Look at the sky with children.

It is difficult to change the fate by caesarean section by date-in the highly competitive social environment of Hongdu community, some people choose to give their children a good fate by caesarean section by date, hoping to change their fate. If you choose a good day to have a baby, will you become another person with a good fate? I'm not religious, but I think any decision should be considered comprehensively, so I'll also talk about my opinion. When it comes to looking at the date, the book says that it is to choose the date and auspicious day. In ancient times, it was called "choosing" and "dropping auspicious day", and the folks called it "looking at the date" and "picking the date". ..... Looking at the date is the custom of choosing an auspicious date and place according to certain methods, aiming at specific events, with the aim of avoiding misfortune. The specific method is: based on the trunk and branch of the calendar, plus the system of Eight Diagrams, nine planets, Twenty-eight Nights, Twelve Straight Lines, Six Obsidian Lines, Heavenly Stem Lines, Earthly Branches, Five Elements, Year, Month, Day and Time, and at the same time, calculate and judge whether the time position of the things done by the parties is auspicious. From the point of view of numerology, it is to distinguish their different forces by punishment, impulsion, punishment, harm, association and combination, as well as various gods of good and evil and evil. A Buddhist believer put it this way: "The purpose of looking at the sky is to bring the factors of time and space into various activities in life. Sign a contract from the beginning of business; Celebrate engagement and marriage; Go to see a doctor for medicine, visit patients and so on. Everyone should choose a suitable auspicious day and avoid an ominous day. However, not all auspicious days are suitable for everyone. For example, although it is an auspicious day, it is unlucky for him to offend someone. In other words, he should not choose this day to engage in activities. Therefore, judging whether it is suitable only by the yellow calendar contains high personal risks. " Buddhism believes that BB's soul has entered the embryo as early as the moment when parents made a synthetic fetus. Therefore, looking at the date of birth will only change his fortune, and will not turn the pregnant soul into another person. Undeniably, we can't believe all the predestinations, nor can we believe them. Having children on a good day will have a good end, and having children on a bad day will have a bad end. But people who don't know the date may have an illusion when choosing the date, that is, the date of a person's birth will not be formed on that day, depending on the eight-character combination formed by his date. Although your date of birth is good, your date of birth is not good, so you are unlucky. Maybe BB may not have a good eight-character combination at the expected date of delivery; Maybe when the operation is scheduled, the doctor will not come to the operation on time, or BB will come out early. Maybe BB chose a good day for them because of bad fate, not a person who is either rich or expensive, and fate is as hard as fate. Medically speaking, one of the reasons for choosing caesarean section is that the fetus is too big to give birth naturally. The second reason is that women are afraid of the pain of natural delivery, so they choose caesarean section. The third reason is that the fetus is delivered through the vagina during normal delivery, which easily leads to vaginal relaxation and affects the sexual life of husband and wife in the future. However, caesarean section also has many disadvantages. First, the children born by caesarean section are immature and may not be smart enough to have children. Second, caesarean section is a kind of mental and physical trauma to the parturient. Caesarean section is an operation with corresponding risks. Massive bleeding and collateral injury may occur during operation, and urinary, cardiovascular and respiratory complications may occur after operation. There may also be poor healing of uterine incision, late postpartum hemorrhage, formation of abdominal sinus, long-term non-healing of incision, intestinal adhesion or endometriosis. The recovery of uterus and whole body after operation is slower than that of natural delivery. Third, during pregnancy and childbirth, it is possible to rupture the uterus from the original uterine incision. If the original incision does not heal well, it will cause long-term adverse effects if laparotomy is needed again during delivery. So it's hard to know whether it's a blessing or a curse, and it's hard to change fate. It seems that it is better to let nature take its course and follow the laws of nature or even providence. In one's life, knowledge is an important factor to change one's destiny, and success can only be achieved by hard work.