Why can't some colleagues lend him money?

First of all, whether you can borrow money depends on your relationship with him. Colleagues are different from friends and relatives. There is a good saying. If you don't want to be friends with him, the best way is to borrow money from him and exclude some very stable jobs. The interpersonal relationship here is relatively stable and the mobility of people is relatively small.

However, the job mobility of most private enterprises is still relatively large, and it is likely that a group of people will be changed in two to three years. Macey used to be engaged in the communication engineering industry and stationed projects. The project cycle is different, and most of his colleagues are interns. It is natural for colleagues around him to come and go.

Therefore, if there is no new intersection between colleagues after leaving office, the relationship will soon fade. As for borrowing money from colleagues, it's easy if you don't have any money yourself.

This is not a question of willingness, but a question of ability. Money is not the problem, the problem is no money. The hardest thing is that you have some money, so you are embarrassed not to borrow it. Borrowing it will make you feel uncomfortable. My suggestion is that it doesn't matter who comes.

Or you can decide whether to borrow money according to what you know about this person. Don't borrow anyone's character, it will save you trouble. It is said that all borrowers are grandfathers. When they borrowed money, they all smiled. They had to rack their brains when they asked him to pay back the money. Luck is really sad.

So if no one borrowed it, there would be no such trouble. The only influence is that colleagues will think that if you don't help him, your interpersonal relationship will be bad.

However, if I think it is enough to have a good relationship with my colleagues, I don't have to think so much.