Choosing a good day is very important for couples to get married.

Marriage is a very important day in a person's life, and the wedding date needs to be decided by both families. Many auspicious days are recorded in the farmer's calendar, but how to choose auspicious days that are satisfactory to both sides and what matters should be considered? From the following article, let's learn how to choose the right wedding date.

First, choose the way to get married on an auspicious day

1, the right place at the right time.

All kinds of auspicious choices should be combined with people's information, involving feng shui orientation, but also with time, orientation and people. It is recommended to ask professionals to help you choose.

2. Real wedding day

If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day on the basis of the traditional etiquette of setting wine for the wedding. Tradition always regards this day as a real auspicious day for marriage.

3. It is good for both sides' numerology

It is not only conducive to hitting the five elements, but also conducive to auspicious ecliptic. This kind of life is even better. There is no best, only better. If there is no both, it is mainly beneficial to both men and women.

Step 4 calculate the birthdays of both parties

The most important thing about the wedding date is to calculate the birthdays of both parties, choose a date that is conducive to hitting the five elements, and avoid the collision between the zodiac signs of both men and women and their parents, so that the wedding can go smoothly and the married life can be happy.

5, beneficial to the parties

It is important to choose a good day for marriage, but the most important consideration is that the date is beneficial to the parties, and there is no need to find some mother-in-law.

Intimate reminder: seeing the right marriage is an auspicious day for marriage. Those auspicious days are not necessarily beneficial to you, but off-site auspicious days.

Second, it is not appropriate to get married.

1, avoid festivals: avoid January, so as not to conflict with the big holiday of Chinese New Year.

2. Avoid blind years: refers to the days when there is no beginning of spring all year round. Usually the year after the double spring is the year of blindness.

3, avoid happiness: it is best not to have two weddings at home within one year.

4, avoid San Niang: According to legend, Yue Lao does not lead the red line for San Niang, so that she can't get married.

5. No mourning: It is not appropriate to hold a happy event in the same year when an immediate family member dies.

6. Avoid birthdays: Avoid the birthdays of husband and wife, parents and unmarried brothers and sisters.

7. Avoid 379: Avoid the coincidence of March, July and September in the lunar calendar, and Qingming, Magnolia and Chonggong are all traditional ghost festivals.

Third, other suggestions about a beautiful wedding.

1, respect both parents.

The elders at home will be very concerned about choosing such a date. We must respect both parents, and it is best to discuss with them before making a decision, which can make the relationship between the two sides more harmonious.

2. Don't be too superstitious

Although auspicious day is a tradition in China, we should also understand that the happiness of marriage depends on whether the emotional foundation of two people is solid, and it does not depend on a certain auspicious day, so it needs to be arranged from a scientific perspective.

3. Set a date as soon as possible.

Choose the date according to the actual situation, and set the wedding date as early as possible, so that you can have enough time to plan and prepare, and don't act in a hurry! Once the wedding date is set, don't change it easily.

Step 4 consider the work of both parties

If one party is studying, he should avoid the tense exam date; If one party is engaged in major technical research projects of the unit day and night, the other party needs to wait patiently for a period of time before choosing a good day for marriage.

5, consider the physical condition

If one party is temporarily unwell, it is best not to rush to arrange marriage, and then negotiate after recovery. Otherwise it may affect the harmony of the new life. To avoid the woman's menstrual period, the woman should not be shy.

Step 6 avoid the wedding season

Because of the influence of climate and environment, there are different wedding peaks all over the country, because new people want to hold their wedding in these good days, and they need to avoid these days as much as possible to make the wedding ceremony more harmonious.

(Excerpted from: Wedding Dress, Wedding Photography, Taiwan Province Wedding Photography Sharing Station)

References: 1 Li Wenji 1994 Philosophical thinking on photography 2 Xu Fufeng's application of montage seasonal method in wedding photography in 2002 3 pieces of Yuanling 1997 Sociological research on wedding photography in Taipei.