Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Lucky day inquiry - What's so particular about engagement time?

What's so particular about engagement time?

Details of the engagement time are as follows:

1, parents' opinions

Choosing the engagement date is generally to respect the opinions of both parents, and engagement is also a big deal. Old people will care more, so it is best to discuss the date of engagement with both parents before deciding.

2. Family status

We should also consider the actual situation of both families. The choice of auspicious day should take into account that both elderly people will have time to attend and witness the festival scene with everyone, so it is also important to consider the physical condition of both elders. If an elder is unwell, he should make a diagnosis and treatment in time, and then make plans after he recovers. He should not rush to arrange happy events, or overwork on an auspicious day will aggravate his illness.

3. Time and weather on both sides

Also consider the time of both parties. Generally speaking, it may be wiser to choose a holiday. This auspicious day is even more memorable, and we can also have a relaxed and festive holiday at home with our relatives and friends. Or you can choose auspicious days according to seasonal weather changes. The weather from April to June is neither too hot nor too cold, and there is not much rain, so it is the best season to choose auspicious days.

An auspicious day for engagement.

China people are used to getting married on auspicious days, and "double spring" and "leap month" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy. "Double Spring" refers to the "beginning of spring" where the beginning and end of a year have two years. Because of the symbolic meaning of spring, it is considered to be particularly suitable for marriage.

"leap month" means that there is a leap month in the lunar calendar that year, that is, * * * has thirteen months. Because "leap" has the meaning of nourishing and harvesting, it symbolizes that both husband and wife have love and nourishing, loving and harmonious. When choosing an auspicious day, the elderly usually think that auspicious day is the best leap year, and the Mid-Autumn Festival at the beginning of the month is the most suitable month for wedding.