How to write a wedding gift list

Marriage customs in Guangdong:

The man decides to marry the woman and will give her a bride price before marriage. At the same time, her immediate family (parents, brothers and sisters, elders) will also give gifts. In the future, gifts should be given on holidays (generally Mid-Autumn Festival and Spring Festival). When getting married, the bride is chosen as an auspicious day, and relatives and friends send her off, and relatives and friends of the man and groom go to the woman's house to receive her relatives. Three days after the wedding day, two unmarried men and women of the bride's relatives will go to the groom's house to take the bride back to her family. After living in my parents' house for a few days, there is no customs. In the first year of marriage, the Spring Festival must be spent at her parents' house, and there is no taboo in the future.

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2. The invitation format of the second day after the gift ceremony in Hefei.

Format 1

It is hereby made on the 5th day (week *) of the 200* calendar year.

On the first day of the lunar calendar

Prepare a light drink for GG and MM's wedding

Waiting for Zhang Sanhe and Li Si (or writing about Zhang Sanhe and his wife, Zhang Sanhe and his family, Mr. Li Sihe)

Visit XX Hotel, address: * * Hall, * * * Building, * * * Road.

Jingyue

Your invitation time: I will wait for you in the afternoon.

Sit in * *: * * in the afternoon.

Seats: None *

Format 2

Submit Zhang San Taiqi.

Signed on * * day (Sunday *) of * * month, 200 Gregorian calendar.

On the first day of the lunar calendar

Hold a wedding for GG and MM

Zhang Sanhe and Li Si are sincerely invited to the * * Hotel.

Venue: Hall, BuildingNo. * * Road.

Excuse me: * *: * * afternoon.

You don't need to fill in a place. If it is a cover or you insist on adding it, write down the invitees and main characters. Write your name in B first, then your wife's. C must be filled in, and the person invited should write the full name. Just write down the address in D. You can find a car to pick you up at the ceremony.

3. How to write the wedding gift list now?

"Three Books and Six Gifts" are engagement book (engagement book), gift book (gift list) and wedding book (bride's wedding book).

"The six gifts are: receiving gifts (proposing relatives), asking names (including eight characters), Naji (passing on the text), receiving gifts (giving gifts), inviting dates (choosing dates), and welcoming relatives (welcoming relatives). Gift-giving Modern people don't pay attention to "three books and six gifts" for a long time, but usually only do "gift-giving" gifts.

Note for gift giving: "The items in the bride price imply auspiciousness, but the quantity must be in pairs, and singular numbers are prohibited." The bride price needs to be packed in five Chinese gift boxes in order to be considered as a gift. In order to get even numbers, a mailbox and six gift boxes are attached.

"The man chooses an auspicious day (before marriage 15 to 20 days or so) and prepares gifts and gifts to the woman's house." When a woman receives a man's dowry, she doesn't accept it all. Among them, the items that belong to the man's blessing need to be returned.

Gifts include: 1. Gift cake: two pairs of dragon and phoenix gift cakes, one pair of men and one pair of women. A load of gift cakes can be divided into four kinds, six kinds and eight kinds, all of which are even.

2. Coconuts: Parents use two pairs when they are alive, or use one pair. 3. Tea, cheese? .

4. Two pairs of betel nuts. 5. Three kinds of animals: two pairs of chickens or geese, two females and two males (only one pair is needed when parents are not alive).

Pork flies in pairs, that is, a few kilograms are split in two and the bottoms are connected together. A pair of fish, usually big fish.

6. Seafood: Usually four kinds of seafood, abalone, sea cucumber, shark's fin, fish belly and scallop, the advanced ones can be used; More economical can choose squid, dried shrimps, mushrooms and oyster sauce. Prosperity depends on people, but there must be seaweed.

7. Guo Jing: Choose four kinds of fragrant lotus seeds, lilies, red dates, longan, litchi, peaches or peanuts. 8. Postbox: Of course, there must be gifts in the gift box, and the rest should be filled with lotus seeds, lilies, clams, shoulder poles, betel nuts, sesame seeds, red beans, mung beans, four Beijing fruits, red ropes, Li Li and gold ornaments.

