What issues should be considered before getting married?

What factors should be carefully considered before marriage?

Marriage needs a little impulse. Doesn't mean you can get married the longer you talk about love. If you are in a hurry to get married, you must not talk about love for too long, which is easy to consume.

Since it is an impulse, we can't seriously consider too many factors after the impulse. When you are in love, you will get a certificate if you are hot. But the simplest points are still needed:

1, confirm that you are in love, which is the premise of marriage. It is difficult to get married for the sake of marriage, and it is also difficult to have a stable and lasting marriage.

Both parents are blessed. Marriage is not about two people, but about two families.

3, do premarital examination, good health.

4. Self-motivated and responsible, we can work together in the future.

5. Do the three views of temper and personality of both sides get along?

6. Do you have any hobbies or bad moods?

7. Is your in-laws busy and your mother-in-law strong and affectionate?

8. Look at his attitude towards his parents and friends around him. Being filial to your lover and kind to others will not be bad for you.

9. Whether the other person is independent, has his own ideas and attitudes, and is not easily controlled by his parents.

10, whether you can't escape when quarreling, there is a difference between tolerance and patience.

1 1. Is it possible to assume the responsibility of a new family (sense of responsibility, certain economic foundation)?

12. About the distribution of housework, how to divide family affairs, such as cooking and cleaning, who will be responsible ... These seemingly trivial things often become the culprit to kill feelings.

Summary of the contents to be considered before marriage

Its content can be summarized as: present and future.

The current content includes: personal basic situation, marriage view, hobbies.

Personal circumstances include

Physical condition (whether there are infectious diseases, family hereditary diseases, etc.). )

Personal property (including current assets deposits and personal credit liabilities, etc.). )

The concept of marriage includes

Is there any traditional concept (son preference? Can family customs be accepted? This kind of outdoor man, indoor woman? )

Simple three views (outlook on life, world view and values)

Future content includes:

Future planning, children's education, family financial expenditure, parents' pension and a series of other issues.

This is not the whole problem to be considered, but it should be the main problem.

Personally, I think the main consideration should be personal situation and the other party's rules for the future.