Three elements of wedding date selection

The way for newcomers to choose auspicious names.

After the couple determines the wedding year, they can choose the wedding date through the strokes of the couple's surname and wedding month, and through the strokes of the couple's name. First, calculate the total number of strokes of male and female surnames. If the total number of strokes of male and female surnames is less than 12, then the total number of strokes of male and female surnames represents the wedding month. If the total number of strokes of male and female surnames is greater than 12, then the total number of strokes of male and female surnames minus 12 is the wedding month. Next, calculate the total number of strokes of male and female names: if the sum is less than the number of days in the selected month, then the number itself is the wedding date; If it is greater than the number of days in the current month, minus the number of days in the current month is the wedding date. Tip: Use both traditional and simplified characters. The dates calculated in both fonts are optional wedding dates. For example, Mr. Wang Er and Miss Liu Yu want to get married this year. We choose the wedding date by choosing the couple's name. First of all, the total number of strokes of male and female surnames is calculated as follows: 4+6 =10; The total number of strokes of male and female names is: 2+5 = 7. Using the above method, we can know that the wedding date of Mr. Wang Er and Miss Liu Yu should be 65438+10.7.

How to choose a lucky day for a couple's birthday.

After determining the year of marriage, couples choose the month of marriage through the birth of both men and women, and the date of marriage through the birthdays of both parties. First, calculate the sum of the birth months of both men and women. If the sum of birth months is less than 12, it means the month of marriage. If the sum of the birth months of both parties is greater than 12, then the sum minus 12 is the wedding month. Next, calculate the sum of the birthdays of both men and women. If the sum is less than the actual number of days in the selected month, the sum itself represents the wedding date; If it is greater than the actual number of days in the selected month, minus the actual number of days in the selected month is the wedding date.

Tips: If you want to use the Gregorian calendar, use it. If you use the lunar calendar, you will choose the wedding date of the corresponding solar calendar or lunar calendar. The wedding date calculated by the two methods is an alternative wedding date. For example, Mr. Wang Er's Gregorian birthday is1981March 2, and Miss Liu Yu's Gregorian birthday is19801October 13. They want to get married this year. We choose the wedding date by choosing the couple's birthday. First of all, the sum of the birth months of both men and women is 3+1= 4; The total number of birthdays for both men and women is: 2+ 13 = 15. Using the above methods, we know that the wedding date of Mr. and Ms. Wang Er should be April 15.

Other forms of lucky choice. Modern people are rich in ideas, so they have their own emphasis on the choice of wedding date, and some will take its symbolic significance.

It will be a very romantic feeling if people choose the anniversary of their first meeting for their wedding. People will also choose to get married on the day of marriage registration (that is, the day when they become legally married) or on the wedding anniversary of their grandparents, which is not only memorable, but also symbolizes the passing down of love from generation to generation. Many newcomers from ethnic minorities will choose auspicious days according to their own cultural traditions. In some places, parents of both sides will also choose the most auspicious day for their wedding according to an ancient calendar (imperial calendar). No matter how you choose the wedding date, it is important that the parties must tell all the guests at the wedding that the wedding date they choose has special symbols and significance. When choosing a wedding date, you'd better consult your closest relatives to ensure that they can attend your wedding that day. But remember, you only need to invite your parents, brothers and sisters, groomsmen, bridesmaids and other important guests. Don't cater to too many people, otherwise you may have a hard time deciding. Once the wedding date is set, don't change it easily.