9. Others: cigarettes, wine, fruit, whatever you want. Two pairs of dragon and phoenix candles, don't miss them, and there are two pairs of couplets.

The items returned by the woman's family are: 1. Half or a few points of the bride price of the man's family, but it must be in pairs. 2. Tea, cheese and fruit.

3. A pair of lotus roots and taro pomegranates. 4. He Wei towel (that is, towel).

5. A suit or cloth for the son-in-law, a belt, a wallet (with built-in benefits), a pair of shoes and two pairs of socks. 6. A betel nut.

7. A cart full of tea, including money, fried piles, muffins and so on. Choose a good day and the lucky guy will move to a new bed; Then a good woman makes the bed and sprinkles all kinds of happy fruits, such as red dates, longan, litchi, red mung beans and Li Li.

"After the new bed is put on the bed, no one can touch it until the couple gets married and enters the room." After the couple enter the house, they can let their children eat happy fruit in bed. This is called "pressing the bed", which means a hundred children and a thousand grandchildren.

"Breaking up new houses is considered to be more and more troublesome and more and more auspicious. Dowry "because dowry items are complicated, some outdated things can be replaced by benefits, and the bride can choose what she wants."

"After receiving the bride price, the woman's family will send the dowry to the man's family the day before the wedding at the latest. Dowry items include: 1. Children's bucket: toilet, with red line for money, cypress and profit.

Change the toilet into a spittoon. 2. Bowl chopsticks: two bowls of chopsticks for children and grandchildren are tied with red ropes.

3. Longfeng bedding: sheets, pillowcases, quilts, etc. should be embroidered with patterns such as mandarin duck, double happiness and dragon and phoenix. 4. Scissors and rulers.

5. Silver pants headband. 6. Copper pots and shoes.

7. A few pieces of sugar. 8. Tea sets: including trays, teapots and teacups.

9. Clothes cloth: put the new clothes in the suitcase, with cypress, lotus seeds, longan and so on. And let them make a profit. 10. Gold and silver jewelry.

It says, "Choose an auspicious day for the ceremony before the wedding." By the "good news" (that is, parents and children are alive and their marriage is harmonious), relatives and friends are in their respective homes.

"The couple bathed in grapefruit leaves and put on brand-new pajamas and underwear." On a table by the window, the woman points a dragon and phoenix candle, a wick of incense, and three bowls of lotus seeds, red dates and soup pills, each with six or nine capsules, and prepares raw fruit, roasted meat and chicken for sincere sacrifice to heaven.

"Men's household necessities are: mirror, red rope, pointed comb, ruler for children and grandchildren, and a pair of dragon and phoenix candles. Women's home: wooden comb, bi comb, scissors, sewing kit, red silk scarf.

"Lucky relatives and friends, while combing the couple's hair, said" comb it to the end ","comb it to Qi Mei with white hair ","comb it to the children and grandchildren "and" comb it to four strokes and four silver bamboo shoots ". Then tie cypress and red rope to the new couple's hair.

Wedding ceremony "The groom takes his own flowers to the bride's house to pick up the bride." Before opening the door, the groom should open the door for the sisterhood.

After opening the door, the bride is led out by the big sister or the bridesmaid, handed over to the bride's father, and then handed over to the groom. A pair of exchange mesons.

"Newcomers worship heaven and earth first, and then worship their ancestors." The couple offered tea and bowed to their parents.

"The bride prepared two gifts, one for Wei Wangjin and the other for the full house, and handed it to her aunt after the door. Go out "Sister Daikin or maid of honor holds a red umbrella to protect the bride from going out.

"Sister Dajin and her sisters spread rice while walking (red beans can also be added)." The person who accompanies the bride to the man's house must be an unmarried woman.

"The bride's brother shall not accompany the bride into the door. Passing the door (back to the man's house) "The couple went back to the man's house, first worshiping heaven and earth, then worshiping their ancestors.

