How to choose an auspicious day for a hundred-day banquet should be careful.

In the custom of China people, whether it is a centenary banquet, housewarming, marriage, groundbreaking and other major events, we should choose an auspicious day, which is chosen according to the custom. The purpose is to find a lucky assistant at the right time, so as to make money and avoid disaster. So how to choose the auspicious day for the centennial banquet? Let's take a look.

How to choose an auspicious day for a hundred-day banquet

First, choose the basic principles of auspicious day:

The basic principle of choosing an auspicious day is eight words:? Take things as the key link and God as the purpose? , or? Take things as the warp and God as the weft? . These two sentences mean that we should choose an auspicious day to start with something, look for the good god who can bring the best prosperity according to the nature of what we do, and at the same time identify the evil god who is most likely to cause catastrophe, and then calculate the day when the good god is worthy of peace. Is this what we need? Jiri? With Yoshiyama Fong. Then calculate the day when evil spirits are worth it or the square, which one do you need to avoid? Mafia day? With a fierce side.

Therefore, the first step in choosing good or ill luck is to find out what the evil spirit is, its running track, good temperament, strength and the degree of good and evil, and so on. Then, according to the things to be dealt with, look for the most suitable auspicious gods and the most taboo evil gods, and seek good fortune and avoid evil. In principle, everything has one or several auspicious gods that are most suitable for it and fierce gods that are taboo for it. What you do is clear, what you should avoid is clear, and then you can get the auspicious side you want one by one according to the actions of the gods.

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Second, the choice of auspiciousness is mainly considered from three aspects:

2. See if the sun's feet are clean, that is, the sky is not fierce; What if it's a daily value? Heavenly punishment, white tiger, suzaku, Tianlong, Xuanwu, Gouchen? Such things are fierce, feet are not clean, and weddings generally don't go; If Liuhe, Kimura, Tiande and Yuedejixing are brought on the same day, it is considered auspicious. The auspicious day should also choose a good time, 24 hours a day, divided into 12 hours, that is, children, ugly, cloudy? When guarding the sea, you should choose the right time and avoid the evil.

3. finally look at the sky? Is it suitable? With what? Avoid? Yes; On every calendar, every day is marked with what to do and what not to do.

The strength of ghosts and gods is different from each other. Their so-called good and evil, good and bad, are generally in their own hands, with certain pertinence, not absolute good and evil. Good or bad depends on specific matters, and the date should be chosen according to specific matters. The things you do are different in size, so the complexity and difficulty of choosing good luck are different. The general principle is that only the date is selected for small matters, and the year and month are referenced for major matters.

The principle of choosing good or bad luck: Xie Fang, Volume 10. If you win the battle by luck, don't avoid it; Where good luck and bad luck are balanced, what is good and happy is still taboo; If good luck is not enough, then never avoid it. ?

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Three or six kinds of mixed good and bad luck.

Specifically, there are six kinds of mixed good and bad luck, and their treatment methods are nothing more than this:

First, good luck wins the battle, and it is advisable not to avoid it.

Second, it is enough for evil to be rewarded with good. When it comes to virtue, it is advisable not to avoid it. If you don't meet, you must avoid it.

Third, good luck is not equal to evil. When it comes to virtue, it is good and it is advisable not to avoid it. If you don't meet, you will never avoid it.

Fourth, fierceness is better than luck, and when it comes to virtue, it will cancel each other out and can never be avoided; If you don't meet, you will never avoid it.

Fifth, if you encounter fierce, you should not avoid it when you encounter virtue; If you don't meet, everything is taboo.

Sixth, the fierce stack is fierce, and everything is still taboo in Germany.

It is not a fierce encounter, no matter how strong or weak it is.

Four, twelve on duty

Ancient calendarists determined good luck or bad luck by observing the values of 12 days' construction, division, fullness, equality, determination, persistence, destruction, danger, completion, collection, opening and closing. Overlap two duty days every month, and the method shall be subject to the monthly construction, which corresponds to the meaning of bucket. For example, if the first month is cloudy, it will be built on the cloudy day and on the twelfth day.

"Huainanzi" said: If Yin is built in the first month, Yin will be built, base points, Chen Man, Si Ping will be the main student; Noon is fixed, not used for holding, the main trap; Shen is breaking, the main balance; Unitary is dangerous, the main ladle; Persistence, the main virtue; The sea is harvest, mainly preparation; Zi Kai, the main grandson; Ugly and closed, the Lord is too cloudy.

Twelve on duty means that twelve satellites are on duty in turn. Twelve stars: construction, division, enrichment, peace, determination, persistence, success, acceptance, destruction, danger, opening and closing. The Gregorian calendar uses twelve stars to repeatedly observe its value, so as to judge good or bad luck.

