When is the bride price usually given to the woman?

According to traditional customs, the bride price is generally given to the woman at the time of engagement, and there is no mandatory provision in law. The role of bride price is generally used by the families of both men and women to determine the marriage relationship. However, when and how much to give the bride price is mainly determined according to the local customs and culture and the results of family consultations between men and women. However, those who pay the bride price according to the custom should be within the acceptable range, and should not buy or sell, arrange marriages or interfere with the freedom of marriage in the name of the bride price. According to the custom, the bride price is usually given at the right time: 1. Engagement is more formal than engagement, and it is more appropriate to choose the date of engagement for the bride price. On the engagement day, not only the woman's parents will be present, but also the man's parents and important relatives and friends will be present. At this time, giving the bride price to the woman can not only highlight the man's attention, but also make the man look more "arranged". It seems more joyful to add the ornament of bride price on festive days!

On the day of marriage proposal, not every place has the saying of marriage proposal, but generally speaking, before the couple get married, the man will formally visit the woman's house. Whether it is a nominal proposal or not, the man can choose this day as the day to send the bride price. Marriage proposal is not as formal as engagement. You can give the woman a part of the bride price to show your attention, and then give her the rest of the bride price in front of all relatives on the day of formal engagement.

As a matter of fact, there is no clear stipulation on which day to send the bride price before the wedding, so if the couple's families are busy and time is tight, there is no need to choose a formal occasion and time to send the bride price. The two families can discuss a convenient time for everyone, and the man can send the bride price to the woman's home. After all, it is time to show the man's attitude. As long as the bride price and etiquette are in place, time is basically not so important!

The day before the wedding, there may be no mention of marriage or betrothal in some areas, so the date of giving the bride price can be set on the night before the wedding. However, giving the bride price the night before the wedding also has some disadvantages, such as being hasty and looking less formal, and the woman's family may be busy preparing for the wedding and have no more time and energy to pay the bride price. However, it is also good to give the bride price the day before the wedding. For example, you can put the bride price directly in the lobby of the woman's house, and the guests will see the amount of the bride price the next day, showing the atmosphere of your wedding.