What's the saying about getting married in July and a half? What happens if you get married on Halloween?

Introduction: In our country, regarding some auspicious days, we mostly refer to the taboo events marked in the yellow calendar, especially the top priority of marriage, as festive and auspicious events. The choice of wedding date will naturally go through very strict selection. So, what if it's a Halloween wedding? Let's learn what getting married in July and a half is.

What's the saying about getting married in July and a half?

Statement 1: June and July are two months in a year, headless and tailless, which means bad. Getting married at the beginning of the year or at the end of the year is a good sign. But this is actually what the older generation said. Now many people don't pay much attention to these things. If you don't mind this, you can get married at any time. But generally at the beginning or the end of the year, there is more free time. At other times, everyone is busy and has no time to prepare for the wedding or attend the wedding.

Statement 2: Married for three months, that is, March, June and July, should avoid marriage. Ancient people thought that June in the lunar calendar was half of a year, and the bride who got married in June was called a "half-moon wife", that is, there was no future, and married couples were prone to divorce after marriage. From a practical point of view, the weather in June is very hot, which is not suitable for weddings. March and July are the days when ghosts appear more and more. It is not good to get married in these two special months, so we should try our best to avoid it.

Why can't you get married in July of the lunar calendar?

In China, people think that people can't get married and put wine in July, because there is a Mid-Autumn Festival in July, so July belongs to the ghost month, which is the most important time period in Yin Qi. So I think it will be unlucky to get married with wine this month, which will affect my fortune. So people often either get married in July of the lunar calendar or move.

Can I get married around the Mid-Autumn Festival?

There is no celebration in July of the lunar calendar, and people generally don't get married on the Mid-Autumn Festival. This has nothing to do with the quality of the day, but a folk custom passed down from generation to generation. In southern Fujian, Mid-Autumn Festival is a grand and lively folk festival in a year, second only to Spring Festival and Lantern Festival. People in southern Fujian dare not call the Mid-Autumn Festival "Ghost Festival". Many places are used to calling it "July and a half", which is also an example of avoiding saying "Ghost Festival". The Mid-Autumn Festival in each village is different, and most of them are decided by the older generation. Although the festival dates are different, they are collectively called Mid-Autumn Festival or Purdue. Purdue is a mixture of Buddhism and Taoism, another name of Buddhist bonsai, and also the deformation of Taoist Mid-Autumn Festival. Legend has it that the King of Yan "opens the gates of hell" on the first day of the seventh lunar month every year, releasing the ghost who has no owner in hell to enjoy sacrifices in the underworld and bringing back the money and materials needed to live in hell. July 30th of the lunar calendar is the day to "close the ghost door", and every household is used to being a "tail element" to send away ghosts. At this point, Purdue Month has come to an end. Locals don't get married, but on birthdays, they don't move, they don't go to Buddhist temples, and they do all kinds of festive things in July of the lunar calendar. Even adults don't let their children go out at night.

Matters needing attention in marriage

1. When the newlyweds get married, when the groom enters the wedding, the bride has to close the wedding door herself, which means that she will lock her husband's heart in the future and let him be loyal to herself from now on. At the same time, the shoes of the bride and groom must be placed in pairs, which means that the husband and wife will love each other in the future.

On the wedding day, especially when the bride gets on the sedan chair, gets off the sedan chair and worships heaven and earth, it will be unfavorable to the people of the three zodiac signs. These people may get hurt if they don't avoid it. For the sake of the smooth wedding and the safety of the participants, in ancient marriage books, three places that tease the couple will be listed in a conspicuous position for publicity, so that everyone can see clearly and make preparations in advance.