Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Lucky day inquiry - Although life is bitter, the world is also worth it. If the heart is sunny, the years will be safe.
Although life is bitter, the world is also worth it. If the heart is sunny, the years will be safe.
Yu Hua wrote in "Living": "Or you can feel the happiness and hardship of living, and the boredom and mediocrity of living are just the evaluation of others."
While many literary works are praising the beauty of life, Yu Hua mercilessly wrote the true face of life with his sharp pen. In fact, life is bitter, and we need to add some sweetness.
When I was a child, I couldn't see his true face clearly under the care of my family. When I grew up, I stepped into the society, slowly learned to struggle, and saw the essence of life through experience again and again.
As long as I can remember, I always hear adults wishing each other "all the best" on festive festivals such as Spring Festival and Lantern Festival, or on auspicious days when others get married and have children.
When I was a child, I thought there really was such a fairy tale life when I watched the cartoon Snow White and Prince Charming.
Later, I grew up slowly, stepped out of my parents' umbrella step by step, and wandered alone, only to find that life was not beautiful and no dreams came true. Life is a naughty child. His favorite thing is to play tricks on others, make people come hopefully, and then leave disappointed.
When boys were young, they dreamed of becoming the best astronauts when they grew up. Later, they learned that astronauts are high-risk industries. Girls fantasize about becoming luxurious princesses when they are young. Later, they learn that princesses are only available abroad, and they also have countless sorrows.
Life is not like a fairy tale. Everything follows a beautiful and complete trajectory. It is like walking in a maze, facing east for a while and west for a while. There is no fixed direction, and the sword often goes sideways. The development is not satisfactory at all, and even likes to give us a blow when we are complacent, beating our chest and crushing our losses.
It also gradually makes us understand that not all dreams can be realized, and not all efforts can be rewarded. There are many times when life especially likes to tear up all our previous efforts in front of us and challenge us again and again.
Everyone will not give up because of suffering, but will only grow because of shoulders. Today we feel relaxed, not that life has become easier, but that we have become stronger.
Cherish what you have now and believe that what you have is the best!
"At the beginning of life, the nature is good, the nature is similar, and they are far apart." This sentence has been with me since I was a child, but as I grow older, I come into contact with people from close family to familiar classmates to strange colleagues to complete strangers. In the process of getting along with all kinds of people, my trust in this sentence has gradually changed from initial conviction to doubt.
Slowly, I became more and more convinced that "it is difficult to draw a tiger when painting a person, but it is difficult to draw a tiger's skin when painting a tiger", and I gradually understood why "it is indispensable to harm others and prevent others".
Human nature, like the mystery of the Nine Rings that troubled my whole childhood, cannot be solved or understood. She is always fickle and irregular.
Maybe one minute someone is praising how nice your new watch is, and the next you will tell others that you are vain and a bookworm. You'll never guess that people who are close to you on the surface are so complicated and dark inside. It's only a moment to love and hate someone.
There is no way to understand the sentence "only eternal interests, no eternal friends" Later, I lifted the veil of life and found that the phenomenon described in this sentence has never stopped since ancient times.
As the saying goes: "Every man for himself, the devil takes the hindmost." "People die for wealth and birds die for food." Human nature is not as kind as the Analects said. Everyone is like a piece of plasticine, which may change into various shapes and colors. It is really impossible to know whether human nature is good or evil, but human nature is indeed complex and changeable enough to easily judge a person's quality.
The world is as complicated as you say, but as long as you are simple, no matter how complicated the world is, no matter how complicated the people are, it will become simple.
The law stipulates that "everyone is equal before the law", and the socialist value orientation also tells us "freedom, equality, justice and the rule of law". However, we have to admit that the gap between the rich and the poor exists, as does the class difference, and it is impossible for everyone to be equal.
Although we strive for equality, we constantly emphasize that everyone is dignified and equal, but the fact tells us that a migrant worker working in a construction site and a senior white-collar worker working in an office are treated differently in society, just like stray dogs on the street and precious protected animals pandas.
There is a gap between different classes just like the rich and the poor, and for a long time, there is no way to completely eliminate this difference, so people from different classes have to accept different social treatment.
Only when you have tasted the bitterness of life can you feel the sweetness of life.
After all the pains and setbacks, I can still pursue my dream unswervingly and regain my hope and enthusiasm for life.
Although life itself is not as beautiful as a fairy tale, it has many cruel rules, just like the animal world, the survival of the fittest and self-healing.
But a truly courageous person, even if he can see clearly, is still willing to face the truth of life with a smile.
Life is bitter, but we can still add a little sweetness to it by ourselves.
Text/Lao Xia analyst
If I write an article, say everything and do something,
Once there are ripples in your heart, at least it means that in the past years,
At some point, we are experiencing the same feeling.
Sometimes, even though we have never met.
But I have known each other for a long time, which is subtle and satisfying.
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