Will you be unwilling to get married because there is no wedding?

The main reason why my wife and I didn't have a wedding was that we didn't have money.

Secondly, because I don't want a wedding in a rural county, I want a wedding of our own.

We are very self-reliant. For us, getting married is our own business. I didn't ask for a penny from my family after graduating from college, so we never thought about what marriage would cost my parents.

In 20 12, we ended our eight-year love run, so I told her that the eight-year anti-Japanese war was over, so let's get married. We pay for our own wedding photos; Then go back to Changsha to get the certificate, because our hukou was still in Changsha at that time.

We have figured it out: getting married is our own business. If we decide on that person, let's go on without hesitation. Because he and I are the kind of people who struggle far away from home and big cities. When we got married, we didn't get married, but two people got a license and formed a family. Parents can't help us. They can't support our future life. We can only go down on our own. In that case, why should we listen to them? They really know us. Do they know what we want?

My husband and I are completely independent financially and can make our own decisions.

I decided to get married and chose a "good day" to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a certificate, even if I got married.

After receiving the certificate, it depends on how we "advertise" in the circle of friends, and then how to live.

Without a wedding, how can this fashionable way for young people to get married convince their parents?

I take care of my parents and he takes care of them.

My husband and I have a marriage rule: help each other in the same boat and live a good life. At the same time, we should control our parents and maintain a relatively stable relationship. Parents have to listen to us. Respect our young couple's ideas.

A wedding in a rural county is definitely not what I want. I don't know anyone The two of us stood on the wedding ceremony platform like a "big fool". What's the significance of this wedding? It's a waste of money and especially troublesome. There are a lot of red tape, so it is better not to have such a wedding.

In addition, I have been working hard in Shenzhen for two years after graduation, living a fast-paced life in Shenzhen, and I don't want to get tired again because of marriage.

I can accept a marriage without a wedding. I can choose to compromise for love, but that person should be worth it.

Only because of you, I am willing to be so wronged.

Of course, if the economy is well off in the future, my husband and I may have a simple wedding and invite friends from both sides to have dinner. It is enough for everyone to talk and laugh together.

I don't value form, but I value two people more.