To my parents-in-law in heaven

At dawn on April 7, a seemingly ordinary day was an unusual day for Hu's family. A tenacious heart suddenly stopped beating, and a great mother passed away quietly at the age of 9 1! Your children have been waiting for you for a long time, but you still left and went to another country! To reunite with relatives in that world! April 13, 2022 (the 13th day of the third lunar month) is the last day for a great mother to stay in this world. Taking this opportunity, while I bid farewell to a great mother, I also fulfilled my promise in the memorial to my father-in-law on Qingming Online two years ago. No matter what happened in the past two years, my prayers and blessings never stopped. Here, I want to make a simple speech to my father-in-law and my mother-in-law who have never met before. Listening to my mother-in-law and my brothers and sisters telling the story of growing up, I drew a picture in my mind, and I gradually integrated into this big family of five men and two women.

This is really a big family. Big sister and fifth brother are 2 1 year old. Much like the age difference between my mother and aunt, or the age difference between my aunt and my fourth aunt, I don't have much effort to integrate into this big family. Even if there are occasional small emotions, think about the tenacity and tolerance of mom and dad, and it will soon pass. I have to admit that the influence of family background on a person's life is really deep!

Elder sister is 7 1 year-old, the oldest. She has been diligent and sensible since she was a child, helping her mother-in-law with housework and even serving her mother-in-law. I don't know how much sweat is hidden in my brother and sister's shoes. It's a pity that my brother-in-law died nine months ago, leaving her alone to guard such a big yard. Fortunately, both my daughters have grown up. Lingling and I were born on August 15 of the same year, and now we are both 50 years old. Twenty-two days older than me, I heard from my sister that Ling and her fourth uncle and fifth uncle were playmates who grew up together. Now both daughters are married, filial to their parents-in-law and raising children. The eldest son-in-law works in the people's hospital and the second son-in-law works in the coal mine. In particular, the fourth generation of great-grandchildren was led by Mao Rui. She has many little uncles and aunts, and now she has lived up to expectations. She will enter the bank through layers of checkpoints. This is the first person for your great-grandson to go to society and benefit one side. The second one was born in the same year as the nephew of the eldest brother's family, and his daughter Qiqi also went to junior high school. Really old! Unconsciously, I have reached the age of knowing my destiny!

Sister's home is in Sangwa, not far from our home. I can't forget her walking back to her mother's house to watch you wash and mend.

Sometimes I think my sister is a little cautious, which may be related to the boss at home. My sister's experience is somewhat similar to my mother's, and I often think of my sister when I miss my mother.

Yesterday, I heard two nieces talk about the great changes of my sister after her death. I seem to understand the meaning of this sentence, "Young couples are old friends". We should cherish the hard-won fate of husband and wife.

Eldest brother is sixty-nine years old, the eldest son of the family. Now he and his sister-in-law are getting thinner and thinner. Every time I see him, I can't help but think of his speech at our wedding: self-reliance and hard work. This is a family tradition that needs to be passed down from generation to generation. We all remember what our eldest brother taught us. The millet of the eldest brother's family also nourishes the younger brothers and sisters. I can't forget my sister-in-law's busy figure at the big brother's family reunion dinner, and the beautiful and affectionate insole that my sister-in-law sewed for us. Longlong, the only son of Big Brother's family, is your eldest grandson. He and my fourth aunt still have deep feelings. I remember when we were still in the basement of the unit, Longlong went to our house, but he didn't dislike my cooking. I'm not picky about my unsatisfied taste. Now that he has grown up and got married, he can't forget that when he got married, we ran around for his wedding car and used all kinds of resources to finally get what we wanted. In those days when there were few cars, I was only thirty-four or five years old when Fengfeng called me grandma. In a blink of an eye, he is preparing for the senior high school entrance examination, and every exam is the first in the school! Are you particularly proud? I believe our family will get better and better!

In the past 60 to 24 years, we have felt the care of our second brother: potatoes and corn meet the supply every year. Once upon a time, all mung beans and red beans and bags of cucumbers, tomatoes and beans witnessed the second brother's care for his younger brothers and sisters. In the past 24 years, we didn't go back to our hometown for the New Year only twice. Every New Year, my son follows my second uncle to learn something new that I have never seen in the city. Even in the early years, hens laid eggs, mules ate forage and cats and dogs. When he returned to his hometown in summer, his son always followed his uncle to pick vegetables in the field and tried to identify all kinds of crops. In short, life in the countryside is fresh and attractive!

