What does it mean to get married on an auspicious day?

What does it mean to get married on an auspicious day?

The interpretation of marriage in the Yellow Calendar;

This is a good day for a man and a woman to get married and hold a wedding. Live with another partner.

Detailed explanation of marriage

1. It means to marry a woman, marry a woman.

Biographies of Korean Poems Volume 4: Whether to borrow, eat, drink, marry, fish and hunt. "History of Han Geography" records that many descendants of Jin married and died in Taiyuan, Shangdang and other places. Yan Shigu Note: Take, read and marry.

2. Generally refers to the marriage of men and women.

Yan Zhitui in the Northern Qi Dynasty's "Yan Family Instructions Governing the Family": Marry in recent times, get money by selling women, and lose silk by buying wives. Compared with your parents and grandparents, you will care more about responsibility and less about responsibility, and the market is no different. And pointed out that marriage. Yutai New Gu Yong Yuefu: Sad, don't cry when you get married. You want to be a person and never leave each other.

Marriage customs:

The night before the wedding, the groom went to visit his relatives. The moment the groom leaves home, ask the sedan chair to go. After sunset, the groom will enter the bride's house. Relatives and friends of the woman's family came to celebrate together. The Yue family held a wedding banquet to entertain the son-in-law and relatives and friends (there was also a wedding banquet attended by relatives and friends in the early morning of the next day). The son-in-law sat at the first table of the Yue family this time, and later he became the same as his own son.

After breakfast the next day, the bride and groom exchanged tokens. Generally speaking, the groom will give the bride a new handkerchief and an orange stone bracelet, which means purity and beauty. The bride gave the groom amulets of red bamboo stone and purple ice silver, meaning good luck and peace all his life. You must leave immediately after you exchange your tokens. The bride's mother did not come out to see her daughter off, so she had to sit on the kang and pray for her daughter. The bride's uncle, uncle or brother accompanying the groom and groom is called the best man. The person who sends the wedding should choose someone who has children on both sides, is healthy and lucky, so as to send good luck to the newlyweds. If there are many married women in this village, it is better to leave early. As a saying goes, take the lead. The moment the bride left the boudoir, she was called into a sedan chair. After getting on the sedan chair, the bride can only look forward, not back. It means that marriage is long and there is no turning back. If the groom meets an acquaintance on the road, he can only nod and not talk. Homophonic words lead to loss of points. Talking too much will lose its meaning. At this time, the man's house is full of wedding couplets, happy words are all over the street, firecrackers are hung high, and relatives and friends are waiting at the door to prepare for the bride.

When the bride and her party arrive, according to the division of labor in advance, there are aunts who pick up the bride, aunts who don't send her and aunts who don't, that is, the woman's aunt doesn't take part in sending her niece to the sedan chair, and the man's aunt doesn't take part in picking up her niece from the sedan chair, but is accompanied by the wedding host who picks her up. The person who picks up the bride will send the bride to the new house; Shuttle guests into the living room. At the same time, firecrackers exploded to create a festive atmosphere.

The wedding reception begins at noon. The bride enters the banquet; The groom didn't come to the table, but served tea and water. The seating arrangement is very particular. It is the first table that sees the guests off. If many people see them off, they have to sit at every table. Then friends are older, and friends of family try to arrange seats. Collateral relatives are uncle, uncle and uncle in turn. Direct members, whether grandpa, dad, uncle or uncle, are all service groups. Even if there are seats, there are no seats. There are many rules when eating, so be careful not to break the tableware. Just like Chinese New Year, you should be colorful. The condiments on the table should be changed from garlic to jardine and vinegar to plan. The high-pitched area of the banquet is the fish coming up, and the accompanying personnel should do everything possible to make the guests drink more. Drunk homophonic is the most and best meaning. Guests often mean that the fish is on the table and I am under the table. I was drunk and lay under the table without eating fish. When eating, everyone at the same table wants to eat rice and noodles. Don't just eat the same thing, it's called soup and rice, and both children have it. I wish the bride, groom and children both happiness.

After the banquet, the bride's family will go to the new house to have a look and report. It's called a dinner party. A small banquet is a decoration and a process. Just set a table of food and wine symbolically. However, it should be noted that the elders of the bride's family will give an eight-foot mirror at the small banquet, and the couple will put it in the middle of the room after receiving it. Within 90 days after marriage, please ask the mage to print according to the couple's birthday. If you were born in March, April and May of the lunar calendar, you need to add a wooden spirit and a royal coin to the seal book, and Qian Fan fans will seal it. Born in June and August of the lunar calendar, you need to add hibiscus umbrella seal, grass paste seal and hundred eye seal to the album. Born in September+10 165438+ 10 of the lunar calendar, bamboo, red maple, Xicheng and Watanabe sunflower crabs need to be added to the album. Those born in lunar calendar 65438+ February 65438+ October and February need to add Yun Anma, feather heart and boat to the album. When going to a small banquet, the delivery person should say some kind words to her parents-in-law on behalf of the bride's parents. If your daughter is all thumbs and can't do housework, please be a mom and dad in the future. The groom's family should prepare snacks for the guests to show their gratitude. It is very impolite if you are too busy to remember. The wedding reception officially ended when the people who sent the guests away.

At night, there is a custom of making trouble in the bridal chamber, and the villagers try their best to play tricks on the bride and groom. Influenced by the concept that brothers are like fathers, brothers and sisters-in-law of the same generation do not play jokes on each other or make trouble in the bridal chamber; Brother-in-law's uncle and sister-in-law are unscrupulous and are the main force of the bridal chamber. This bad habit was later phased out.