Why can't we get married at the vernal equinox?

Why can't we get married at the vernal equinox?

Why can't we get married at the vernal equinox? Marriage is a top priority in life, so everyone attaches great importance to it and will choose an auspicious day to hold a happy event in advance. Some people want to get married at the vernal equinox, while others say that the vernal equinox is not suitable for marriage. Let's talk about why we can't get married at the vernal equinox.

Why can't we get married at the vernal equinox 1 1? Why can't we get married at the vernal equinox?

People think that the wedding day should be avoided from four days to the day before, that is, beginning of spring, Changchun, beginning of autumn, beginning of winter and the day before the vernal equinox and autumnal equinox. There are no summer solstice and winter solstice in the 24 solar terms. Because the cosmic gas field of these solar terms is in a chaotic state, it is considered as four breaks and four breaks in traditional customs, and it is unlucky to get married at this time.

In addition, because the third month of the lunar calendar coincides with Tomb-Sweeping Day, it is a solar term for ancestor worship, so it is not suitable for marriage. April in the lunar calendar is because the pronunciation of four and death is similar. Many modern people are taboo and think it is unlucky, so they seldom get married in April of the lunar calendar. The ancients thought that the fifth month of the lunar calendar was an evil month, a day when the five poisons were rampant all over the world, and it was not suitable for marriage. In ancient times, there was a saying about the sixth month of the lunar calendar, that is, "marry in June for half a year", which means that June is half of December, and by June, the year is over half. If you choose to get married in June, it means that both husband and wife can only be sweet until the end of the year. The seventh month of the lunar calendar is the "ghost moon" in China folklore. It is said that every year on the first day of the seventh lunar month, ghosts are opened and hungry ghosts are released, and the gate of hell is closed until July 30, and July 15 is called "Ghost Festival". Therefore, in order not to offend these ghosts and gods, few people choose to get married in July of the lunar calendar. There is the Double Ninth Festival in September of the lunar calendar, which is also a festival of worship, and it is not suitable for marriage.

The rest of the solar terms, including fright, rain and Xiao Man, either thunder or rain, which is not good for the wedding. The white dew, light snow, heavy snow, slight cold, severe cold and low temperature are very unbearable for the bride who gets married and wears a wedding dress, so I won't choose this one. So when you get married, you must avoid these solar terms, lest the weather affect the wedding or the bride and groom can't stand the temperature of the day.

Second, the origin of the saying that the vernal equinox can't get married

Spring is divided into four days, don't get married. Folk believe that the wedding day should be avoided from four days to the day before, that is, the day before the summer solstice and the winter solstice in beginning of spring, Changxia, beginning of autumn, beginning of winter and the vernal equinox, autumnal equinox and twenty-four solar terms are not available, and the universe is in a state of chaos. Traditional customs think it is four days, so it is unlucky to get married at this time.

In addition, there are many taboos in the choice of wedding date, such as avoiding March, July and September of the lunar calendar, which coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively. They are all traditional ghost festivals and should not be held for happy events. "Married for half a year in June", June is equal to half a year, and getting married in June is a sign of "husband and wife for half a year". At the same time, traditional numerology says that parents' birthdays should be avoided on the wedding day. If the wedding date is the same as parents' birthdays, it will conflict with each other and be detrimental to their happiness.

The most taboo wedding day is four days away: the day before beginning of spring, Changchun, beginning of autumn and beginning of winter.

Four unique days: the day before vernal equinox, autumnal equinox, summer solstice and winter solstice.

Death date of each month: the fifth, fourteenth and twenty-third days of each month.

Nine dark days: 18 and 27 every month.

Yang: The thirteenth day of the first month, February 11th, March 9th, April 7th, May 5th, June 3rd, July 1st, 29th, August 27th, September 25th, October 23rd, November 21st and December 19th.

Why can't we get married at the vernal equinox? 1. It is called the vernal equinox.

In ancient China, March, April and May were not spring, but the period from beginning of spring to the summer solstice. People used to use beginning of spring, Changxia, beginning of autumn and beginning of winter to indicate the beginning of the four seasons. Spring includes six seasons: beginning of spring, Rain, Frightening, Equinox, Qingming and Grain Rain, with an average of 90 days, so it is called this. Among them, vernal equinox, summer solstice, autumn equinox and winter solstice are in the middle of each season. On the vernal equinox, the sun shines directly on the equator, and the time between day and night is equal all over the earth. Therefore, it used to be called vernal equinox and autumnal equinox, also known as "day and night equinox", and there is a folk proverb that "vernal equinox and autumnal equinox are equally divided day and night".

Second, can you get married at the vernal equinox?

Whether you can get married at the vernal equinox is mainly judged according to the suitability and taboo of the yellow calendar on the day of the vernal equinox.

Of course, in addition to the suitability and taboo of the Gregorian calendar, it is also necessary to judge according to the date of birth of the new person. Therefore, whether the vernal equinox can get married also needs to be judged according to the actual situation.

3. Why can't we get married at the vernal equinox?

You can get married at the vernal equinox. The reason why you can't get married at the vernal equinox is mainly because you leave the sun four times.

In the folk, there is a saying that you can't get married on days such as "four days away from Japan", "four days away from Japan", "January away from Japan", "nine days in the dark" and "sunny".

Many friends will also think that Chungen belongs to a day four days away from Japan. But this is not the case.

The so-called four-day departure refers to the day before the vernal equinox, autumnal equinox, summer solstice and winter solstice.

Therefore, the vernal equinox is not the day when four people leave Japan, which means that they can't get married.

Fourth, how to choose a good day for marriage?

1, know your life.

Usually we think that the disagreement of the genus is the disagreement of the eight characters. In the traditional horoscope, the animal sign is only one of them, so the disagreement of the animal sign only represents one of them, and the personal animal sign does not play a decisive role in the marriage of relatives. Analyze and understand the fate of the eight characters of both sides, see the harmony and disagreement from it, and choose an auspicious day from it. Both men and women will be combined with Shenwangjiri, with a happy marriage and prosperous children.

2. Make a choice according to the date of birth of the bride.

As the saying goes, "have children, marry a woman." If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage. It is best to choose Ji Yue as the wedding day. It is best for the man to listen to the woman's opinions as much as possible and avoid the menstrual period on her wedding day. But at the same time, we should also pay attention to other people's opinions. After all, this is related to the future family, happiness and harmony.

3. Avoid getting married in special months

Avoid March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for joint happy events. Because Sanniang likes to fight the old moon and destroy the new, she also needs to avoid it. Sanniangsha is the 3rd, 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd and 27th day of the lunar month. Avoid each other's birthdays and parents' birthdays. If your parents have died, you should avoid jealousy and death. In addition, the sixth month of the lunar calendar is not suitable for marriage, because the bride who gets married in June is called "half-moon wife" according to traditional thinking, that is, she has no background and does not help each other.