Is the wedding date chosen according to the age of the woman or the age of the man?

When choosing an auspicious day for marriage, both men and women should choose the same day and take care of both parents. It was called remonstrance in ancient times; It takes several iterations to set an auspicious day. First, men and women exchange birthdays; Then, according to the horoscope of both men and women, the man sets an approximate date and sends it to the woman, which is called a small suggestion; The woman examines whether it is beneficial to the woman or unfavorable to her parents according to the woman's eight characters, avoids the menstrual period of the woman to be married, and replies to modify the marriage. Return to the male family and finalize the wedding date after overall consideration. Sent to the woman's house, this is called a big suggestion. It's different now. Just sit together and study together.