Nanny-level engagement strategy, explain everything about engagement at once.

Nanny-level engagement strategy, explain everything about engagement at once.

What is engagement? Why are you engaged?

Engagement is an ancient engagement between three media and six people. It is this way to tell friends and relatives that you are getting married. Engagement has no legal effect, and it is more of a sense of ceremony, which adds beautiful memories with romantic ceremonies, and at the same time makes the two sides gradually change their roles and adapt to each other's everything.

After the engagement, the two families have frequent contacts and close ties. You can judge whether this is the marriage life you want by feeling the future family atmosphere at close range.

The period from engagement to marriage is also called the cooling-off period of marriage. Through further contact, two people can determine whether the other person wants to be with them for life, which is also the last chance to choose again before marriage.

When and where should I choose to get engaged?

The time was chosen after meeting the parents of both sides, and the families of both sides have negotiated the house, car, three gold, bride price, dowry and other issues. And the approximate wedding date. Generally, you can choose a good day about 6- 12 months before the wedding.

The engagement place is not limited, it can be in the hotel or at home. The time, place and number of people should be determined.

Tips:

1. If there are many people attending the engagement party, you need to book a hotel as early as possible.

2. If you need to arrange in the hotel, you should confirm the available location and space with the hotel in advance. When booking a hotel, you can observe the surrounding environment so as not to affect the shooting effect.

Who should I invite for engagement?

Invited participants:

1, mainly parents, brothers and sisters and close relatives and friends. The engagement party is usually held by the woman (and sometimes by the man, which varies from person to person). There will be a little more relatives in the organizer's family than in the co-organizer's family. It is suggested that the number of co-organizers coming to the organizer is even!

2. Invite witnesses (if necessary).

3. the matchmaker.

4. Photographer (if necessary).

5. MC (if necessary).

How many red envelopes should I give for my engagement?

Engagement red envelopes: Many places pay more attention to the amount of gift money, as long as the amount is suitable for Geely. There is no absolute rule, but it can be given according to the financial situation of the man's family or the woman's request.

Common gift graphics and their meanings:

1, one in a million: 1000 1.

2. Issued: 18888.

3. Send it together: 3 1800.

4. Colorful: 15000.

What should I prepare for my engagement?

The man's dowry:

1. Engagement fee: both parties have agreed in advance (generally, half of the bride price will be given when engaged, which will be slightly different according to local customs).

2, color gift box: generally put in a box, but also easy to carry.

3, three gold/hardware: gold bracelets, gold bracelets, gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings, etc.

4, diamond ring: most parents will use it when they meet to discuss marriage proposals, and some people can choose to buy wedding rings directly for economic reasons.

5. Banquet money and matchmaker money: both parties shall negotiate.

6. Gifts: According to local customs, some places pay attention to "six kinds of gifts", which means that the new couple will live a rich life after marriage.

The woman replied:

Prepare according to local customs!

Clothing:

1, men's wear: mainly suits (women buy for men).

2, the woman's clothing: dress or cheongsam can be.

3. The clothing of the parents of the man and the woman.

Ceremony items:

1. Hotel layout: kt board (date and name of engagement party), balloon decoration, pump, welcome card, plate flowers, small happy characters, red tablecloth, other ornaments and decorations (vases, customized photo frames, etc. ).

2, engagement book: format or photo frame can be.

3. Bouquet: A large bouquet of roses is usually prepared.

4. Tea set: Prepare tea cups according to local customs.

5, early birth of the fruit bowl: aiming at the bride-to-be has a beautiful meaning.

What is the process of engagement?

1. On the day of engagement, the man, parents and relatives go to the woman's house with items required by bride price and customs (in some areas, it is morning, and in some areas, the time is controlled according to local customs).

2. After the man enters the door, he will give the bride price to the woman's mother.

Sit at the woman's house for a while before going to the hotel.

The engagement party was shot in advance.

The couple and their parents greeted the guests at the door.

6. Read and sign the engagement letter at the beginning of the ceremony.

7. Parents of both sides made simple speeches, expressing their blessings and thanking the guests.

8. At the opening ceremony, the newcomers toasted and relatives gave them red envelopes.

At the end of the banquet, the newlyweds and their parents saw the guests off.

10, the man, the man's parents and relatives go back to the woman's house to sit for a while and leave with gifts (some areas stipulate that they must leave before leaving).

What details should I pay attention to when I get engaged?

1. communicate well with the cameraman. The two main characters should try to arrive at the hotel one hour in advance and reserve shooting time, otherwise it will be embarrassing to wait until everyone is present.

2. Remind the relatives and friends of the organizer to arrive early.

Don't forget to dress up your boyfriend while dressing up beautifully.

The engagement ceremony is arranged after serving. After the ceremony, everyone raises their glasses together, and then they can eat with chopsticks in one go. Try to avoid touching the glass and face the empty table. It's gonna be a little awkward.

Say hello to the elders at home in advance and ask them to enliven the atmosphere appropriately to avoid embarrassment.

6. Put away the diamonds and gold ornaments on the table after taking photos, or simply use simulation to avoid losing them!