Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Lucky day inquiry - Why did you choose the date of your wedding?

Why did you choose the date of your wedding?

The wedding day will definitely avoid the wedding before the bride's menstrual period. It is called "wedding day" or "ceremony day". Generally, the man will find the local Mr. Feng Shui to calculate the best wedding date according to the zodiac signs and birth dates of both men and women. After the "wedding day" is set, the man should entrust the matchmaker to bring some gifts to the woman's house to "send the day". If the woman's family receives this day, the big day will be fixed. If the date is returned by the woman's family, it means that there is something wrong with this date and it needs to be rescheduled. So what's the problem? It's not that the days are unlucky, mainly because girls can't have sex during their periods. At this time, the man's parents will bring gifts and ask Mr. Feng Shui to set a date again. The date set by Mr. Feng Shui must be about 15 days later or earlier than last time. Because menstruation is extremely sensitive, people can't ask it directly, so they use this method of "celebrating a happy day" to solve this thorny problem. The matchmaker sends a new wedding day, and the family follows. However, as we all know, the delay or advance of menstrual period is about 15 days, which happens to be the ovulation period of women, and there are no good contraceptive measures before, so it is not uncommon for newlyweds to get pregnant on their honeymoon. Modern medicine has proved that both husband and wife are not suitable for having children because of fatigue, drinking and other factors when they are newly married, so Mr. Feng Shui at that time knew the date, but did not know the knowledge of reproductive health. There is also a kind of "happy event", that is, Mr. Feng Shui chooses two days at a time, one day in the first half of the year and one day in the second half of the year for the woman's mother to choose, also to avoid the bride's menstrual period.