Jasper went on the hot search again: Jordan chan and Cherrie Ying, you are so good at raising a second child.

These days, my favorite Mengbao Jasper has been hot searched again!

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This time, he moved to Changsha with his mother, Cherrie Ying and grandparents to help his mother do housework, which showed his brother's strength!

As soon as he arrived at his new home, Cherrie Ying arranged "tasks" for everyone:

Dad Ding ordered food and takeout, and took care of it. Jasper went to the bathroom to move the bathtub and took it downstairs to give HOHO a bath.

With a big bathtub and some bath supplies, Jasper was a little wobbly when he came downstairs, but he still finished the task well by himself.

Seeing his "little adult" appearance, grandma couldn't help praising him: "You are a big brother now."

His performance also attracted the praise of netizens:

"It's great that Jasper is so sensible!"

"What a responsible child!"

"I knew at a glance that he was a very educated child."

"A particularly enviable second-child family!"

It is said that children's every move hides their parents' education If you don't believe me, come and have a look with me ~

Jasper's appearance rate has been very high since Cherrie Ying had her second child. As long as she is here, there must be Jasper.

There was a concert in Jordan chan, and everyone saw Jasper standing next to Cherrie Ying. He can't wait to announce the good news to his mother.

And more excited than my mother, as if winning the first prize.

When someone told him that "you will have a younger brother or sister", he answered "thank you" without thinking.

The upcoming HOHO is a new family and a good partner in life.

Being able to accept the arrival of HOHO so readily is inseparable from Jasper's full participation.

For example, I usually prepare HOHO clothes with my parents.

Sing for HOHO with mom and dad.

He knew that everything he and his parents did was related to HOHO, and he was prepared psychologically.

As a mother with a second child, I have to praise the Jordan chan family for their actions. Only when adults treat their two children equally can they truly love each other.

Although Jasper wanted to be happy before HOHO was born.

The mother gave birth to a child in the hospital, and when his father was with him, he didn't see his family for a few days. He felt a little "depressed".

In the video, Jasper, who usually talks a lot, becomes very quiet, and keen Jordan chan realizes that her son is "jealous".

In order to appease Jasper, Jordan chan resolutely gave up the task of taking care of HOHO and rode home to watch the game with Jasper.

Looking back when Baldo was born, everyone was crazy about the arrival of this new member.

At that time, many people around me didn't understand and thought that what I did was harmful and unnecessary. They think the children are old and unnecessary.

Because I was born in a family with four children, as the third child in the family, I was forced to take care of my sister since I was a child, but on the surface, I was angry at this forced unfair treatment, so I couldn't help taking care of my sister behind my back. It was not until my sister was ill that I realized that I might lose her. I found that I loved my sister in my heart. After my sister got sick, I took care of her from the heart. She grew up.

It is because of this personal experience as a child that I got Bauer, so I will deliberately avoid Dabao's resentment because of this unfair treatment. Most importantly, years of educational practice tell me that in most families with two children, parents often instinctively put their time and energy on the second child.

They think that Dabao has grown up and is sensible. He no longer relies on himself as before, and even asks Dabao to give up everything.

Because, in Dabao's view, Bauer's appearance robbed him of all his usual rights, but strangely, she didn't hold a grudge.

Similar mistakes are everywhere in life, even star families are no exception.

Hook, like countless parents, has been educating his younger brother Angie since he gave birth to Erbao Fish:

"You are Dabao, you should give more to your brother, protect your brother, and don't bully your brother."

She thinks it is normal to teach like this, and there is nothing wrong with it.

Until one day, Angie pinched the little fish, and she criticized Angie as usual.

Not long after, she heard Angie walk behind Xiaoyu and sternly warned him: "I am so miserable now because of you."

This sentence made her fall into reflection: Is she biased towards Erbao?

The second time, she saw two children quarreling over toys. At this time, she told Xiaoyu to make way for her brother.