I remember that when my second brother was sick in the early years, it also touched our hearts. On the day when his memory declined, his second brother only remembered the past, but he could not forget many things he said when he was young. Even he can't remember what he ate or who he met two hours ago. We tried our best to seek medical advice, and finally managed to control his illness. Now the second brother is old and his physical strength is not as good as before. However, he is a hero in caring for his mother-in-law, especially in the last three or four years, when her mother-in-law suffered from Alzheimer's disease. She is more like an old child, and everything she says and does can't be completely controlled by herself. Second brother takes care of her mother-in-law like a child, sometimes coaxing, sometimes teasing, and sometimes bunk bed hugs. She really practices "you support me and I will accompany you." Sometimes I have to be scolded by my mother-in-law for no reason. My second brother is reasonable and never argues with his mother-in-law. Day after day, year after year, he takes care of my elderly mother-in-law for my brothers and sisters and guards our family. My second brother and my mother-in-law have been living together for so many years. In the past, my second brother was most worried about cooking, but in the last three or four years, my second brother has cooked three meals a day, and my second brother has practiced filial piety with practical actions. At this point, the second brother's contribution is unparalleled. We will always remember your efforts!

Third brother's home is in North West Branch. In recent years, after the death of Sansao, the third brother and Sansao found a job in Taiyuan while farming in the village. A family of four finally lives in the same city, and each member has made great achievements in society. The only fly in the ointment is that the two sons are not married yet. If you know, you should take good care of your two nephews and find your ideal partner as soon as possible. This is third brother's home. After you left, third brother went home for the first time. During this time, the third brother neglected the farm work in the field and was busy in our old house all day long. The aggravation of the epidemic prevented Sansao and Wang Xiao from coming back to attend the funeral, but Sansao missed her mother-in-law. I often express my grief for you through the internet through the screen. As we all know, the country comes first, and our Hu descendants must not add chaos to the country. I believe my mother-in-law will understand!

My sister-in-law always appreciates her mother-in-law when she talks about it. Sometimes I was told to wash clothes for my mother-in-law, and sometimes I chatted with her. When I return to work in Taiyuan, I will never forget to visit my mother-in-law in Nanxi. My third sister-in-law told me many stories of my wife's childhood. Thank you, sister-in-law, for locking up so many beautiful memories for me, so that I can admire and pursue my lover all my life!

This time, I personally met Foer's understanding. He is really a rare good boy, with life in his eyes, love in his heart and hard work. He is so considerate to everyone and everything! I don't know which lucky woman can marry such a man who is well known for his hot and cold, patient and meticulous, and diligent in every job! I look forward to the early arrival of such a girl!

My second sister's family has the largest number of children among our brothers and sisters. She has mastered her martial arts skills. She is good at washing clothes, cooking and cleaning the house, including needlework. When my son was a child, he could play with his aunt for half a day, and when he came back, he praised her for her good cooking. Even her son, who never eats, can make a great breakthrough under her meticulous creation. Sometimes I miss the cornmeal cake made by my second sister, and sometimes I think it would be great if I could cook as well as my second sister! Plus the second brother-in-law has a super good temper, and the second brother-in-law is hardworking and willing to bear hardships. He kept working until he was over 60, which was good for everyone in his family. This is really a pair of fairy companions.

According to Wei Wei, the second sister seems a little angry at menopause in recent years. Unconsciously, my second brother-in-law is 6 1 years old, but he still insists on driving to make money. From him, I saw a man's responsibility. It's really amazing that a person earns money to support a family of five! Now the second brother-in-law and the second sister have been upgraded to the old father-in-law and mother-in-law.

The eldest daughter, Hong Hong, is 38 years old. She married Haibo and fought together. She has a house and a car in Beijing, and it is quite difficult for her to get a foothold. They have a son named Jiu-Er, who is now in kindergarten and has taken a tender step.

The second daughter, Min Min, is 33 years old, kind and practical. The second son-in-law is driving a bus now, which is a very hard job, but she never complains about being tired and is conscientious. The two have deep feelings, and the scene of this niece helping me pack ketchup always appears in front of me. Such a baby is really rare in this generation.

Wei Wei, the only son of the second sister's family, is also 28 years old this year. I met him last year. He is much fatter than in previous years. This baby has a high emotional intelligence, and my son especially liked to play with him when he was a child. Now I have opened my own supermarket at a young age, and I have achieved self-reliance at a young age. Not every young person has such an opportunity!

Brother Wu and I were born in the same year, two months older than me, and Sister Wu is three years younger than us. In the first few years of her marriage, we spent the New Year together at her mother-in-law's house, slept on a hot kang with her mother-in-law, and had a brief chat with her parents. The three of us are the youngest children in the family and seem to be spoiled by the three families more than other brothers and sisters. Sometimes I can't help being willful in "Origin and Fate", which I discovered when I studied classics and visited myself three times a day in recent years. However, with the growth of age and more and more social roles, this habit has gradually decreased a lot. Sometimes I miss the love of my parents, brothers and sisters. In the end, when no one in society pays for you, you have to bear the pain brought by growth.

The fifth man is driving a cart now, and his skills are excellent. I went to the graveyard these days and saw his superb skills many times on the rugged mountain road. No wonder the fifth man took on the responsibility of a family with his own skill.

