What's so particular about the burial ceremony? What should I pay attention to?

General things to be buried with: hemp money, stone lions, porcelain and so on! (It is best not to put metal products) It is recommended not to put metal products. On the one hand, these products have radiation, which is not good for the souls and bones of relatives. Secondly, these products are easy to oxidize when wet, leading to rust and blackening! It is not advisable to put too many things in the tomb. Choose two or three representative ones!

Choose a good day for burial: a popular burial day all over the country requires the body to be buried within 3 or 7 days after cremation. The choice of this date is based on the influence of the concept that it is safe to be buried underground, and it is considered that it is safe to be buried early. Read more Buddhist scriptures and read the Diamond Sutra by yourself.

Determine the burial place: see where you are buried. If it is a burial, it is in your own grave, and you can place funerary objects at will. If it is buried in a cemetery, according to the relevant regulations of the cemetery, some cemeteries do not allow customers to put funerary objects in the tomb.

Urn placement: relatives spread gold cloth on the bottom of the cave, with the side with photos as the front, sitting facing south or west. Carefully place the urn, spread a silver cloth on it, then cover it with a red cloth, and put Yu Pei and copper coins on it.

Warm point: relatives burn a small amount of yellow paper in the buried cave to keep it warm, so as to avoid the sarcophagus from bursting.

Use of moistureproof box for urn: When relatives use the urn to protect the urn, they should first lay gold cloth on the bottom of the urn, carefully place the urn, lay silver cloth on the urn, then cover it with red cloth, put Yu Pei and copper coins on the top, and put desiccant in the left, right and front gaps of the urn.

After the relatives confirm the above process, the acupoint sealing personnel are responsible for sealing the acupoints, and relatives can also assist in sealing the acupoints.

Relatives held a sacrificial ceremony, offering baskets and bouquets of flowers and fresh fruits in the open spaces of tombstones, graves and cemeteries. You can say something comforting to the deceased, or you can read a eulogy to express your condolences. Sacrificial ceremonies should be brief.

Relatives and friends attending the funeral stood in silence, bowed three times, and the memorial ceremony ended.

Taboo:

After burial, it is forbidden. After the deceased is buried, mourners should walk around the tomb for three weeks and avoid turning back on the way home to prevent the ghost of the deceased from following the living home.

During the mourning period, it is forbidden to visit relatives and friends. During the mourning period, children should not visit relatives and friends, get together, pay New Year greetings, especially not go to patients' homes, so as not to bring misfortune to others. As the saying goes, _ Dress filial, don't go home. _

Children are forbidden to wear colorful clothes during mourning.

After parents die, children should be filial to their parents. In ancient times, they usually had to be filial for three years. Modern time is shortened, but it should not be less than one year. During the mourning period, children are forbidden to wear colorful clothes, make up heavily and drink and have fun.