for burial. If there is a local custom of second relocation and burial, and it is not the time for relocation and burial, the other party naturally does not want to move. For this situation, Kaki suggested that everyone respect it. After a period of time, a few years or more, the relatives of the tomb owner will move away and bury themselves.

This place is a treasure trove of geomantic omen. In the folk, both rich and poor people are very concerned about their ancestral graves. In order to let the ancestors be descendants, the location of the cemetery will naturally not be too casual. In the same way, farmers should also choose a treasure trove of geomantic omen when building houses. As big as a village, it is inevitable that the grave will be next to the farmhouse. No matter whether there is a grave or a farmhouse first, as long as it does not cross the border, it will not interfere with each other. Whether to move the grave or not is the freedom of others, and no one can control it.

3. Unwilling to disturb the deceased relatives. After death, people pay attention to being buried. Once buried, most people don't want to disturb their deceased relatives unless they have to.

The four boundaries of farmhouse music should be based on the rural construction planning permit. If the grave in front of the house is an old grave, the farmhouse may also occupy a part of the boundary of the grave, but the other party does not pursue or ask because it is too old to produce evidence, so don't twist and scream.

If the farmhouse is built first, then the grave is built, then negotiate with the other party first. At this point, you can only blame yourself for inaction or lack of ability, and let the grave be buried in front of the house. At present, it is a fact that there is a grave in front of the house, and the other party does not move away, which means that it has been communicated with it. To solve this problem, Kaki thinks it is impossible to dig a grave, which is illegal and can only be done by himself. If you feel uncomfortable, you should relax. It's really hard. Then move and choose another homestead with no grave nearby to build a house.

There is a grave in front of the house, and others can't move it. This is really a thorny issue. It is taboo for Mr. Feng Shui to look at rural yin and yang rooms. Many families in rural areas don't want to see the graves in front of or behind their own doors, because according to Mr. Feng Shui, the yin of the yin house will affect the fate of the yang house. Of course, this is a feudal superstition. Apart from superstition, there is a grave in front of our house. It's really unlike the scenery to set up a tombstone. In rural areas, moving graves is considered to be a very important thing. Many brothers disagree because of moving the grave, and even fight. Therefore, there must be something hidden in letting the other party move to the grave. In that case, is there no way, no way? In fact, the method is always more difficult than it is. My views and suggestions are as follows.

There is a grave in front of the house, when you built the house before, or when the other person's grave was built before you. If someone's grave exists in front and your house is behind, you can't bear to let others move. If it is because of the grave, you can not choose the house here. If the house is built in front and the grave is built behind, it can be settled through consultation.

In rural areas, families are closely related, interpersonal communication is relatively frequent, and human relations are strong. The solution to the problem is to be as lenient as possible. For example, the village head, the party branch secretary and the prestigious people in the village all believe that the middleman will make things beautiful. If the negotiation is passed, when people move their graves, they should do them a favor or give them some gifts as a token of their hearts. If it really doesn't make sense, don't take drastic measures. Shouting and fighting are not advisable. Unless absolutely necessary, don't properly use legal weapons to protect rights.

In fact, I think a grave exists in front of the house, just like a monument. Actually, it's to stand guard for your home! It's okay to keep it. After all, it is 2020, a new era. Don't believe in theories such as "Yin Zhai" and "Yang Zhai" any more. Say you're welcome If you are right, do it yourself. It doesn't matter if someone else's grave gets in your way. If you have a good relationship with the deceased on weekdays, there is nothing to be ashamed of. What are you afraid of? For example, my neighbor, whose daughter-in-law died of illness, loved that uncle deeply when she was alive. It's time for burial. The neighbor's uncle insisted on burying his wife in the ground at the door for only one purpose. When he goes out, he will think of his wife. The couple are deeply in love and deserve praise! So, it depends on how you look at it. If you are superstitious, there will be problems in doing things. Things change. If you believe in science, everything will be normal. Therefore, if you live in a scientific atmosphere, you should be fearless, honest and carefree.

Conclusion: Whether it is beneficial to move the grave or not, in essence, I still hope that I will get better and better. I think it is the last word to believe in science and prosper the country through hard work. If you expect feng shui or something, you will suffer sooner or later. I hope that in the new year, Do not forget your initiative mind will keep in mind its mission and build a better family for itself. Let's live a rich life. Let's roll up our sleeves and work hard!

Speaking of graves, in our impression, they usually appear in desolate areas, such as barren hills. At least where people live, it is taboo to have graves.

This is true in both urban and rural areas.

In a word, the grave gives people a very eerie feeling. In addition, there are many legends of ghosts and gods in ancient China.

This makes the mausoleum more colorful. Then, the world is even more afraid of graves appearing in their own places.

It can be said that people living in cities or rural areas don't want graves around their houses.

As we all know, in our common sense, if there are graves around a certain community in a city, then the houses in this community are definitely not easy to sell.

Even if it is sold, the price is relatively low, at least much lower than the houses in some surrounding communities.

Because in people's cognition, if there is a grave around the house, it will be regarded as an ominous sign.

This situation is even more taboo in rural areas.

For example, a family in the countryside is going to build a new house. However, according to the most ideal plan, there will be someone else's grave in front of your house.

What if others don't move out in this case?

In fact, there is still a way, but it must be done at a sufficient price.

For example, use the economy to impress the descendants of ancestral graves and give them enough money to move their ancestral graves to new places.

It can be said that as long as enough money is given, he will definitely move.

However, in fact, many times the owner of the house can't afford that much money.

In this case, you can settle for the second best.

For example, people just don't move, but they have to build a house. You can only move the door, as long as you don't let your door face the grave

If your house has already been built, it is unreasonable for someone to dig a grave in front of your house at this time. Of course, you can't let him bury the dead here.

Of course, this kind of thing usually doesn't happen. In short, if this happens, it can be avoided.

It doesn't matter if you don't avoid it, because people in this world are much more terrible than ghosts.

Generally speaking, human settlements are far away from graves, at least several thousand meters away. After all, in people's impression, the grave is still a terrible existence. If there is a grave, especially when it is windy at night, Xiao Feng will have a gloomy feeling. Coupled with some folklore, ghosts are gods. It's really scary.

In short, people stay away from graves, and people have to avoid graves in their life of choosing to build houses.

If people live in the countryside, you will see that there will definitely be no graves near the village, but with the continuous increase of population, the homestead continues to expand.

In this case, it is possible that the residents' houses will be close to the graves.

What if some people happen to arrive at the door when building a house?

Of course, even if there is such a situation, there is a grave first, and then a new house.

Since somebody else's grave was built here first, and the house you built was built later, and you are afraid of a grave in front of the house, please consult with the descendants of the grave owner to see if this grave can be negotiated.

Of course, for no reason, people will definitely not agree. If so, let's see if some financial compensation can impress others.

If financial compensation can't impress others, then you can only bear it. After all, somebody else's grave was here before. You can't say that you built a house, so you won't let people's graves be here.

Of course, you can also choose to change the entrance, such as the original east gate, and then change it to the west gate. In short, as long as there is no grave in front of the door.

There may be another situation where there is no grave in front of your house, but someone will put it in front of your house.

This kind of person is the one who makes trouble. If there is such a person, then fight and fight to the death. I'm afraid there is no such person who has nothing to do with smoking in real life.

But in the city, there may be graves around a community, and most people are also taboo about it. Where there are graves around the community, the house price of this community is definitely much lower than that of other surrounding communities.

In a word, people don't want graves where they live. If there is, it is best to move the grave. If not, you can only bear it.