Generally speaking, each word is worth one day, but there are also two consecutive days. The order is this: What is the period of the moon column on the same day as the earthly branch of the moon column? Build? Day. ? Build? Lord of January. So from where? Build? Uprising. ? Build? And after that? Except? ,? Except for the old cloth and the new one? . One gives birth to two, two gives birth to three, and three is very numerous, so it's called? Full? . When it is full, it will overflow, and when it overflows, it will be flat. So? Full? And after that? Ping? The level is fixed and the rules can be enforced, so it is sequential? Settings? For what? Keep? . Persistence means persistence, things can't be destroyed, so follow? Is it broken? . If you break, you know the danger, if you know the danger, you will succeed, and if you succeed, you will get it. So what? Is it broken? And after that? Dangerous? For what? Become? For what? Accept? . Where to? Accept? The number is exactly ten, and ten is the limit number, but there is no ultimate reason for the number. Is it necessary? Open? Don't be too open-minded, but be restrained and obedient. Closed? . ? Only it can be closed, so it can be re-established? , cycle after cycle.

There are two kinds of ecliptic days: Little ecliptic day and Great ecliptic day. The great ecliptic day is usually calculated by Qinglong ecliptic, with six auspicious days in the ecliptic and six ominous days in the underworld; At the same time, the twelve hours of the underworld are also calculated by the ecliptic. The zodiac day is a row of twelve satellites, headed by the moon. Because it is not universal, it is called Xiao Huang Dao Day.

Since the first day after beginning of spring? Build? One person a day, in this order. Repeat the sacred value of the previous day in each festival; * * * Repeat 12 times a year (twelve satellites are arranged in the order of construction, division, fullness, leveling, determination, implementation, destruction, danger, success, customs clearance, opening and closing), just to ensure that the first day after beginning of spring next year is? Build? . For example, in the first month of the lunar calendar, what is the first day of the lunar calendar? Build? What is the next day? Except? What is the third day? Full; The base will be built in February. What is the first benchmark date in February? Build? What is the next day? Except, wait.

The twelve stars are also classified as Mafia Day or Zodiac Day respectively, 12:

Create a flat income-black (underworld);

Eliminate danger and stick to it-yellow (ecliptic);

Cheng Kai-can be used (ecliptic);

Break it-don't be a robber.

Whether it is the zodiac or the underworld, there are advantages and disadvantages. Good or bad luck depends on specific matters, not fixed. Choose the date according to the specific matters.

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Customs of Babies' Hundred Days Banquet in Different Places

1, good luck

Friends and relatives should give gifts, such as gold and silver longevity locks, gold and silver longevity clocks, gifts, greetings, couplets, silver stoves, silver ding, silver bottles, silver plates or bowls engraved with Kirin's gift patterns, etc. The clothes the baby wears are also exquisite. Old Beijing is exquisite: menstruation gives cloth and menstruation does work? . Aunt and aunt make a suit for their children together, deliberately making two sleeves or trouser legs of different colors. It is said that children can support themselves by wearing such clothes, so aunts and aunts should send clothes, shoes and hats. During the hundred years, there is also a saying that aunts send socks and aunts send shoes.

Pay attention to the shoes and hats for children, and send a tiger hat to the boy, wishing him a dignified and energetic growth. Give the little girl a lotus hat and wish her water like lotus. The first pair of shoes for children should be tiger-headed shoes, commonly known as cat shoes in old Beijing, which means to guide children to see the road and know the way without stumbling. These are some simple customs of giving children a hundred days in old Beijing. What else can you offer? All-god paper code? 、? Send the empress? 、? Have a holiday party? And other customs, can't see now.

Step 2 hang up the phone

In northwest Jilin, the baby will go to grandma's house after a hundred days, and grandma will hang a dotted line around her neck to get it. Fasten it? With what? Longevity Meaning.

3. Wear a five-poison pocket

In rural areas of Hebei, there is a custom of wearing five poisons for children over 100 years old. The so-called five-poison bag is to embroider five kinds of poisonous insects such as scorpion, centipede, gecko, snake and toad on the small bag worn by the baby, and embroider a small gourd on the upper left corner or upper right corner of the bag, with the mouth of the gourd facing the five kinds of poisonous insects.

4、? Last name? custom

In Yang Rong, there is a way to recognize relatives, which is similar to that in Sichuan, Shaanxi and Changdao County. Last name? . When a child is born for a full moon or more than 100 days, parents will take the child out at sunrise, and the first person they meet will recognize them as adoptive parents. The other is more common in baby boys. The family of the baby boy will lock the door on his nose. At the full moon, whoever comes to his house first is asked to unlock the lock, and the person who unlocks the lock is regarded as an adoptive parent. Every year when a child goes to the adoptive parents' house on his birthday, the adoptive mother will send a lock, one for each year, until 12 years old. These days, parents have to buy clothes for their adopted children. Lock? It means that the relationship is firm, and then the lock is removed. This is called "unlocking". In the future, every major festival, wedding, funeral and wedding, the two dry relatives will be the host.

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