What does "Xu Na" mean in the ancient yellow calendar? How to understand Xu Na's meaning

1. Generally, only when there is only one daughter and no son in the family will you choose a husband. If your daughter gets married, her parents have no one to raise her, and after her parents die, there is no one to inherit the family business. In this case, you can only choose a husband.

2. Before accepting a husband, the consent of the main relatives is needed. After choosing a son-in-law, you need to get the consent of the son-in-law and his parents. After that, the son-in-law can go to the woman's house in advance to adapt to life, learn more about the woman's family situation, and let the two sides establish feelings. When the woman reaches marriageable age and holds an adult ceremony, she can choose her husband.

3. Before Gu Nian carries out the ceremony of wearing a head and face, the son-in-law needs to go back to his hometown first, and then be accompanied by his uncle or father and sent to the woman's home, where he will put on the prepared new clothes, a red waist and a half-cooked leg of lamb.

4. Holding a bar mitzvah requires the woman to invite one or two women with children, and the woman and husband will comb her hair and take the lead in the ceremony. A woman who likes to wear a leading role gives a girl an unused comb. The conch bone will be ground into a white round bone with eyes and tied with a red rope. After finishing, you can ask the girl to pour a bowl of butter tea for each guest, cover her face with a "zara hat" and stop talking. The woman wearing a head helps her sit down in a small tent, and the family is responsible for entertaining the distinguished guests.