What do you mean, send someone?

Question 1: What do you mean by seeing the bride off? It should be called seeing the bride off. For example, a wedding reception refers to the family that welcomes the bride on the wedding day, which is called a wedding reception.

Question 2: Who are the people who got married and sent off their relatives? Hello, it is a wedding custom to send relatives away. When the daughter got married, the family invited two men to accompany her to her husband's house, commonly known as seeing her off. Generally, it is the uncle, uncle or cousin of the married person. After giving him away, he can't enter the house until someone picks him up. When eating, two tables are usually shared, and the man sends someone to accompany the banquet. Generally, people who send their relatives away drink less and eat less. After eating, they told their wives to leave. After seeing off the bride, the man's guests continued the wedding reception.

The elder who saw the bride off is an important role. He represents the authority and dignity of the bride's family. The woman is very particular about who to send the bride. Under normal circumstances, the woman's immediate uncle is responsible. If there is no immediate uncle, find the closest elder. But not everyone can see the bride off. This person should be dignified, generous, authoritative and able to hold the shelf. However, if the woman does have a close relative and uncle, no matter how vulgar the person looks and how obscene the behavior is, she must come forward to see him off, otherwise she will be laughed at and hold her head up all her life. And this kind of person should undergo short-term training and teach him all kinds of rules until he knows them by heart. Really can hold up the table on the day of appearance.

I hope you can adopt it. Thank you very much.

Question 3: What should I pay attention to when sending relatives? If you don't accompany the wedding, you can get the certificate directly. Get married when you get a license. I've never heard of this.

If you don't want to use her, just say no. Is it necessary to set a date to see her off?

This normal state will not affect, but it will give people an uncomfortable feeling. If someone talks about this for a long time, it will probably be bad for the future. Don't use it.

Question 4: What does it mean to bid farewell to your loved ones? It means that the person who sent the wedding is afraid of rushing. It means that people who send relatives had better not collide with relatives of newlyweds. For example, if a new person is a horse, it is best not to send his relatives who are rats off. Can you understand?

Question 5: Excuse me, what does it mean to say "Auntie" to relatives? Uncle won't send them. Something like this. Draw a lesson from ...

Why don't you pick up your aunt and see her off? There are two opposite sources of this statement. One of the explanations is that "Auntie doesn't pick up Auntie and doesn't send it" is a myth that "Auntie doesn't pick up doubts and doesn't send it". "Don't answer or send" is a marriage clause agreed by both parties in previous marriage documents. "Gu refuses to accept" means that although the marriage contract is signed, the man has the right to dissolve the marriage relationship if the woman is found to have violated moral ethics after marriage (Gu). "Don't send if you are in doubt" means that although you have signed an engagement, if you find out later that the man has a major concealment (doubt), the woman can also break the contract. Because people didn't know much about literacy before, it gradually became "aunt doesn't pick it up, aunt doesn't send it" after word of mouth.

Another explanation is that the bridegroom's aunts are mostly married daughters, and married daughters can only represent the husband's family but not the mother's family. When you get married, you must pick up your relatives in person, not by outsiders to avoid misunderstanding. Aunt is also married and belongs to a foreign surname. Marrying a woman is a big deal and should be delivered by her family. I think both of these statements are reasonable and in line with ancient traditions.

In addition, the married elder sister can't and can't take her family to see her off. Both of these statements make sense.

Who should I choose to pick up when I get married? Unmarried brothers and sisters are naturally the best. Under the leadership of their elders, they can get familiar with the procedures of welcoming their loved ones through reception and seeing them off. The elders who pick up and drop off new people are responsible for educating them. The main content of education is to entrust the bride. From today on, you are a member of the in-laws clan, listen to your parents at home, obey your husband and honor your in-laws after marriage. Therefore, the elderly who pick up relatives generally choose from the daughters who return home. Hui-nu refers to a woman who used to have a foreign surname, such as aunt, aunt, etc., who changed her husband's surname after marrying her in-laws. Modern people's social interaction is much wider. In addition to their relatives, the bride and groom have more classmates, comrades-in-arms, colleagues and friends, and it is not unreasonable for these people to pick them up. However, the tradition of not picking up aunts and not sending them has always been preserved, showing respect for each other. You should also choose to pick up your loved ones. You will be lucky if you can't find anyone who is immoral or divorced.

Question 6: Do bridesmaids and bridesmaids mean the same thing? No, it should be the bride's uncle and aunt, or uncle and uncle. Bridesmaids are usually friends of the bride or cousins of the same age.

Question 7: Does seeing the bride mean the bridesmaid? No, all the people who see her off should be immediate family members, and the bridesmaid is responsible for helping the bride do some small things. She can be a friend or a relative.

Question 8: What do you mean by how many people are going to see the bride off?

How many people do you need or,

How many people do you want?