"The couple brought tea and bowed down to Aunt Weng, who congratulated them and presented gifts and jewels." The couple offered tea to other elders and relatives.

"The couple shook hands with their peers, brothers and relatives." The couple stayed at home and had lunch with Weng Gu and other elders. Wenggu needs to prepare nine dishes.

On the third day after marriage, the newlyweds went back to their parents' home to worship their ancestors and even stayed for a while. You can choose to return the same day, saving time and money.

The male family's reply includes: 1. Roast a pig (never use profit or barbecue card instead). 2. Two bottles of foreign wine.

3. Two boxes of cakes. 4. bear fruit.

The items returned by the woman's family are: 1. A pig's head, a pig's tail, a pig's hand and half of the pig are put on the pig pot. 2. A bottle of foreign wine.

3. A box of cakes. 4. bear fruit.

5. Count cocks, hens and chickens. 6. Two bamboo poles.

7. Lettuce with roots.

4. Wedding preparation list

Wedding process 1. Wedding planning 1. 1. Decide the wedding date, place, ceremony and wedding reception method 1.2. Determine the wedding budget 1.3. Draw up the guest list 1.4. Call a good friend to discuss the wedding plan 1.5. Confirm the best man. Witness 1.7. Establish a wedding planning group 1.7. 1. Hold the kick-off meeting of 1.7.2 kick-off project. Make a wedding project plan 1.7.3. Clarify the division of labor of preparatory group 2. Prepare before the wedding 2.65438+ communicate with parents about the preparation plan and progress 2. 1.2. Send a happy message to friends and relatives 2. 1.3. Call relatives and friends in other places 2. 1.4. Publish the wedding notice online 2. 1.5. Confirm the Lord again, witness 2. 1.6. Feedback the invitation information of relatives and friends in time 2. 1.7. Reconfirm important relatives and friends 2.2. Buy wedding supplies 2.2. 1. Household appliances and furniture 2.2. 1.2. Bedding 2.2. 1.3. Color balloon 2.2. 1.4. Colored lamp (cold light) 2.2. 1.5. Yarn 2.2. 1.6. Candles. 2.2. Wedding supplies ordering 2.2.2. 1. The bride's wedding dress, 2.2.2.2. Wedding ring, 2.2.2.3. 2.2.2.4 Bride Cosmetics Company. Wedding stickers, red envelopes, happy words 2.2.2.5. Ribbons, flowers, spray 2.2.2.6. Tobacco, wine and drinks in 2.2.2.7. Sugar, peanuts, melon seeds, tea 2.2.2.8. Video, movie 2.2.2.9. Book flowers 2.2.2. 10. Book the cake 2.2.2. 1 1. Fruit 2.2.2. 12. Candle 2.3. Bride and groom image preparation 2.3. 1. The bride begins. Studio 2.4.2. Scheduled shooting date 2.4.3. Photography 2.4.4. Movie selection 2.4.5. Printing or painting. Decorate the new house 2.5. 1. Please ask the cleaning company to clean the new house thoroughly. Decorate a new house. Determine the wedding host 2.6.66. Count the guests 2.7.2. Estimate the number of banquets 2.7.3. 2.7.4 Choose the wedding venue. 2.7.5 Confirm the banquet menu and price. 2.7.6 Confirm the acoustic effect of the wedding reception site. Coordinate the wedding banquet arrangement and other details with the hotel. Book a banquet 2.8. Make an appointment for wedding makeup 2.8.6000000001makeup artist communication 2.8.3. 2.8.4 Confirm the styling on the wedding day. Make an appointment for makeup at 2.9. Booking a wedding car 2.9. 1. Determine the number of wedding cars 2.9.2. 2.9.3 Choose the driver of the wedding car. 2.9.4 Agree on the time and place for tying floats. Determine the driving route and required time of the wedding car 2. 10. 1. Determine the number of photographers in the photography club 2. 10.2. Choose a photographer for the wedding day 2. 10.3. Arrange the division of photography 2. 10.4. Prepare photographic equipment and film tape 2. 10.5. Make an appointment for photography 2.65438+ 1. 1. Exchange new banknotes 2. 