Questions that parents must talk about before marriage.

Questions that parents must talk about before marriage.

About the engagement?

1. Shall we hold an engagement ceremony?

2. Do you want to entertain guests when you are engaged?

3. What is the approximate number of guests invited by both parties?

4. If it is a different place, what about the engagement ceremony?

5. If it's the same city, where is the right engagement hotel?

6. Who will pay for the engagement ceremony?

7. What are the customs and procedures at the engagement ceremony?

Dowry and dowry-related issues

1. What is the dowry of the man?

2. What is the dowry of the woman?

Does the dowry given by the man include three gold? Diamond ring?

4. Does the dowry returned by the woman include the dowry of the man?

5. Are bride price and dowry for newlyweds or parents?

6. When was the dowry and the dowry given respectively?

7. Will anyone from the two families participate in the bride price or return gift?

8. Are there any customs such as women buying clothes for men?

Issues related to wedding customs

1. When is the wedding? Do you need to see the auspicious day of the zodiac?

2. Is there an auspicious occasion for the ceremony?

3. Is there a special link like brazier?

4. Is it in the hotel or the man's parents' house?

5. How many people saw the bride off? What's the point?

6. How many people are there? What's the point?

7. How much is the change fee? How much is the box pressed? How much does it cost to unpack?

8. Are there any other special wedding customs at home?

Problems related to newcomers in the same city

1. How many weddings are there? Do you have a party?

2. What is the overall budget for the wedding?

Who will pay for the banquet? How to distribute the rest of the money?

4. Where should the wedding hotel be chosen?

5. What are the standards for hotels, food labels and drinks?

6. What is the general form of a wedding? Chinese food or western food?

7. How many guests did both parties invite?

8. How many main tables are arranged? What are the main tables?

9. Who received the gift?

Problems related to newcomers in different places

1. How many weddings are there? Do you want to run it separately or together?

2. Do women do it first or do men do it first?

3. Is it necessary to hold a thank-you banquet in the workplace?

4. How to calculate the banquet money separately?

5. Which guests should be invited to attend classes alone at home?

6. Who will pay for inviting other guests?

7. What is the budget for each activity? What is the form of the wedding?

8. How to distribute the gift money received at each wedding?