Question 9: What etiquette should we pay attention to when sending relatives? Marriage customs always have a political and economic background. It used to be a sedan chair and a bicycle belt. Now it's a float and a camera. In the future, it will be "going to the moon for nine days and catching turtles in five oceans." Therefore, the more developed the society, the faster the evolution of marriage customs. Before the founding of the People's Republic of China, the marriage of men and women depended entirely on their parents' orders. According to the words of the matchmaker, both parties to the marriage had no right to decide. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, with the advocacy of * * and the popularity of dramas such as Little Black Married and Liu Qiaoer, young people of marriageable age gradually gained the freedom to fall in love. However, at that time, the proportion of marriages arranged by matchmakers was still very large.

Whether it is free love or matchmaker, before marriage, we must perform the procedures of talking about marriage, blind date, engagement, looking forward to home, choosing a good date, giving a bride price, moving boxes and so on.

Proposal: The family meeting will discuss the possibility of getting married. If this is omitted, the elders at home will say that the house to be married is arrogant.

Blind date: arranged by the matchmaker, who comes forward to agree on the appropriate time and place for men and women to meet; If you are in love, you have to find a "matchmaker" to get through this difficulty. The purpose is to let relatives and friends of both sides have a look and help the staff to consult and check. Relatives and friends who go together are commonly known as "body double Eye".

Engagement: If both men and women and relatives and friends have no objection, the matchmaker will propose to the woman on behalf of the man. If the woman agrees, the marriage is settled. After your engagement, you can't go back on your word. At that time, it was very condemned by local public opinion.

Looking forward to home: also known as climbing home, looking at home or "looking at the ground" The future daughter-in-law, accompanied by the matchmaker, paid her first official visit to her in-laws. On this day, the husband's family solemnly received the future daughter-in-law and matchmaker, and relatives and friends gathered together, and the banquet was as rich as possible. In the future, the daughter-in-law will attend the banquet, and generally do not drink at the banquet; Men's banquets try to persuade wine and strive for a lively atmosphere. When the daughter-in-law goes back, the mother-in-law will send clothes and other items. This is called "reminiscence".

Choose a good day: also called auspicious day. Find someone who can choose the date and choose the wedding date according to the fate (birthday) of the bride and groom. People are superstitious that the day of marriage is good and the day after marriage will be good, so they attach great importance to the choice of auspicious days. If there is no suitable day, I would rather postpone the wedding than act rashly. Those who are eager to get married but have no suitable day can get married during the Spring Festival, which is called "Rice Day". Because the whole world will celebrate this day, the return of spring will be lucky. It is the man's business to choose a good day, but he has to send someone to ask the woman for advice. If the woman doesn't agree, she must make another choice until the woman agrees.

Bridal gift: also known as "handing out red" or giving a bride price. After the wedding date is fixed, the groom-to-be is accompanied by a matchmaker to the woman's house to ask for a dowry. Dowry includes cash, clothes, quilt cover, etc. Quantity is constantly changing with the economic situation of the times.

Moving boxes: Three days before the wedding, the man's brother went to the woman's house to get the dowry. You should be extremely careful whether you push it by car or pull it by tractor. Boxes, bedding, wedding cakes, big mirrors, tea sets and other things must be intact, and it is unlucky to be damaged. The dowry moved back will be sent directly to the new house for display.

After everything is ready before marriage, the wedding begins.

The wedding includes three parts: getting married, unpacking and expecting.

Marriage: The night before, the groom went to meet the bride. The moment you leave home, it's called "sitting in a sedan chair". The groom should enter the bride's house after sunset. Relatives and friends of the woman's family came to celebrate together. The Yue family held a wedding banquet to entertain the son-in-law and relatives and friends (there was also a wedding banquet attended by relatives and friends in the early morning of the next day). The son-in-law took the first table at Yue's home this time, and later, like his son, he could only be a waiter when he had guests.

After breakfast the next day, the bride and groom exchange souvenirs, usually new handkerchiefs, which are pure and beautiful. You must leave immediately after you exchange your tokens. The bride's mother did not come out to see her daughter off, so she had to sit on the kang and pray for her daughter. The bride's uncle, uncle or brother accompanies the groom and groom, which is called "seeing them off". The person who sees a guest off should be a man with a son and a daughter, good health and good luck, so as to send good luck to a couple. If there are many married women in this village, it is better to leave early. As a saying goes, take the lead. The moment the bride leaves the boudoir is called getting on the sedan chair. After getting on the sedan chair, the bride can only look forward, not back. It means that marriage is long and there is no turning back. If the groom meets an acquaintance on the road, he can only nod and not talk. Word-homophonic "change", extended to "loss" (multi-word loss). At this time, the man's house is full of wedding couplets, happy words are all over the street, firecrackers are hung high, and relatives and friends are waiting at the door to prepare for the bride.

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Question 10: The sister of the girl I am chasing is getting married. What do you mean, she didn't ask me to drive her? Just because you are chasing a girl doesn't mean that you two have established a relationship. It's understandable that people won't let you see her off. You think too much! Just relax。 Don't get angry easily!