1 1.2. Identify children who roll the bed 2. 1 1.3. Prepare guest rooms for distant relatives and friends. Prepare the day before the wedding 3. 1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding 3.65438+. 1.2. Make the final communication with the preparatory group on the preparation and division of labor on the wedding day. 3. 1.3. According to the preparation 3. 1.4, make the final communication with the host on the wedding day. Then communicate with the best man and bridesmaid 3. 1.5. Confirm the relatives and friends who helped last 3. 1.6. Finalize the wedding banquet and vehicle. Make-up details such as preparation 3.2. Confirm the preparation of the speaker on the wedding day 3.2. 1 3.2.2 Preparation of the witness's speech. 3.2.3 Preparation of parent representatives' speeches. 3.2.4 Preparation of guest representatives. The bride's question preparation 3.2.5. Problems that the bride and groom may encounter in the wedding or bridal chamber. 3.3. 1. Finally, try on all clothes 3.3.2. Put all the clothes to be worn on the wedding day in your pockets. Prepare two bottles of fake wine 3.3.4. Prepare fast food for the bride and groom on the wedding day. Finally, count all items and hand them over to a special person for safekeeping. .3.5.4. Red envelope 3.3.5.5. Jewelry worn by 3.3.5.6. Bridal cosmetic box 3.3.5.7. Sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea and drinks 3.3.5.8. Fireworks props 3.3.5.9. Candlestick, wedding candle 3.4. The bride and groom specially prepare 3.4. 1. The bride and groom are familiar with the wedding procedure again and again. Preview the bride's moving action 3.4.3. Preview wedding catwalk 3.4.4. Preview the toast action 3.4.5. Relax and encourage each other. Pay attention to sleep. Go to bed early. Prepare the alarm clock 3.5. 1. 3.5.2 Confirm that the alarm clock works normally. Set the alarm clock to 5: 30. 4. Wedding Day Process 4.1.1.1.5: 30. 4. 1.2 get up. 7:00. The groom's hairstyle. At 7: 45, the bride finished making up. Notify the groom 4. 1.4. Makeup artist, barber red envelope 4.2. Wedding car 4.2. 1. At 6:30, the float will be tied. Take the groom to the new south gate at 7:00. The float 4.2.4 is completed at 7:30. Take the bride back to the new south gate at 7:45 (arrive before 8:30) 4. 4.3. 1.8:00 Best man prepares flowers and red envelopes 4.3.2. At 8:30, the bride goes back to her parents' house and hides her new shoes. At 8:40, the groom and his brothers began to rob people. 8:45 Knocking at the door, questioning, stuffing red envelopes and squeezing the door 4.3. Promise the woman's family 4.3.6 Ribbon teacher in place. At 9 o'clock, the balloon will be in place on 4.3.7. 9:05. The bride and groom will go out with ribbons on their backs. Step on the balloon. At 9: 10, the motorcade leaves on 4.4. Welcome the bride 4.4. 1. 10:00, the motorcade arrived at the man's house in Chenghua Community on 4.4.2 10:05, and the groom held the bride in the door with ribbons. Step on the balloon 4.4.3 10: 10 Children roll the bed 4.4.4 10: 15 Bride prepares tea 4.4.5. 10:20 The bride gives tea to the parents of the man 4.4.6 10. : 00 bring sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea, drinks, etc. Go to the hotel 4.5.2 10: 10 and finally check the details such as banquet arrangement, sound, sign-in desk, etc. 4.5.3 10:30 Prepare the welcome cigarettes for the bride and groom, and match candy 4.5.4 10:45 Ribbon teacher at the entrance of the hotel. The hotel welcomes the bride and groom to the hotel. Ribbon 4.6.2 1 1:00 Check-in desk personnel in place 4.6.31:00 Guide personnel in place at the door 4.6.4 1 1:00 Welcome at the door of the bride and groom. Wedding ceremony 4.7 4.7.2 12: 15 sound preparation 4.7.3 12: 15 marriage certificate, ring preparation 4.7.4 12: 15 balloon.