Brother Wu has a daughter, Wenjing, 19 years old, the only girl among Hu's grandchildren! I have a leading academic record, and now I am a sophomore. However, the growing child seems to be under great pressure to study. Her fourth uncle is her math teacher, which gives the child a little pressure invisibly. I hope you can put down your baggage and travel light, and you will be admitted to an ideal university next year!

Yuaner is your fourth son and I am your fourth daughter-in-law. Two years ago, when the epidemic struck, the state advocated online sweeping activities. I wrote a eulogy to my father-in-law, whom I had never met. More than two years have passed, and I have been asking myself to fulfill my promise in the eulogy. Now my mother-in-law left with joy before she died. I have heard the phrase "five men, two women and seven children meet again" for twenty-four years. In the last three or five days, my mother-in-law saw everything she thought.

Both Yuan Er and I are high school teachers and work very hard, especially Yuan Er, who gets up at 5: 30 all the year round and goes to bed at 1 1. I complained about him at first, but after learning the classic appellation of filial piety in traditional culture, I understood my husband's filial piety and finally got a foothold. Yuanji is a well-deserved role model for his son at work. Slowly, I also understand the hardships and difficulties of Yuaner.

The fly in the ointment is that my daughter-in-law is weak, which has caused a lot of troubles to my family and children. In the 24 years since I married Yuaner, I was ill 18 years. Yuaner never leaves, and I feel guilty when I think about it. After my son's car accident in the last four years, I entered the classics and saved my helpless heart. From then on, I used a magnifying glass to look for the advantages of others every day, examined my own shortcomings with a microscope, always put myself in others' shoes, and gradually lived what I wanted. After the operation in 2020, I pressed the pause button at work and chose to leave the podium. Now I am also very diligent, and I work hard to complete every job assigned to me by my unit.

Yuaner and I have a son named Xiao Fei. Along the way, we endured the harshness of our teachers and parents and took on a lot of housework brought by our mother's infirmity. In 20 18, we experienced another car accident, which frightened the children and made Yuaner and I reflect a lot. Think about our work, we can't stop, and we give too little love and care to our children. Only then did we begin to give our son unconditional love. Now he has gone to an ideal university in Xi 'an, and everything is developing in an excellent direction. Unfortunately, because of the epidemic, my grandson couldn't come back to see grandma off on the last trip. I hope you can understand. A kiss in your bones is a real kiss. This is manifested in my son.

Father-in-law died 1995, and your family described that you had esophageal cancer. At that time, the family conditions were not good. In order not to add any burden to your family, you insist on not seeing a doctor. It can be said that in the end, you were so painful that you couldn't eat a mouthful of rice or drink a mouthful of water. Finally, the internal organs are rotten. You use your tenacity to insist on not filling even a little financial burden for this family. This has also become a lifelong regret for children. From the moment I walked into our home, my wish has always been "home and everything is prosperous", and I have done my bit with my own efforts.

If there really is an existence beyond life, then my wish is that there is no pain and no dispute in heaven, only happiness, peace and happiness. If you can really see your children and grandchildren, I think you will bless your children and grandchildren for generations to come!

Mother-in-law: I wasn't there when you left for the first time, but according to my second sister's description, you are soft and should have gone to a perfect place. You have raised so many children all your life, and trained them skillfully to do it themselves, try and practice. This alone deserves my admiration and imitation. You lost your father in childhood, your daughter in middle age and your husband in old age. Widowed for 27 years. You are strong enough to bear all this. This great mother is really not easy. Finally, I want to end with a eulogy specially written for you and say goodbye to you:

Sacrifice to mother

April 13, 2022, is my mother's auspicious day, and unfilial men and women lead the whole family. I would like to pay tribute to the spirit of Lord Slayu and call on:

Oh!

I feel sorry for my mother for driving the crane west. Family happiness is one in 90. I am unfilial, I wish you a loving mother. Blood tears, tears of dust. It makes me sad to think of maternal love. Last words are lingering, and the remains are full of eyes. Recalling the past is heartbreaking. Children and grandchildren beat their chests and feet, tears streaming down their faces. I want to use this article to pay homage to my mother! Generous and virtuous, diligent and housekeeping, self-improvement, boundless merits, clear algae and rich breasts. Simple and faithful, you will gain something. Five children and two women, with hard work, are not rich, have lofty aspirations, live a simple life, enjoy themselves, set an example for the benefit of future generations, inherit their father's business, prosper their family business, live under one roof for four generations, and enjoy family happiness. There is a living method in the world, self-denial and courtesy. Honest and kind, harmonious neighborhood, caring for others, better than close relatives. Raise our generation and cherish it. Teach your children to be upward and have morality. Seriously improve the level of education. The virtue of such a person is the deep kindness of the mother. How to repay, but to work diligently. Make progress every day and be diligent in everything. Lan Guiteng Fang, Guangzong Yaozu. My mother has spirit, bless my children and grandchildren. Everything goes well, everything goes well. Alas, I am still satisfied!

? Son, daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law and son-in-law bring their grandchildren to worship together.

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