Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Lucky day inquiry - What do you mean, men are not allowed to go to the first grade and women are not allowed to go to the fifteenth grade?

What do you mean, men are not allowed to go to the first grade and women are not allowed to go to the fifteenth grade?

Boys can't be born on the first day of the lunar new year, and girls can't be born on the fifteenth day of the first month. It is a local custom, belonging to feudal superstition, unscientific and unreliable. Some parties are just the opposite. The first emperor (male) and the fifteenth queen (female) mean how rich they are.

One is the first day of the first month, that is, the first day of the new year, which is a day of leisure and excitement. But if your family gives birth to a child on this day, it is considered to make parents fidgety and can't even spend the New Year. I think I was born to make trouble at home, so I don't want to have a baby on this day.

The other is the fifteenth day of the first month, that is, the Lantern Festival, that is, the day of reunion. But some places say that if girls are born and raised on this day, they will be playful, and their parents will not discipline them, which will eventually hurt their parents.

Extended data

In the old society, there were many taboos between urban and rural residents, which were manifested in all aspects of people's behavior. There are reasonable taboos, but most of them are feudal superstitions.

For example, choosing an auspicious day, commonly known as the next day, means that the man proposes a wedding date to the woman. Please ask the Yin and Yang teachers to work out the auspicious day first, and avoid Singles' Day and Dark Day. There are still two days, especially Flower Festival and Laba Festival. After choosing, write the happy event on red paper and give the gift to the woman by the matchmaker. If the woman has no objection, the two sides will begin to prepare for the marriage.

Unreasonable taboos are gradually diluted and banned with the progress of society and the improvement of scientific knowledge.