As soon as she finished, Angie stopped robbing and gave the toy to her brother. After that, the two brothers gradually stopped quarreling and became more and more harmonious.

In fact, the child's mind is particularly sensitive. They may not fight for the toys in their hands, but for equal love.

Especially Dabao, when he feels that his parents are no longer partial to him, but accusing him, his heart will only be full of anger and resistance to the identity of "brother".

Obviously, they are all parents' children. Why am I the only one who is wronged?

When children don't get enough sense of security and love, it is difficult for them to really love their younger brother or sister.

As Chen Ming, a teacher at Wuhan University, said:

"Kong Rong let pear is the premise, pear to Kong Rong's hands first. If you didn't hand this pear to Kong Rong at first, but just said that your pear was big and gave it directly to others, then Kong Rong might not be happy. "

Only when Dabao's love savings can be filled, will he be willing to cooperate with his parents to take care of Bauer and will not be jealous because of lack of love.

Speaking of the second child-rearing mode in the entertainment circle, someone once asked Cherrie Ying: Are you afraid that HOHO and Jasper will compete for favor?

She said: "No one cares or cares more than love, because a family should care for each other, regardless of age. Different personalities have different ways to express love. "

In a second-child family, every child should know that he is not the center of the world, which is the most important lesson in his growing up.

Dabao and Bauer have their own needs. Parents don't give the same thing, but the same love.

Differentiated treatment can give each child unique and unique love.

Just like Liu Yong, a writer, faced with the differences of two children's personalities, he adopted completely different educational methods.

His son Liu Xuan is introverted and rebellious, so he "forces" him to do his own thing and cultivate an independent personality. He is not required to get high marks in the exam, as long as he is clear about his goals and insists on doing what he can.

Daughter Liu Yifan is extroverted and free, so she won't be overly restrained, and she is allowed to be herself with little interference.

Education with "double standards" seems unfair, but it is actually the best love for children.

Together with their father, these two children will be big winners in life.

For Dabao, you can say to him, "Come on, you are brother/sister. Mom and Dad believe that you can take care of your brother/sister together. "

For Bauer, you can tell him: "You are a younger brother/sister, so you should respect your brother/sister and make way."

For the two children, you can promise: "Please believe that although mom and dad love you in different ways, they will never be less!"

Besides, in daily life, it is also important to guide two children to like and love each other.

Because in my opinion, only when love really flows can there be real warmth between brothers and sisters.

For example, my sister Niu and my sister are very different in age. My sister has been studying abroad since she was born, and she doesn't meet many times. However, because of my usual deliberate guidance, although the two sisters are separated by a Pacific Ocean, it does not affect their sisterhood at all.

Many people are curious, how did I do it?

In fact, it's very simple, that is, my sister is not around, but in daily life, anytime and anywhere, I will remind my sister of the existence of dancers in various forms. Every time I contact my sister, I will encourage her to "please" her, express my thoughts and love for her, and let her discover her cuteness!

For example, when I see delicious food, I will keep telling my sister that it is her favorite.

My home is full of my sister's paintings, and I will always tell my sister how great and powerful her paintings are.

In this way, the two sisters are not around each other, but they miss each other invisibly and even influence each other.

For example, my family Dabao Tiaoniu likes pomegranate very much, but Baldo doesn't like pomegranate. In order to encourage her to eat more pomegranate, I will encourage her in my ear:

"My sister loves pomegranate very much. Look how beautiful my sister is now. "

As a result, one night we had a video chat with our sister, and when we saw that she was too much, we leaned in a pomegranate and said to her in a milk voice:

"My sister loves pomegranate and eats a lot. She must be as beautiful as her sister!"

There are many similar things, and the friendship between sisters is also established step by step. Now my sister has found many sisters as soon as she comes back, and many of them are also very clingy.

Also because of this flowing yearning and love, this sisterhood with the Pacific Ocean across the age of 13 has become precious.

As a second-born mother,

You still have those headaches, why don't you tell them and solve them together?