What are the wedding customs of Xining people in Qinghai?

Marriage custom in Xining refers to the marriage custom of people in Xining area of Qinghai Province. Xining is an inland open city determined by the State Council. It can be said that the speed of its economic development is amazing. The cultural and historical background of Xining area is still very rich, with cultural characteristics, and the marriage customs in Xining are also very attractive. Most people living in Xining are Han people, but the marriage customs and habits of Han people in Xining are different from those in other places, and traditional marriage customs and habits have been added in some places. Let's take a look at the wedding customs in Xining with Bian Xiao and help those friends who want to marry Xining people.

First of all, people in Xining must get engaged before they get married. On the day of engagement, the man should bring jewelry, gifts and four kinds of gifts to the woman's house before 12 and leave before 4 pm.

Secondly, to determine the wedding date, the man will inform the woman's home before 12, and invite her parents to visit the man's home on the auspicious day of the zodiac and leave before 4 pm. When the woman goes to the man's house, she must also agree on the engagement date, wedding date, jewelry, dowry, banquet and other matters with the man before 12, and leave before 4 pm.

Third, the wedding of Xining people to marry their wives is very special. It's all in the middle of the night. They can't see the sun. Usually around three o'clock in the morning, the man starts to leave and marry the bride home before dawn. This marriage custom can be said to have a great relationship with ancient marriage customs. Because the Qiang people in ancient Qinghai were vast and sparsely populated, it was very difficult to get a wife, so they always took young girls as wives, so they got married at night for fear that their wives would be robbed.

Finally, after reading the wedding customs in Xining, do you find it interesting? In fact, the wedding custom in Xining is also said to be "apart from the mother's flesh and blood, all are lovely." It can be said that the wedding customs in Xining have the characteristics of both local traditional wedding customs and other local wedding customs, which makes the wedding customs in Xining more interesting and auspicious. If you want to marry a Xining person, don't be too nervous, because the older generation is experienced and will give great help to make the whole wedding smooth and perfect.